Talking stage
So we have being in the "talking stage" for 3+ months now, he asked me out on a date twice and both times he ignored and came up with a new excuse ..
We are still talking, and I do like him I just don't know if he ever gonna take any step or am I just wasting my time ..
For the past two weeks he has been busy a lot so I know for a fact that if I tried talking to him about that he will just say that he has been busy and that I should be more considerate.
Hi! I understand things come up last minute because life is funny like that, but there seems to be a pattern. You can always take the initiative to ask if you guys will be going on a date soon, show that you’re interested and ready. If he uses an excuse or say that you’re being inconsiderate because he has things going on, make him know that you’re a busy person too and you understand that things come up. If he is willing to go out with you that’s great! But if he makes another excuse it might be best for you to distance yourself because he’s just not putting in the effort.
hope all goes well!🤍
@aqua98
Relationships no matter what stage they're in should have mutual respect for the other person! If it comes down to it I would try to have a rather more serious conversation with him if you can.
@aqua98
OK. 3 months just trying to get a single date, so your relationship with him at best if it ever moves anywhere - you’re going to see him not even four times a year at this rate? 😂
We all have the same 24 hours each day. We choose our priorities every day. If someone has no time for you, it shows you very much how little they care. People will make time for you if they value you; or they will make excuses if they don’t!
CatsInTheCradle
He is wasting your time, sidelining you. If they wanted anything further they would have made the move.
it’s time for you to sideline them, start new conversations with new people and move forward x
