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How do I know I will find someone else?

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Last Updated: 01/16/2022 at 7:25pm
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shiningBeauty80
August 22nd, 2021 5:15pm
Just as quickly as you found this person, you will find another. Of course, there is a period of healing and self-discovery but as soon as you know it, you will find someone else. And now, going through a breakup/previous relationship, you will better know your wants and needs in a partnership. In addition, sometimes love comes out of nowhere. It can blindside you and sometimes you may not even be actively searching for it. That being said, you can also put yourself out there socially by hanging out with friends or the like, because you really never know who you are going to meet. The bottom line is you will find someone else, it’ll take time, but it will happen!
madhunga8
September 8th, 2021 5:44am
The future is uncertain. There is no way of being certain of whether we will find someone or not. The only thing we can do is to explore that which is within our control. And see what we can do to improve that which we can control, like working on ourselves, embracing changes and challenges that come knowing that we have the power to make choices, making healthy choices with regards to our physical, emotional and mental well being. Approaching life having a sense of thrill, excitement and adventure as to what is in store for us. How exciting would that be?
fancifulSea8343
October 1st, 2021 6:12pm
There are billions of people in the world. You most definitely will find someone else. The question is will they be good enough for you? Be so confident in yourself and believe you are amazing on your own that when someone comes into your life, and believe me they definitely will, they will only be allowed to stay if they are worthy of you. Be so confident that you will attract the right person into your life. Continue being the amazing person you are and showing the universe how you deserve to be treated and loved. I promise you the right person will come along :)
Anonymous
October 14th, 2021 6:59pm
Honestly, there is never a sure way of knowing what will happen in the future. Most things in life don’t go exactly as planned. You can't count on things going exactly the way you want them to, because you'll ultimately end up disappointed if you have set expectations about how everything should go. In regards to finding someone, I strongly believe there is someone out there for everyone. Its scary but also exhilarating to put yourself out there in order to find the right person for you. That goes for everything in life, putting yourself out there result in amazing things.
Larry70
October 17th, 2021 8:33am
There are billions of people in this world and it seems somewhat unlikely that there is only one person for you. As much as a relationship starts with mutual attraction and common qualities, eventually it boils down to working at it to solve disagreements and differences between you. If you actually found someone who thought exactly like you life would be boring! You certainly need to have your deal breakers but you can adjust what you want in another person depending on a balance of qualities. In other words, there are probably many people out there who would be a good match if you go looking.
Anonymous
November 10th, 2021 3:01am
people come and go daily. we come across humans everywhere we go. As we grow, the people around us are growing also. we evolve. we start wanting different things. We start attracting different things. when we let someone in life go, it may be hard to think about what life may be like without them. But we won't remain in this constant state of loneliness forever. We start doing things that make us happy, and eventually, we meet people that like doing the same things as we do and it is so much easier to connect with them and relate to them.
recoveryNpeace
December 22nd, 2021 9:25pm
To be honest, you don't. And to be honest you don't have to find anyone else if you are wondering about this question, this question is a signal that you have spend sometime with yourself. Be self sufficient in every aspect, be happy with yourself, be best friend with yourself. And then you can get a nice person for sure. Look at it this way, say you are hungry, you haven't eaten for 2 days, in this case you NEED food, you will anything you can find, even if it not the best thing for you, because it's and urgency. On the other hand say you are empty stomach e but not super hungry, and now you are looking for dinner, now you can take your time and find the best possible food for you, which tastes good, which is good for your, and you can enjoy it. In the later scenario you don't NEED food, you just feel like having it, or you WANT it. Want is always better than need buddy. If you can be self sufficient, happy by yourself even if you have no one, that is the time when you will find the most wonderful people you have meet in your life. Have a great day Keep smiling It's free and it looks good on you ...!
HappinessIsAFirefly
January 16th, 2022 7:25pm
Unfortunately, you won't KNOW you are going to find someone else. Faith and optimism will play a big role in that. However, there are steps you can take to maximize your chances of finding someone else, which can help you create and maintain these feelings of optimism and faith--faith that you will find someone one day. Start with self-improvement. You have to find yourself before you find others. Work towards self-love by connecting with your passions, practicing hobbies, identifying and working to rectify your short comings. And then get back out there. Attend events, hang out with friends, and put yourself in situations where you are likely to meet new people. You can't know for sure you will meet someone else, but by remaining optimistic that you will and setting yourself up accordingly, you will significantly increase your chances of finding your next person.