Wishing and wanting
I want me a partner that’ll be obsessed with me (in a good way)
That’ll text me all the time
That’ll text me first
That’ll respond as fast as they can
That won’t ignore me
That’ll love me way more than I love them
I want me a partner that’s funny
That’s super sweet
That’s super good at listening and comforting
That’s just as loving and affectionate as me
That’s got a hot voice and/or a hot accent
That’s all
@Shantay
Hi there. It sounds like you know what you want and why shouldn’t you. You deserve the best and someone who loves big like you do. Wishing you the best.
Thats a dream .. I pray it happens for you 💛
@Shantayx0x0
Thank you so much 🥹💛
There is a lot of healthy wants in this list, for sure. Wanting affection and consistency, humor and sweetness, mutual connection, and attraction. It's important to know these things that are at the core of what you want for future happiness. Devotion and passion are a wonderful things to share with someone!
I would say some things I've found in my current journey are that you there needs to be a balance and reciprocity in the love. Always aim for the give and take dynamic. I'm recovering from co-dependency where I tried to find too much happiness in the happiness of my spouse instead of finding it for myself and who I want to be. To her, she loved the attention at the start but grew to see me as an emotional vampire instead of an emotional nurturer.
That assuredness and confidence in who you are as a full individual (mentally, physically, spiritually, socially) is what I believe really can be draw the right kind of love into you. It's like building an unbreakable aura of attraction that is authentic and real. If the object of your attraction doesn't recognize it over time as a consistent presence, then the worst case is you have bettered yourself and are in a better place to attract the right kind of person who appreciates you for who you really are :-)
