How do I tell my parents and family that I am having panic attacks?
Last Updated: 11/16/2015 at 3:18pm
Paola Giordani, Psychoanalyst
I have helped and am helping people cope with loss, divorce, anguish and parenting. Depression is also a major issue that comes up.
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It is really amazing to hear that you want to be open with your parents about your panic attacks. I know that talking to your parents about emotional things can be really challenging sometimes. I would be as honest as you can be. Say it as it is. If I was you I would maybe say something like: "I have been having panic attacks. I really just wanted to tell you." If you need something from them to help you, you can add that in there as well. As always, remembering to say things simply for better communication is helpful. If they are having trouble understanding what panic attacks are or how to deal with them or just want more information you could give them this link or check it out yourself: https://www.7cups.com/panic-attacks-help-online/ . I hope that telling them of your struggle with panic attacks starts or continues you on a journey of healing.
Sit them down and ask them if anyone in your family has had these experiences. Sometimes, we can avoid things if people around us have gone through it. If they haven't then explain what you have been going through.
Call a family meeting right? Come prepared have facts , like notes and all that then explain it to them that you are having it hopefully they'll understand.
Being honest to yourself and your loved ones is important. Value the safety of your emotions, sharing really helps
I think being open and honest is the easiest way :) it's nothing to be ashamed of. Pick a good time, eg- not when dad gets home from a bad day at work. And just tell them you have something to tell them and then just go ahead, take deep breaths and just tell them " I've been having panic attacks, and I'm reaching out for help because I trust you"
You just be honest with them, they are your parents and family am sure they will do everything in your best interest to help you get through the attacks.
You let them down easily. You have to communicate with them on a personal level. And tell them it's hard for both of you.
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