Made her angry and she’s here try not responding

So long story short, last night I sent her a message which came across as really harsh after I felt like she is being flakey things. I was talking about some of my concerns but voiced them in a way in which I probably shouldn’t have, must have came across harsh on her end.

she responded a few hours later showing clear displeasure at my message, I quickly apologised when I seen it the next morning but reasserted that I stand by my concerns.

earlier today I realised I was out of order. I sent her a message saying “I have been a massive d*** to you last night with the way I spoke to you and for that I apologise that wasn’t fair on you in any way. I shouldn’t have cussed you out like I did, that was disrespectful from me and I’m sorry. The points that have been on my mind the last couple of days, I expressed them in the wrong way, I promise you, I wasn’t angry and I understand my choice of wording doesn’t back that claim up”

she has read it but hasn’t replied, this was around 7 hours ago. How should I best go about this to fix my mistake? Do I leave her to cool off or do try and resolve it?

if I message again I’m thinking either this -

” I was a pr**k last night and I own up to that, I was out of line in the way I spoke to you. Call me every name under the sun, take the piss out of my toxic trait coming to the fore, or you can simply give me a big slap or 2, I know that’s the one you’d most like 😂 however, don’t avoid talking to me that’s not fair, no matter how much you feel I deserve it after last night (and probably do)”

or this -

“How much do you want to slap me after last night? “

open to suggestions, I genuinely feel bad for the way I spoke to her, it was mainly because she has expressed to me on many a time that she enjoys being told off and being put in her place, not because I genuinely wanted to talk to her like that.