I'm too anxious to talk with someone about my anxiety. Help?
37 Answers
Last Updated: 08/13/2018 at 6:47pm
Moderated by
Danielle Johnson, MSED, Community mental Health Counseling, LMHC
Licensed Professional Counselor
Sometime situations and feelings can be so strong that we struggle to function. You are not alone! My practice is flexible and open-minded and tailored to your personal needs.
Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
November 9th, 2014 10:05am
First, think of what makes you so anxious. Analyzing your thoughts when you feel anxious or confused can be really helpful. Then think of the worst-case scenario. You'll probably see it's not as bad as you first thought. After that think of the best-case scenario. Take your time and remember to be easy on yourself.
Take baby steps try talking to someone through text based chat then phone then see how you feel about trying a therapist.
Try to talk to a close friend or family member then get comfortable and move to other people you want to talk to.
Anonymous
November 5th, 2014 4:28pm
You could always try leaning on friends and family for support. Also 7 cups offers many qualified listeners who are more than willing to listen.
Asking for help is hard, but the only person you're punishing by keeping it to yourself is you. There is no shame in having anxiety-- most people have it in some form or another. You have nothing rational to be afraid or anxious about. Remind yourself of that fact, and seek help-- either from someone you trust, or from a professional. Remember, professional treatment is confidential, every bit as anonymous as posting on the internet.
You should definitely talk to somebody about it. There is no need to be anxious about admitting you have anxiety to someone. You'd be surprised how many people have it, whether it's severe and debilitating or an occasional thing. If you'd feel more comfortable speaking to a mental health practitioner, I would recommend that.
Anonymous
October 29th, 2014 12:17pm
Don't push yourself into it. First, come to peace with your anxiety. Then, reveal the facts to a person you trust slowly.
Related Questions: I'm too anxious to talk with someone about my anxiety. Help?
How do I get over feeling that everyone is going to leave me?Everything in my life is messed up. Motivation works temporarily and I'm not suicidal but feel it's pointless to live like this. What should I do to feel hopeful? How can I get what I need from my doctor? I feel extremely sick whenever I leave my house, what can I do? I have trouble with my school work due to procrastinating. And my anxiety always gets in the way. How do I get things done?A family member thinks I am lying about where I am going but I'm not, what should I do?How do I know if I did the right thing?Is it hard to think critically about something you love?How do I overcome the fear of cashiers?How can I convince myself that my friends don't hate me? I have this irrational fear that they actually hate me.