What should I do if I end up crying, and I find myself struggling to breathe?
Last Updated: 03/26/2021 at 7:39pm
Alex DS Ellis, MA, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist
Feeling depressed or anxious can be so overwhelming. I want to help you feel better and be able to enjoy life. You are not alone and you deserve emotional support.
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I have been through this a lot. First find some calm thought or person to considerate on, and then either sit down or find a comfortable position. Then focus on your breathing and try to slow it down. Find a good rhythm, at your own pace, and only focus on your breathing. If that doesn't work try laying on the ground or doing something that calms you down.
Breathe in and out slowly. Doing this can calm your nerves. When you cry, you have no control, doing this will help you gain control.
It's perfectly fine to cry and that is way better than bottling up emotions and also it's quite normal that crying makes it a bit more difficult to breathe. If you get a bit panicky and really start to struggle you might want to try some breathing techniques. Mine is breathing in through nose and out through mouth (if crying it might be easier through mouth only), breathe deep down into the abdomen rather than the chest and breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 1, out for 6 and hold for 2. You can work up to that slowly in steps and you should start to feel better soon once you get there.
If you are crying and find yourself to have trouble breathing you should try to inhale slowly and deeply and then exhale slowly. It is very possible that you are having a panic or anxiety attack. When you start to have trouble breathing try to breath in for three seconds and breath out for three seconds to help slow down your breathing. This is obviously only if you are breathing too fast and it seems like breathing is taking a lot of effort. If this doesn't work you will probably want to get to a hospital since there may be a bigger problem such as asthma.
Everyone is different. There is no one fits all answer. But you have to try to find what works for you and calms you down. Whatever that may be. If you don't know , then make yourself a list. The next time it happens you may know what to do.
First and foremost, if it's an external issue causing it, remove yourself from that area. Next try to take slow, deep breaths. Concentrate in the task of just inhaling through your lungs, feeling your chest and belly expand with the air, hold that air for just a moment, remember that nothing else matters except for the here and now. Exhale and in your mind watch the air leaving your body. At this point, you can either continue with this, or reach out to someone (I hear they have a lot of great listeners on this one site called 7 Cups of Tea). It can be anyone that you are able to just talk to, a friend, family, online help chat site, crisis call center. If you can't calm and slow things down on your own, reach out for help asap, that's what they are there for.
take deep breaths, and if you can then tell somebody about it that you trust. try to do something that calms you down, like talking to a friend, cuddling a stuffed animal, playing music etc. it always tends to help me :)
When I have found myself in a similar situation I try to refocus my attention on something, anything. Sometimes I find myself staring at the patter on the ceiling or the duvet, or count how many times I've blinked, or sing an almost forgotten song to myself, trying to force the lyrics back into my brain.
Take deep breaths for several minutes. If that does not work, find someone to support you through this trying time to ensure that your breathing issue is not related to health.
You should tell an adult. This could be a serious issue that needs to be looked at by a professional Doctor, or therapist.
Take deep breaths, do it until you've calmed yourself. It's not easy I know, but you can do it! Hope this helps!
Take long, slow deep breaths; remind yourself that everything is okay. You can cry, it's alright to.
Breathe in your nose for four and out of your mouth from eight. Just focus on your breathing. It's all going to be okay.
No matter how hard or how long you cry, you want to make that you keep yourself hydrated and you are able to breathe. If you are unable to breath you want to calm yourself down. Stop thinking about whatever it is you are thinking about and just focus on breathing. Inhaling and exhaling. Close your eyes, go to a quiet room if you can just breathe.
You need to ask you need to isolate yourself from your thoughts. Sit stare at a wall or space and focus on that. If you're actually doing that you should find that you're breathing is slowing down and you crying will stop. You can even sing a song with the wall and don't think about it whatever it is
Try your best to calm down, despite how difficult it might be. Try to relax. Once you are calm, try to remember what triggered this and work on how to stop it from happening in the future.
Try to find a spot away from people, maybe listen to some calming music breathe in for four hold for seven out eight counts. My art teacher suggested this, another good option is heading to the water fountain and taking some sips of cold water to try and clear your head. I hope this helps!
Well, first you should take a couple of really deep breaths and find somewhere quiet, so you can focus on your breathing. It may also be helpful if you called a friend or family member that you trust, and talked to them about what's going on.
Close your eyes and count to 10, and keep counting until you feel your muscles begin to loosen. Another trick that works is say nice things to yourself in the mirror.
try a relaxing breathing technique. one i like is breath in 5 seconds, hold 4 seconds, and breath out 4 seconds.
Take deep breaths, focus on breathing in through your nose and out through your mouth. Count to one hundred slowly and focus on the counting. Then get a glass of water and sip it.
Go through the experience. Give in and have a good cry. Regain composure once it's out of your system.
This sounds like a panic attack. The thing I do when I am feeling this is try to focus on birds. Birds are a symbol of freedom and peace for me, and it helps me calm down.
Well this happened to me a couple of times. What i did was that tried not to panic and went out in the fresh air. Sat on a chair and started taking short breaths inhale from nose and exhale from mouth. Then took a long breath and just relaxed all my body. Kind of slumped. Then cried and cried and in between inhale exhale. And all was well in about 10 minutes.😊
That's more of a fear than an actual possibility. While it can cause that sensation, it's often anxiety doubled with sadness. Crying can help you feel better, and the only way you would feel like you're struggling to breathe is if that was what you were focusing on in the first place.
Close your eyes, think of the sea and the waves gently breaking infront of you. The sun is beating down on your neck but the air has a slight chill so its a clean fresh breath of air when you take a breath in. Breath out and then take another deep breath of clean air in, keep doing this till you're finding it easier to breath.
Try slowing your breaths as much as possible. Close your eyes, and focus on your hands. Distract yourself enough to get your breaths back.
Based on my own personal experience, this happened to me during a panic attack. I laid down in my bed with my door closed and let myself cry in silence until I stopped on my own. Crying is therapeutic, so letting myself release all my bottled up emotions was the best thing I could have done.
I should sit upright. Take a deep breathe; inhale slowly and exhale slowly. Try to calm myself down, think about something else to make me feel better and then find someone to talk to.
Take feel breaths in and out. Focus completely on your breathing. Do this until you feel more calm and less agitated.
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