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Listeners Leaving people in need

User Profile: Devin44
Devin44 August 3rd, 2022

Almost every time I try to contact a listener it's because it's been a rough week and I need to vent or talk about something and get a new opinion or just have someone listen. So many just start to leave people in mid conversation making us feel worse than when we started

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User Profile: torchr84
torchr84 August 3rd, 2022

Sorry that happened to you.

User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath August 3rd, 2022

@Devin44

I have faced the same and it is really frustrating I agree 😣

I don't like to generalize because I've had somewhat good experiences with new listeners and not yet verified ones too in the past but others suggest that it is better to stick to verified listeners for quality support

https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=&find=&sort=&ageGroup=&listType=&country=&category=&gender=&language=&verifiedlistener=on

I really hope you can find support

I also encourage you to report the listeners that leave midway without informing or those that never come back so they can improve on this


User Profile: XMXTTX3X
XMXTTX3X August 3rd, 2022

I'm really sorry that happened to you :(

But you're right, it does make people who are trying to vent and get help feel worse when we just get dumped mid-way in a conversation.

I guess I try to understand why that could be; if it's a one-off thing with a listener, I suppose it could be because of an emergency? If it is recurring, then I do suggest you either bring it up to them, or you report them, like @Optimisticempath suggested.

Hope you feel better soon :)

User Profile: considerateMoon9060
considerateMoon9060 August 3rd, 2022

Same thing, they are awful

User Profile: helloCranberry5684
helloCranberry5684 August 3rd, 2022

@Devin44 this has been done even by self proclaimed "empaths" lol, nurses, health professionals, priests, who get unfairly labeled as empaths, they leave just cause we are not entertaining enough. not even time to tell them to F off!