Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

How do you get over the person who you've built your life around? He was literally the most favourite person to be around.. He was my very bestfriend.. It's so hard..

3 Answers
Last Updated: 04/04/2022 at 9:39pm
1 Tip to Feel Better
United States
Moderated by

Jessica McDaniel, LPC, LCPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

I have been practicing cognitive behavioral psychotherapy since 2007 with a diverse group of adult clients with various diagnoses, all races, and socioeconomic classes.

Top Rated Answers
carlyolivia
February 20th, 2018 9:20pm
Sometimes terrible things happen and sadly, life has to go on. If your friend is no longer in your life, chances are he wasn't meant to stay. Try to remember that everytime time a door closes, another one opens.
snowflakes
September 17th, 2018 12:10pm
I am going through same kind of situation. No one can take the place of someone as close and special as that. We can meet thousands of people but no one can replace that one. But than , we have to remember that a friendship requires two people to work. If both are willing enough to put efforts in that Friendship than no matter what, it won't ever end . And if it did despite all odds, just be thankful for meeting someone like him. And move on. It's a bitter truth but not all stories need to be complete. Some remain unfinished with a unacceptable ending. It's life, it works that way. Get that courage of steel to accept it and move on. Life stops for no one . Pray he is happy wherever he is and concentrate on your life. Sadly, there's nothing more to do sometimes. It's a tough call but has to be taken
cherishedIris1771
April 4th, 2022 9:39pm
To be honest I never got over the person Ive built my life around, I just learned how to deal with it and how to face the truth. I feel in love with my bestfriend 5 years ago and I never really truly got over him, he knows how a feel and it hurts to see him with other people. So I do my best to distract my self and to find other things that make me happy.It might take awhile but I know you can do it.It is hard but its life,but we cant let it bring us down or make us who we are.