Her
We've been through so much. I wouldn't have survived if she didn't keep me from the edge as did I. She saved me and I fell madly in love with her and when I finally got better I allowed myself a chance and I told her I'm in love with her. She said she was dating someone else it break up our friendship but I shouldn't be still in love with her but like I said she and I have been through so much. We motivated each other picked each other up when we were down and we're about to give up life and I just fell in love with her and I thought and still do and think it's crazy but don't care, she's in love with me too. I want to tell her she loves me too but I can't because it sounds crazy and it's not fair to her and for now I love her from a distance even though I want to tell her "I love you"
@Deli138
it is not crazy when people go through an emotional phase with someone they often feel a bond and they may have intense feelings .... it is always a good thing to hear and she may be torn between her current BF and wondering if her trauma bond is real.....
I say if you do not take a chance to say what you need to ...... it may bother you for a long time the what if's
I'm not sure if you're telling me if I should say to her that she love me too I made a mistake in my thread I meant to write "it didn't breakup our friendship". But if you are what am I supposed to do tell her to leave her boyfriend for me? It's not fair and there's a possibility it'll break up my friendship with her even if I say "you're not in love with him, you don't have those feelings for him like you do for me that you developed for these 5 years". I'm scared she be *** off and I'll have ruined our friendship.
@Deli138
WE can never tell others how they feel even if we think we know ... i am saying you can explain how YOU feel and if there was any chance or feelings on ger part she would need to examine those based on really knowing how you feel.
MOST relationship and Friendship issues are made when we guess what they think or feel ... and expect them to somehow KNOW how we feel being open that you have feelings may cause issues or make it awkward for a short time but life and love with out risk is often very bland.