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I broke up with my ex but I want him back. I feel so lost. What do I do?

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Last Updated: 12/10/2019 at 7:37pm
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Anonymous
March 27th, 2018 11:06am
you must of broke up with him for a reason, has he done something wrong by you? remember you are only young, you have your whole life ahead of you
Anonymous
January 21st, 2019 2:09pm
Depends for what reason you broke up with him. If you truly love him, try talking to him and see will he accept if you two get back together. I wish you luck, I'm sure he will, if you two were both happy while your relationship lasted, I'm sure he will understand you just needed alone time. Is there anything else worrying you? I'll try my best to help and listen, if you want to, we can arrange other meeting, just find some time and message me when you know! I'll gladly listen to whatever problem there is! Goodbye !
Zombiechick210
November 18th, 2019 11:33pm
Well, Personally.. I suck at breakups, but what I found helped was I thought about what the main reason was. Obviously it was good enough for the break up, so something must connect. I know you'll still have feelings, in a way, we always will.. it's part of who we are. We take the good memories and the bad memories. But why would you put yourself through that relationship again is is didn't work out the first time? it's nothing anyone every really wants to hear, but it's the way life is. Breakups will always be hard, but it's how you take it, how you take that experience. How you use the joy, the anger, frustration and sadness that will really help you through it. But at some point, you'll need to let go. You will have to let someone else experience it, hopefully not all the bad you did, but yeah.
MomoListens
December 10th, 2019 7:37pm
Seems like you regret your decision of breaking up with your ex. Or you have started to think your decision had been made in haste. Either way, ask yourself why did you break up with your ex? And why do you wanna go back to him. Those are two very important questions that you need to answer yourself. Do you really want to be with that person? Or you hate the idea of being alone? You feel lost, and you might think that this feeling is forever, but time heals wounds, trust me. Give it some time and things might make a bit more sense in the longer run.