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How do I know I will find someone else?

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Last Updated: 06/12/2022 at 6:29pm
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Top Rated Answers
shiningBeauty80
August 22nd, 2021 5:15pm
Just as quickly as you found this person, you will find another. Of course, there is a period of healing and self-discovery but as soon as you know it, you will find someone else. And now, going through a breakup/previous relationship, you will better know your wants and needs in a partnership. In addition, sometimes love comes out of nowhere. It can blindside you and sometimes you may not even be actively searching for it. That being said, you can also put yourself out there socially by hanging out with friends or the like, because you really never know who you are going to meet. The bottom line is you will find someone else, it’ll take time, but it will happen!
madhunga8
September 8th, 2021 5:44am
The future is uncertain. There is no way of being certain of whether we will find someone or not. The only thing we can do is to explore that which is within our control. And see what we can do to improve that which we can control, like working on ourselves, embracing changes and challenges that come knowing that we have the power to make choices, making healthy choices with regards to our physical, emotional and mental well being. Approaching life having a sense of thrill, excitement and adventure as to what is in store for us. How exciting would that be?
fancifulSea8343
October 1st, 2021 6:12pm
There are billions of people in the world. You most definitely will find someone else. The question is will they be good enough for you? Be so confident in yourself and believe you are amazing on your own that when someone comes into your life, and believe me they definitely will, they will only be allowed to stay if they are worthy of you. Be so confident that you will attract the right person into your life. Continue being the amazing person you are and showing the universe how you deserve to be treated and loved. I promise you the right person will come along :)
Anonymous
October 14th, 2021 6:59pm
Honestly, there is never a sure way of knowing what will happen in the future. Most things in life don’t go exactly as planned. You can't count on things going exactly the way you want them to, because you'll ultimately end up disappointed if you have set expectations about how everything should go. In regards to finding someone, I strongly believe there is someone out there for everyone. Its scary but also exhilarating to put yourself out there in order to find the right person for you. That goes for everything in life, putting yourself out there result in amazing things.
Larry70
October 17th, 2021 8:33am
There are billions of people in this world and it seems somewhat unlikely that there is only one person for you. As much as a relationship starts with mutual attraction and common qualities, eventually it boils down to working at it to solve disagreements and differences between you. If you actually found someone who thought exactly like you life would be boring! You certainly need to have your deal breakers but you can adjust what you want in another person depending on a balance of qualities. In other words, there are probably many people out there who would be a good match if you go looking.
Anonymous
November 10th, 2021 3:01am
people come and go daily. we come across humans everywhere we go. As we grow, the people around us are growing also. we evolve. we start wanting different things. We start attracting different things. when we let someone in life go, it may be hard to think about what life may be like without them. But we won't remain in this constant state of loneliness forever. We start doing things that make us happy, and eventually, we meet people that like doing the same things as we do and it is so much easier to connect with them and relate to them.
recoveryNpeace
December 22nd, 2021 9:25pm
To be honest, you don't. And to be honest you don't have to find anyone else if you are wondering about this question, this question is a signal that you have spend sometime with yourself. Be self sufficient in every aspect, be happy with yourself, be best friend with yourself. And then you can get a nice person for sure. Look at it this way, say you are hungry, you haven't eaten for 2 days, in this case you NEED food, you will anything you can find, even if it not the best thing for you, because it's and urgency. On the other hand say you are empty stomach e but not super hungry, and now you are looking for dinner, now you can take your time and find the best possible food for you, which tastes good, which is good for your, and you can enjoy it. In the later scenario you don't NEED food, you just feel like having it, or you WANT it. Want is always better than need buddy. If you can be self sufficient, happy by yourself even if you have no one, that is the time when you will find the most wonderful people you have meet in your life. Have a great day Keep smiling It's free and it looks good on you ...!
HappinessIsAFirefly
January 16th, 2022 7:25pm
Unfortunately, you won't KNOW you are going to find someone else. Faith and optimism will play a big role in that. However, there are steps you can take to maximize your chances of finding someone else, which can help you create and maintain these feelings of optimism and faith--faith that you will find someone one day. Start with self-improvement. You have to find yourself before you find others. Work towards self-love by connecting with your passions, practicing hobbies, identifying and working to rectify your short comings. And then get back out there. Attend events, hang out with friends, and put yourself in situations where you are likely to meet new people. You can't know for sure you will meet someone else, but by remaining optimistic that you will and setting yourself up accordingly, you will significantly increase your chances of finding your next person.
Mentalhealthisnormal
February 10th, 2022 7:38am
You don’t know. Honestly speaking no one knows if they are meant to be alone or not but one thing for sure is that you must learn to be comfortable & live for yourself! you must learn to enjoy your own company, become your own best friend, love yourself so much that you no longer are waiting for someone to come & love you ! Sometimes being alone helps us learn & grow in ways we would have never grew in had we stayed in that relationship. Being alone doesn’t have to be permanent but loving yourself & enjoying your own company does!
Anonymous
March 11th, 2022 1:13am
It's never a guarantee that you will 'find the forever person' - life happens and people change! Although that may sound sad - it can be - but we should all learn to embrace change rather than immediately see it in a negative light. People come and go and you may have a brilliant time with someone for years and suddenly you grow apart - but use the experience and learn from it and carry on! Have fun with people in your here and now and someone you would never expect will join in on your journey, don't be hesitant to meeting new people and thinking too much about the far future - live in the present.
Train1
March 18th, 2022 4:40am
There is the old saying, there are plenty of fish in the sea. If you truly come to terms as to why your relationship had to end, you will be more at peace with it. You may not be able to stay friends with this person or have them in your life anymore, but you may have learned a bit more about you from your relationship. You may have had good times and bad times, but you are ready to move on in your own good time. You should always believe that relationships, no matter how long or short, are always a positive thing. Using the word "failed relationship" is not a positive way to think of relationships. If you had a lot of laughter, love and fun, then you are not a failure. Get ready for your new someone when you the time is right for you.
evierose146
March 27th, 2022 11:15pm
there will always be a special person for you sometimes it just takes time to find that person but they will always be out there I know breakups are awful but they don’t hurt forever and it really does get better I promise you enjoy your life and when you feel ready again then get back out there and find someone but until then work on yourself and you’re well-being because ultimately that’s the most important thing in life is yourself and how you treat yourself because if you don’t love yourself then that will make things hard you got this
caringHope2013
April 7th, 2022 10:10pm
It's not something you can find out you just have to believe it because this is a huge world right now you and I are talking maybe someone is thinking the same were so don't lose hope you will find someone like you one spacial day because like I said this a huge world And what made you think this Way wanna talk to me about it in details no pressure I'm here whenever you feel ready to talk about it I'm will here listening and I hope you find the right person very soon my blessings are with you ☺️
LynnsListeningLounge
May 19th, 2022 9:35pm
You are always meeting people every day. There will be times where you feel as if you are alone, never able to find "the one", but really, do you have to find "the one"? Do they exist? The qualities you're imagining are 100% in other people that you know, whether you are attracted to them or not. You can make your support system based off of what you are looking for and what you need to abate your loneliness and to have a community that you know is there for you. You will find "the one". It just may not look exactly how it does in the movies or in your head.
lovelyCaramel4876
June 12th, 2022 6:29pm
Because you are worthy to be with someone who loves and appreciates you as well as the other person deserves the same. Everyone has someone waiting for them! Even when you don’t feel like it, it’s true. Every person is deserving of love and compassion and as soon as you open yourself to receive it you will get it. The most important bit is to know your worth and there’s going to be someone who will see it in you as well. Do not stick in abusive relationships of any sort in fear of being alone. Maybe it will even do some good before you have the chance to meet your other half.