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User Profile: proactiveYard5156
proactiveYard5156 April 19th, 2024

I was dating my boyfriend for 8 months. At first, till almost 1-2 months ago, he was really intimate. He was trying to do everything. He was the one who always trying to do his best to see me, answering the calls or messages right away, buying me flowers, and all of sudden he started acting different.. claimed he is not happy by answering calls right away or wont be able to call even for 5 minutes as he was in a business trip because he wanted to be by himself..


we had some discussions as i was feeling he keep getting further till last night as he mentioned he understood those triggers and would try his best to fix it…today we finally met after a week and he stayed at my house for couple of hours just saying he doesn’t wanna do something and that he is tired..


all of sudden he asked if he can leave early as he needs to get ready for going to a vip lounge with his friend which made me surprised because he never talked about it. So i asked him why i cant go or why doesn’t he ask his friend to come to my place that i can see him too.. i never met any of his friends…


he said he is not sure if i have any clothes which would fit to there and he wanna meet him there… i got shocked and we had a fight he left so i blocked him from everywhere feeling getting used and manipulated.


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User Profile: Loki236
Loki236 April 20th, 2024

@proactiveYard5156 

Your feeling in this situation is valid and it’s understandable for you to have reacted and felt the way you did. It is clear that he made you feel like he wasn’t being entirely honest with you and that perhaps there was something that he wasn’t telling you.

I do hope you find your closure and are able to process this situation.

User Profile: happyaccident2233
happyaccident2233 April 23rd, 2024

I think this is exactly what he was trying you to do, block him, so he doesn't have to break up.