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Should I tell my husband I cheated on him?

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Last Updated: 03/02/2021 at 5:03am
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Top Rated Answers
September 27th, 2016 7:09pm
What does your heart tells you,if you think it's the right thing you should do it.follow your heart and do what's best for you and your husband
October 17th, 2016 1:11am
Of course! Honesty is one of the most important factors in a relationship. If you ever cared about him, he deserves to know.
February 7th, 2017 5:36pm
Well, for starters you should. Maybe you could break it to him slowly, I am sure he would listen to you. He would be a tad disappointed, angry but he will understand.
January 8th, 2018 5:36am
I think you should tell your husband if you actually cheated on him. Telling the truth sooner hurts less than having to let them find out themselves or lying to them.
June 26th, 2018 4:13am
If you are not feeling guilty then it's OK but if you are feel that you were wrong then you need to tell him. Telling him is not the only thing you need to give him the reason what made you do that to make your relationship more strong. Also make sure you don't cheat him again.
July 16th, 2018 2:08pm
I recommend working that out with a professional therapist first if you want to salvage the relationship. Every situation is different.
March 2nd, 2021 5:03am
having that open communication with your partner is key. He will not agree with the decision that you caused you to cheat. I believe he will respect you more for honesty. He will need to regain your trust. it will be a long process to over come ... think if he cheated on you how would you feel? would want him to tell you the truth? Let your husband decide what he wants to do. Your partner pain must be prioritized.