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How can I make them see me differently?

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Last Updated: 03/21/2017 at 4:25pm
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Top Rated Answers
February 11th, 2015 6:38am
See yourself differently. Project the image you seek to convey. Hold your head high and step with boldness into the light.
March 21st, 2017 4:25pm
You can make them see differently by making you see yourself differently. The change is within. If you change from the inside. The same is reflected outside. Portray yourself .. the way you want to see the world.. not how the world wants to see you. Do not change for other people.. change for yourself.. coz that is the change for good.. the change that matters.. Thanks...
January 12th, 2015 3:03pm
There is nothing wrong with who you are. If somebody can't see all of the positive qualities you have, that isn't your fault. Make sure that you have friends who you can trust, and that you are around people who can accept you for who you are.
January 15th, 2015 2:49pm
There's no real way you could make someone see you differently, but I've found a pretty good way to start was by seeing yourself differently, love yourself and treat yourself right, do things you love and dress in whatever makes you feel better about yourself
April 12th, 2015 7:15am
Realize your absence that makes a difference. Many unnoticed your presence but your absence is damm noticed by all.
May 6th, 2015 7:18pm
You first have to see yourself differently!! “If you don't know what you want, you'll never find it. If you don't know what you deserve, you'll always settle for less. You will wander aimlessly, uncomfortably numb in your comfort zone, wondering how life has ended up here. Life starts now, live, love, laugh and let your light shine!” ― Rob Liano.
May 10th, 2015 12:40pm
By being positive, loving yourself a lot and being happy and smiling no matter what. You will always attract good people in your life
December 28th, 2015 12:53pm
You can't make them see you diffrenet ply and don't try to change yourself for them, you don't Have to care about their opinions
January 26th, 2016 8:43pm
This is an interesting question. By explaining myself more fully or differently. By describing my experience differently. By showing empathy, actively listening
February 22nd, 2016 1:01am
Changing anyone's opinion on you involves changing you into who someone else wants you to be, and that person is not who you are.
March 22nd, 2016 9:41pm
How other people see you isn't necessarily as important as how you see yourself. If the opinion of others is making you feel bad about yourself, the opinions may not be worth listening to, no matter where they are coming from. In your own way, you are special, and beautiful, and it does take a lot to be able to find that within yourself. But once you find the positive things that YOU love about you, people will start to notice your confidence and your happiness. And that is the best way for people to see you differently.
June 7th, 2016 8:08pm
Just accept the ways in which you think you will become different in their eyes or can focus on your success and goals
August 23rd, 2016 1:40pm
It would better to slowly do things you normally would instead of making a 360 degrees change. If you want to be seen in a different light then stop doing the opposite. Think before you act.
September 19th, 2016 3:14pm
Just be the change that you want to see in yourself. You cannot make others see you differently but you can change how you see yourself.
October 11th, 2016 5:07pm
You could focus on your positive attributes, helping them see what you want highlighted within yourself- positives, positives, positives.