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How do I know I will find someone else?

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Last Updated: 06/12/2022 at 6:29pm
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Anonymous
April 26th, 2018 3:21pm
It definitely takes time, but remember this. A lot of people try to keep in mind that there is someone meant for everyone, some people don't find them, but those who do.. are very lucky. I am one of those people, so what I am going to tell you is that it is either they find you or you find them. Maybe you already know them, but the time is not right currently! :) it may take time, too, but no harm is attempting to find him/her yourself.
Anonymous
March 26th, 2015 10:18pm
No one knows what the future holds. Take everything one day at a time. You never know who or what may cross your path!
Anonymous
April 29th, 2015 3:14am
You may feel like you're all alone in the world but finding a significant other is the last thing that should be on your mind. People say that things happen when they are least expected and it's true. If you're always focusing on finding the right guy then he may never come. Don't expect someone to fall in love with you and don't look for someone to just ask out. Wait and make a couple of friends of the opposite sex and focus on anything other than them your schoolwork, your work, anything. Become closer friends with them and wait. Don't expect too much.
TheLovableSunshine
May 16th, 2015 7:50pm
Love is a cycle. We love and then we get hurt, and the only thing that can heal the pain is to love somebody again. Trust me, you will find somebody else soon enough. If the love you had for another person doesn't work, then maybe somebody in the future loves you more.
Anonymous
June 1st, 2018 6:31am
By keeping positive that you will.keep the faith and believe that you would and everything you want you will get.know that you are deserving of all the good things.
Anonymous
May 28th, 2015 3:03am
Well, you can't "know," per say, but it's probably a safe bet! The future is full of so much potential; who's to really say that you -won't-?
Anonymous
June 7th, 2018 7:10am
We can never know the future for certain. But if we are content with where we are right now and open to receive and give love (including self-love), chances are you'll find it in abundance.
Anonymous
January 31st, 2019 6:38am
What I can tell you for certain is that even though it may feel as though it isn’t possible right now, in time your heart truly does allow you to see that possibility again. You start to see the lessons in your last relationship and you move on with a sense of extra knowledge you hadn’t had before. You know yourself more, what you will and won’t put up with in a partner and a deeper, stronger relationship can follow. Always use those times, as tough as they are as lessons to help you to a better place. Good luck.
yorkyroseuk
February 15th, 2016 7:32pm
No-one does!. You need to keep doing the things you enjoy, be open to meeting new people and new experiences and be patient. You can't rush relationships. Some are long and slow burners whilst others are fiery quick and intense. Enjoy your life, let others see you are enjoying it as soon enough someone will want to join you in it.
Anonymous
December 18th, 2019 9:32pm
It is always very important when it comes to love to dedicate yourself, invest in your appearance and use the term Yes beautiful. Go out to places where you feel comfortable, welcomed and yours.Always analyze the opposite sex and make a list of people who are attractive to you, and people who would like to be just friends.Once you feel ready go into action.It is very difficult to do this. But you should know that each person has his own advantages and disadvantages.I wish you all the happiness in this world to find your soul mate. Be your own.
joeyox
September 25th, 2018 1:31pm
Because life works in mysterious ways, we're all still young and worried about not being able to find someone else. But you will be surprised how life works. When you least expect it that one person will come in your life and change your life completely. If you lose someone then that's a sign showing you that they are not the right person for you and it keeps room for the person who is ACTUALLY made for you! You got to see how worthy you are and how great you are. Losing someone is definitely difficult but it makes you stronger.
heartfulMoment92
August 3rd, 2018 5:53am
It's the nature of life, just be yourself and do good positive things and surely the things that should be yours will go to you and of course a soul mate!
lovelyCaramel4876
June 12th, 2022 6:29pm
Because you are worthy to be with someone who loves and appreciates you as well as the other person deserves the same. Everyone has someone waiting for them! Even when you don’t feel like it, it’s true. Every person is deserving of love and compassion and as soon as you open yourself to receive it you will get it. The most important bit is to know your worth and there’s going to be someone who will see it in you as well. Do not stick in abusive relationships of any sort in fear of being alone. Maybe it will even do some good before you have the chance to meet your other half.
Anonymous
August 3rd, 2018 10:48am
Because the most unexpected things can happen at the most unexpected times. I was stuck in a rut where I couldn't form friendships with people but I still found the love of my life. Do not give up, my friend.
Ran3707
June 6th, 2020 5:03pm
Finding someone else is the same as finding a new friend. Then there is the romantic element in addition. So a smiling and positive attitude and interest in others are surely the keys to finding a new partner. The romantic element will soon follow if there is attraction. Fear of non-acceptance is not helpful, but tact and caution in selecting a new friend is okay. Not all new friends need to be found at the bar. It can be at the gym, the grocery, the volunteer center, at church, or pretty much anywhere else. Bad previous experiences are unfortunate history. Reliving them with someone new is probably not pleasant for them. Being open and honest with your new friend is certainly important.
comfortableRainbow89
August 12th, 2018 2:13am
If you have already found somebody before, you will find somebody again. Discrete Math taught me that. I'm wishing for somebody too but God knows I'm not ready and still in love with my Ex.
purplecitrus
May 21st, 2020 8:21pm
I don't know if you have heard this theory/story but I will share it anyway. This is what made me believe that everyone has a soulmate, maybe it will help you too. So, earlier, it was said that each 'person' was half man and half woman. Imagine like two bodies merged as one person. This one time, God decided to cut the two apart and thus created man and woman. People, thus, now spend their lives subconsciously looking for that other part- their 'soulmate'; a person for every person. There is one more thing which I believe. So, when you break it off with someone, it is not the end of the world. We dont know what is in store for us in the future. Maybe we will meet again or maybe we will find a new, better person. Don't be let down that you lost a person. There is someone out there. Dont you worry. The universe will work its magic.
JojoMojoHappy
August 12th, 2018 4:01pm
By first finding yourself. Unless you make peace with who you are, nobody on the planet can make you feel good about yourself :-)
CourageousHeart1602
May 7th, 2020 3:08pm
Truthfully, no one can know with absolute certainty that they will find someone but that is the thing about us humans. We find certainty and defy the odds even when things look bleak and the world tells us it is impossible. I am a cynic when it comes to romantic love but let me ask you this: How sure are you that you want a romantic partner? There are people who just want a platonic partner or none at all. They are all valid. So for you my love, you will find whom you're looking for but perhaps not in the way you expect. I believe in you
Wittie96
April 5th, 2019 4:07am
The short answer, because there are 7 billion people on this planet and surely there is someone out there for you. The longer answer, because as we change and grow we meet new people every day. These people all come in to our lives for a reason, they are all meant to teach us something and in the midst of all that you are bound to meet a new special someone. Just keep your head up and they will pop up when you least expect it. I've found my most successful relationships when I least expected it. The best way to meet new people is to go out and do the things you love. In doing this you will connect with people who have similar interests and goals in life. You will forge new friendships that may turn into something more or at the very least, life long friendships.
Anonymous
November 30th, 2019 9:03pm
There are a lot of fish in the sea, you just have to be patient. Sometimes you are in a relationship with someone and it isn't the person you will spend the rest of your life with, so patience is key when it comes to finding your other half. It takes more time for some people and for some it doesn't, but for now be happy with the people you know and that are around you. That person will come when you least expect it! You will be thankful and will also congratulate yourself for waiting. Good luck and keep being positive!
wishmesky1975
November 6th, 2019 7:25am
You can never know about it. It just happens. It's a way of life. Especially in case of partners, you will always find a better partner than the last one. It's no magic, it's the experience and knowledge from the past which works to find you a better partner. Your sub-conscious mind is constant working to identity that better partner only in context to the previous ones. It doesn't necessarily mean that is the best possible someone you will ever find. It only gets better with time. Infact having to go through the process is a blessing in disguise. The pain is worth it.
Anonymous
October 12th, 2019 11:41pm
As you grow older, you will be doing more things. You may go to college or University, get a job, go on holiday or find new hobbies which will all lead you to meet new people. Usually, you will be studying a course or working in a job which interests you and this is likely the case for many other people. It is the same for holidays or hobbies, other people tend to do it because they enjoy it which means the people you meet will have similar interests so you may get along very well. The right person will come along at some point if you just do what you love doing :)
ShiningPanda13
July 19th, 2019 5:15am
You don't know, and being certain about the uncertainty is where you will find cause for hope. Hope motivates your own ideas for change and reasons to try things that you feel are likely to bring you towards those changes. It's a wonderful thing not to know anything but the certainty of change; that you have the opportunity to make inward and outward changes in your thoughts, habits, and plans. You can be more thoughtful of and careful with yourself, and open to or ready for opportunities that present themselves because you are seeking out what all might feel good in your different future life.
Reddy
June 23rd, 2019 1:23am
You don't. No one does. That might sound harsh? But its actually not - its where HOPE comes in. Its where GROWING CHANGING and LEARNING from past experiences come in. "If we learn the lesson we have a new tool - and we can only use the tools we have to learn to change and to grow". If we learn nothing from previous relationships about ourselves / our likes and dislikes etc, then we remain the same and chances are we just meet the same type of person again. And again. And again. BUT, if we do learn and we do grow and we do learn from our life experiences, the chances of meeting someone else who is worthy to meet us? Its pretty safe to say , we will.
Epione
December 23rd, 2018 12:15am
Saying you won't find anyone else because you loved deeply is like saying you'll never eat again because you've already had an amazing holiday feast. When you've been broken up with, that's as hard as when someone has died - and you have to grieve the relationship as though someone did. But there are millions and millions of people out there, hearts as lonely as yours is now and as whole as yours once was. Once you've healed and you're ready to find love again, you'll find it, or it will find you. It can't be rushed, but good things rarely can be.
Anonymous
August 15th, 2018 7:13pm
Everyone has their special someone out in the world. The longer it takes the more adventures that you can tell them that you have experienced.
FlowerLiz2
December 2nd, 2018 8:18pm
You don't. You don't know and that is fine. If you really want to find someone, find yourself first. Fall deeply in love with yourself. Let go of someone outside to make you happy and make yourself so happy that when others look at you they become happy too. And then when you the least expect someone to enter into your life, there he/she is. Trust. Trust that at the right time in the right place there will be someone in your life who is choosing to walk along your life's journey. This person appears when you are ready.
Icanwaitforever
April 24th, 2020 1:21pm
Well, of course you will find someone else. C'mon, the world is full of people! Even if you are shy, you will meet the right person for you. And, actually, I think that everyone deserve the real love. You know, I'm talking about that love that makes you feel the best, that respect you, that makes you feel comfortable and free. If that doesn't happen, if you don't feel like that, plaese break up. Please go on seeking for your real love. Cause everyone has a soulmate in this world. You just have to find him/her. :) Stay good
WrenSimon
April 12th, 2020 7:43am
The world is a big place filled with people with the capacity to love, and it certainly sounds like you have love to return. I understand how heartbreak can seem like the end of the world. I’ve recently experienced a breakup as well. But I find that staying focused on my own goals and passions puts me in environments where I’m bound to meet like-minded people who are in line with the type of lifestyle I’m striving for. It’s good to think of your ex as a lesson preparing you to be a better and more knowledgeable partner for your next love. Do you have any hobbies where you could potentially meet someone new?