How to trust my new boyfriend,not just think about what my last partner did and over come it?

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Last Updated: 07/31/2018 at 5:44am
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Dawn04
July 24th, 2018 12:43am
Try to remind yourself that the new boyfriend has done nothing to make you distrust him. Let the past remain in the past with the last partner.
Anonymous
January 29th, 2018 10:33am
Notice the small details. Ask him to be there for you and if he is and continues to be there for you whenever you tell him to he's proving more and more that he cares. Trust him more everytime he does something nice without having you to tell him to do anything. Trust shall not be gained easily but communication is important and so is the love.
generousSmiles45
March 27th, 2018 8:54am
Every guy is different,so don't think about your past.Else your partner may feel that you don't trust him and you are insecure about the relationship which may complicate things as days go by.best wishes
Anonymous
April 10th, 2018 8:26am
Relflrct on how differently your new boyfriend treats you then your other partner or realise how different you feel with him
lindaeu
June 26th, 2018 12:22am
It's har question... not easy I know, but first you need to love yourself and be grateful that you have person near you, who loves you
generousRabbit93
July 31st, 2018 5:44am
its gonna take a lot, its honestly a lot of effort you both need to put in if you truly want it, youre allowed to ask for things to make you feel comfortable and if he isnt okay with it he aint the one