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Does he/she love me or someone else?

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Last Updated: 03/27/2018 at 5:59pm
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Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
January 26th, 2015 2:57pm
Communication is key. There may be signs that may show you lack of affection, but the best way to know is to ask them straight out.
lilunicorn
January 24th, 2015 8:41am
this is complicated. the best you could do is talk with him/her and its normal to be scared about it. but, you know, if you never shoot you'll never know (:
NewRomantic677
November 23rd, 2015 7:41pm
This is just that one question everybody wishes there was an easy solution to, but doesn't have one. Love is a complex emotion that varies from person to person . wanna know if he/she loves you, but afraid to ask? Well, then the best way to figure it out is to observe as much as possible. As much as you can, observe. Look at body language, and what they say to you, also how often they wanna hang out and be with you. Now, everyone is different and I've known people who try to hang out lesser with the people theyre in love with! Remember not one size fits all :)
rosyviolet
September 29th, 2015 1:42am
That's a question that should not even pop up. You would know not when they tell you but by their actions.
divinewillpower86
April 16th, 2015 11:13am
Love is emotion and can't be judged in just a second. It needs evaluation but many a times negative thinking effects on our understanding badly.
GoldenDragonEyes60
April 30th, 2015 3:20pm
That's a question that you're going to have to ask yourself, if you have doubts then perhaps you should consider asking the person you're wondering about. However, this is a choice you're going to have to make on your own.
librabrandi89
May 8th, 2015 4:37am
What does your heart and intuition say? If you already have these questions and feelings maybe you should question what is leading to this?
Kindness101
May 28th, 2015 9:18am
The best to know if he/she loves somebody else, is to ask them. Then at least you know where you stand with that person.
Bblovetj
November 16th, 2015 5:14am
If you are ever unsure if your partner loves you then the best thing to do is talk to him/her about it,
bratgurl14
November 18th, 2015 1:31pm
well it depends on what happens if he acts different then he/she does but if he is not then he loves you
Caringmagic60
February 9th, 2016 12:19pm
I don't care who he loves.I know I love him.I respect his feelings.All I care about is him being happy
Greatlistener87
September 19th, 2016 3:24am
Why don't you ask her or him whom he/she loves. Better hearing it from the person itself to be sure.
Anonymous
January 3rd, 2017 2:12pm
It complicates your mind thinking if he/she loves you or not.It was really stressing for me. But soon I realised if they love you, you can feel it. Maybe they won't take the first step so uiu have to try. My motto is ' If you find your Prince Charming, go for it! ' Don't confuse your mind thinking, try asking.
WestWind92
January 9th, 2017 5:38pm
Easy. Ask him. Please, enough of the mind games. I don't understand why if someone likes someone they don't go to that person and do something about it. Rather than sitting in some dusty old room writing love sonnets no one will ever read.
miraculousHeart73
March 27th, 2018 5:59pm
It's hard in a relationship when you suspect your SO of loving someone else. Just ask them how they feel about the two of you and ask if they love you. You know, love you more than a friend. It may be hard if they love someone else, but we are all human and have to accept it. Things will get better