How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

Be as honest as you can with him. Tell him the reason why you choose to break up with him. Try and avoid sugarcoating how you feel just so you don't upset him because then it seems like your unsure of feelings and you're decision. Let him know that you don't want to end of bad terms.

Be honest, explain that this relationship is no longer what you want and you don't think it's right for you anymore. You're not being rude by telling people how you really feel and looking out for yourself so it's best to be honest. Explaining to him that this isn't what you want and it isn't right for you is being honest while not blaming anyone for the situation.

This one is tough, breaking up is never easy. That being said, sometimes its best to just come out and say it, talk to them, in person (If possible I understand the issues of Long distance as well.) Don't just drop an email or text, this is like a cop out, you cared about this person enough at one point, they deserve to hear you or see you say it. He will ask why, ask yourself if you're ready to give him an answer. But the best way to do it is, just to do it, like a band aid, if you're having these thoughts, its most likely he's picked up the signs and can sense it even if he won't admit it. Do not try and fight with him about it, fight's never lead to good places, and usually prolong the relationship beyond the point it should be. Most importantly, be honest, don't give him the spiels of "Its me not you." et cetera et cetera, you're better than this is, and most often he's worth more than a spiel. I hope this helps!

Explain to him your situation and why the relationship is not doing justice for you or helping you become who you want to be. Be kind. Do not blame.

Just explain to him as truthfully and straightforward as you can. Give him a safe space to ask you questions as I'm sure he will and answer those as honestly as you can without hurting his feeling too much. :) Hope it all goes well

From my experience, breaking up face to face, if possible, is already a good basis. It would be nice to tell them at the end that if they have questions, they can message you in 3 days or something and you can meet up face to face. Remember that this talk can be good for closure for the both of you, but be careful of your own emotions and wellbeing as well.

First understand WHY you don't want to be with him. If it is because of principles, beliefs, then see that through. If it is because of the way he treats you or talks to you. Let him know that. But if it is because you feel he cannot provide things on a material or financial level, emotional level, let him know that too. Breaking up is hard to do. But to delay it delays the pain it does not stop it. It just procrastinates his pain and makes your pain greater with time.

Well , that would be the best way to tell him in real life , not over social media or something like that , but if you know that wouldn't be good or you wont be able to tell him at real life than , a social media would be a good. But at first you have to think are you 100% sure that you want to abort your relationship.

Be honest, firm, but gentle. Explain why you no longer want to be with him. Bring him to a safe quiet place where you feel comfortable to talk. When you are done be considerate of how he feels. Give each other space and room for understanding. However, don't compromise your feelings if your boyfriend takes it badly and don't let them guilt you into staying. All in all just be honest and talk it out.

Being honest even though it affects both you and him is beneficial to you both. He deserves closure and you deserve to go after what you want.

You can be honest with him, talk in a clear and concise manner. Plan ahead of what you're going to say (make notes beforehand - if you think this will help you). Explain why you are breaking up and mention that you have to do what's best for you.

You should consider he is human and that will hurts him, say it in a nice way and from inside just accept his reaction and never take it personal, he may be shocked and out of control. And when you say it never go with evidences that he is not enough for you, just keep the conversation about the future not the paste.

You just do. Clear your thoughts and the reasons why you think that this is not working for you anymore and you try to be as straightforward as possible without putting the blame on someone. Honesty is the best guide when it comes to human relationships.

This is very serious decision. You should plan for it in advance so you don't get emotional, frustrated or angry while doing this. You also need to respect the other person's feelings, who have been your boyfriend till now. It is recommended to go for a coffee or a dinner where there are more people around, tell it loudly and firmly so he notices your decision is final. Leave the place immediately and information all your common friends about it in a day or two.

Be open to him about it. Also, be clear, concise and straightforward. Don't beat around the bush. Sadly, there is no way to avoid hurting him. The hurt will happen but it will be better for the long run. Don't think you're saving him by pretending to still want to be with him. That will end up with you being unhappy and him being absolutely shattered when he finds out the truth

Honesty is the best policy. There may be different reasons as to why you no longer want to be with your partner. You owe it to them and to yourself to get out of a relationship that doesn't make you happy. Have a face to face talk with them and explain that the relationship can't continue. Don't give false hope and be direct

Be kind. Be gentle. Be firm and compassionate. Don't try to soften it by making promises that you should not make or by compromising your decision. Make it fairly quick but long enough not to seem uncaring.

Thats a very good question and full of thought. I can imagine how difficult it is to get to the point of wanting to break the relationship with him. What is the reason behind the break up? is he abusive? tell him with someone present why you don't want to be with him. If he's immature then simply tell him space is needed for both of you to grow and develop. if you are just young and ready to move on then don't feel guilty because that is life and you should explore life to make sure that this relationship will be right for you in the future.

Always make sure to be respectful to him, but also be firm in your decision. The best way to end a relationship is to talk to the person you are breaking up with face to face and be straight forward and honest, but never insult the person personally.

This varies greatly on many factors such as how strongly he feels for you, how long you've been seeing each other for and your general rapport with the other. But I've found that being straightforward is the best way. It might sound harsh and breaks hearts, but in the long run, he will respect that you did not lie or try to sugarcoat it. Of course, you don't need to be very sudden about it. Try hinting at it for a few days through words and/or actions, and then pick a suitable day, then just say what's on your mind.

With a long honest conversation where you can both talk to each other. A big mistake most people do is to give the talk "it's not you, it's me" and then the other person never really closes the door. The most frontal seemingly brutal conversations are the ones that usually allow someone to move forward. Unanswered questions are the worst.

Explain to him why you can't be with him. Be calm while saying it. If he feels hurt or gets angry hear him out and remain calm.

You can approach the situation and tell him straight on that maybe its time to end things or you can go the situation where you tell them the reason to you wanting to break up.

Well, I guess you should start by making sure this is really what you want. Cause when you decide that you really want out of the relationship, you'll have plenty to say once you decide to break it off. I suggest approach it as lovingly as you can and voice out why you've decided to end it and make sure he understands that you just know it wont work anymore. Best of luck.

Be honest! He deserves somebody who will love him as much as they love him in return, and you deserve to be in love too. It will hurt, but in the end, he'll see that he wouldn't want to be in an unrequited relationship.

Be honest and respectful about it. If he truly cares for your happiness, he will let you go. He will need time to process this information,be there to make him understand the reason.

The best thing to do is to have an honest conversation with him. Tell him the truth and give reasons. Don't leave him confused or worried.

Be truthful say exactly what you think and how you feel better to say your feelings than to pretend

Be as honest as you can be about it. Make sure you tell this to him in person. I know it's not an easy thing to do..its normal for you to want to consider the options of telling it to him via text or phone call but trust me on this.. these things are better told face to face. It will eliminate room for misunderstandings. Let him know all the reasons in a clear manner. First ask him to listen to everything you have to say and then do the same with him. After you're done telling everything..give him the time he needs to process all the things you've said and then be a compassionate listener and hear what he has to say. If he starts pleading you to change your decision let him know that you've made up your mind. Do stand strong in your decisions. You can also tell him about the good times you've had with him and the memories you will cherish (if that's the case). Let him know that its for the best for the both of you. After all this you can leave and let time do its healing.

CALL.FACE EACH OTHER ,EXPLAIN(FOR THE LAST TIME) AND LEAVEE BEFORE ANYTHING STOPS AND BE TRUE HONEST