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Does it hurt more to have someone and lose them, or to never have them at all?

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Last Updated: 03/22/2021 at 12:30am
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MonBon
May 24th, 2015 7:06am
Probably to have someone and lose them because it's hard to get attached to something if you've never had it. Of course, this will vary on a case by case basis, and just because losing someone hurts doesn't mean that it isn't worth it to have them in the first place
EscapetheFate
May 23rd, 2015 11:31am
I think that you never have to regret what you have experienced. It is better to remember happy moments and make you feel full for a moment, to feel you have ever had happy moments.