Am I good enough?

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Last Updated: 08/06/2018 at 9:50am
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Top Rated Answers
Cosmiclover01
December 3rd, 2015 8:14pm
Of course you are. Never let anyone make you feel like you aren't and bring you down.
Anonymous
December 21st, 2015 11:31pm
Of course you are! Personality, beauty... they all depend of point of view. If someone wasn't into you, never think YOU were the problem, like if you weren't enough for them or something. You'll find someone who will fufill your need and love you for who you are.
SkiiiWalker6
December 22nd, 2015 10:40pm
Are you good enough for yourself is the question. Nobody else matters before you. Go and find out what you like, what you enjoy, what you're into etc. Start with yourself x
Help27
December 23rd, 2015 11:06pm
Dear, You're good enough indeed! Asking yourself this question does not mean that you're having trust issues with yourself but it means that you'll willing to adjust yourself and be better.you are more than enough just love yourself and believe in it.
AliciaJ
February 23rd, 2016 6:45am
Short answer: Yes, you are. Long answer: Yes, you are, even though you are not perfect. There is always room for you to become a stronger person, and it is for you to identify the things you can improve, and start working on them.
Greatlistener87
March 22nd, 2016 4:04am
Everybody is special in their own way. Being different is a good thing thats what makes you interesting compared to everyone else.If everyone is the same then life would be boring.
nes2020
April 19th, 2016 2:05pm
yes, I have my family, my friends, my pet, my hobbies, my dream. I tough and cold person at the outside but I am warm and soft person inside. I am loyal and smart. I am good, and I deserve to be happy and meet kind person to be with me
cleopetra
April 26th, 2016 3:00pm
Yes. You are good enough and you are worthy of all the love.
steelnerve
August 2nd, 2016 7:49am
I'd say, how much better can I become. Being good is simply not good enough. Listen to Daft Punk's Harder, Better, Stronger, Faster as a reference.
528Hrz
September 26th, 2016 8:54pm
The fact of being alive, after all kind of chances it is me who had been born, so now, everything I am, everything I do is good enough
cosyheart21
November 1st, 2016 8:32pm
You are absolutely, positively, entirely good enough. Try to remind yourself that you are good enough, and that you deserve the best.
chale
May 2nd, 2017 2:13am
You, darling, are amazing. You're a vast and beautiful world wrapped up in a person. You're the sunshine, the stars, the feeling of a fresh spring breeze, and everything else delightful in this world. You, as yourself, outside of what you do and how much you get done, are worth it. You're a wonderment, a little piece of light in an otherwise dark world, and you are good enough. You are always good enough. You will never stop being good enough.
Danielle999
October 9th, 2017 1:00pm
Yes! You will always be good enough. Maybe not in everything, but no one is perfect. I'm not good at government or actually keeping money in my bank account. I'm also not good at keeping my self esteem high, but who actually is? Moral of this is that you will always be good enough for someone willing to look past your imperfections. Don't settle
ruedabega13
April 10th, 2018 7:01pm
You absolutely are. Try to find people that tell you that you are! Also don't let your mind bully yourself into thinking you aren't.
kingdom20
April 11th, 2018 6:55pm
You are enough on your own, you matter! And don't think being alone is such a problem... Maybe you don't belong with a bunch of people but there are just specific amazing people who are meant for you😊
Anonymous
June 26th, 2018 3:45am
Yes, you are good enough. You are more then good enough, you a great! Never doubt your worth! You're good enough!
Anonymous
July 16th, 2018 6:11pm
It's important to consider what it is your trying to be good enough for when you ask such an open ended question like this. Are you good enough to be an astronaut? Are you good enough to be a rockstar? Maybe being good enough for those things isn't right for you anyway. Maybe being good enough to win a decathlon wouldn't make you truly happy afterwards. The point is that YES, you are good enough. You're good enough to learn from your mistakes. You are good enough to reach out for help. You are good enough to make improvements in your well being. You are good enough to feel better about yourself. You are good enough to take the next step in reaching your goals.
Dreamer70
August 6th, 2018 9:50am
Perfection is an illusion. its not real. For everyone, perfection is different. The WORST thing u could do, is hating ur very own self. Start accepting n loving whoever u are, and you'll know urself how good u are:)