I met this boy 3 months ago and we have been meeting since,I like him a lot and I know he doesn’t want anything serious but I really like him but it wouldn’t work with us...what do I do to get over?
Last Updated: 12/14/2020 at 12:12am
Kajsa Futrell, RTC
I specialise in respectfully helping people navigate their way through trauma and relationship issues. The adversities in our life can actually transform us.
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slowly, not all of a sudden, but slowly distance your self from him. Talk to other people and keep your mind busy. But be sure to explain to him why you do this.
why dont you try to spend more time with him and show him some kind of interest, but with an onther way. Like talking about things that he is interest with ( if he loves music you can talk about your favourite music bands ). Look at him in the eye, a good eye contact seem like you care about him are you are interested about what he is saying. Ask him more about hiself, people love talking about themselves. Dont forget to be confident about yourself and be patient.
I would say either let him know you want it to be serious or stop seeing him and move on. You already have a clear conscious of what you want! If he does as well and it is not having a serious relationship, it wouldn't be right to stay for you or for him if you don't have the same intentions. It is super easy to lie to yourself and dig a deeper hole like that in relationships. Being open and honest from the start helps with saving time and emotions. You cannot force him to have a serious relationship as well as he cannot force you to be in a casual one. You already recognize what you want and if it isn't working, you will have to change it.
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