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Why male listeners are misogynist here?

User Profile: CryingWoman124
CryingWoman124 August 1st

Why male listeners are misogynist here? I m here to talk about my career stres n many male listeners said u r a girl just be housewife like tf

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Hiya @CryingWoman124 welcome to the community. 

It can feel so belittling to hear such unhelpful, unkind things when you’re only reaching out for support in a stressful state of mind. :( 

Those kind of statements from anyone shouldn’t be acceptable, let alone a listener, who in the first place isnt even allowed to give “advise” to their member. 

I really hope you submitted a feedback/ review on the chat with them. 
Detailed reviews on flagging any inappropriate or unkind behaviour really helps our admin team to consider the kind of action required in ensuring the listeners are well in line of their role and their expectations. Feedback and training is provided to those needing a nudge too. 

In case you haven’t yet, you can fill out this form to share the same: https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new?ticket_form_id=360002045973
 
(screenshots of the chat would be helpful for the team) 

Meanwhile please do consider reaching out to other available listeners on 7 cups. It can sadly be a trial/ miss here too like everywhere else when it comes to finding what we seek, but rest assured, you deserve a non judgmental, safe space to share your thoughts and feelings and there’s many kind listeners here who would gladly support. 💛

You can browse for our verified listeners or using any other filters (for topic, language etc) here: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/

User Profile: DireWolf62
DireWolf62 August 1st

@CryingWoman124

Hello CryingWoman, I am so sorry you have felt this. It's not a genuine of the goals and aims of 7 Cups, we are here to support you when you need.

As Sunisshining has suggested you can use the "Browse Listeners" function and select a female listener when their onlight circle (lower right corner) is green. It seems as though you would be more comfortable with a female listener.

Also, there is one other thing that you should take into account, many "Listeners" are from different countries and different cultures. The cultural view of women may be a factor in how they see, and respond, to you.

Also, if you have a "dismissive" or "unpleasant" experience with any "Listener" you can (preferably with a screenshot of the the chat) leave a negative review of the experience when the chat is closed and in extreme cases you can report particular "Listeners" for misconduct.

You should feel safe and comfortable when you are here.
Namaste,
D.

User Profile: goldenNorth7440
goldenNorth7440 August 2nd

I completely understand your frustration. Dealing with career stress is hard enough without having to face such toxic comments. As a fellow entrepreneur/professional, I value your ambition. If you still want to vent or talk about your work and career goals in a safe, non-judgmental space, I'm here to listen. What kind of career stress are you dealing with right now?

User Profile: MusicalTones6275
MusicalTones6275 August 2nd

Well because they are misogynistic. They cant handle seeing you getting a carrier. Or the might have their own truama of being belittled by toxic women with carries.

Otherwise you should avoid them and find b3tter ones. I know its not easy and pro elite many have had already yougj effects on you. But you got it.

You already have a career which is ao hard to achieve. You can get through this too.

User Profile: raspberryFig676
raspberryFig676 August 2nd

@CryingWoman124 that’s so gross! Men need to do better too!

Screw those people genuinely! It's 2026, why aren't they house husbands?