It's been 6 years since I broke up with my ex. I now have a boy friend and a daughter, yet I keep thinking about my ex. Why do I think about them?
Last Updated: 12/15/2020 at 6:29pm
Amelia Winsby, PsyD
I often work with clients who experience a wide range of emotions and difficulties. I am non-judgmental and enjoy working with individuals from all walks of life.
Top Rated Answers
There might be things you haven’t been able to let go that have to do with your ex. Our minds can have trouble letting go of certain things, even if a long period of time has passed, anything can trigger us to remember and think about certain people from our past, especially if certain feelings are involved, whether they’re positive or negative emotions. You could examine your feelings more closely and try to identify the reasons for thinking about your ex – maybe there’s unfinished business between the two of you that was never addressed? It can be hard to move forward from our past mentally, even if we have a new life, but it doesn’t mean there’s anything 'wrong' with you.
1. He might have had an effect on you, a big effect that your current boyfriend lacks. For example he was a good listener and your current boyfriend does not listen. 2. Your current boyfriend may not be giving you as much attention as your ex did. For example calling you or spending time with you. 3. Maybe your current boyfriend is not doing that one thing that your ex boyfriend did. For example buying you gifts. 4. Perhaps you started dating your current boyfriend before it was completely over or before fully getting over your ex boyfriend. You jumped from one relationship to another before mourning your previous one. 5. You may still live in places, have friends or things that remind you of your ex. For example live in a house that you shared with your ex.
Related Questions: It's been 6 years since I broke up with my ex. I now have a boy friend and a daughter, yet I keep thinking about my ex. Why do I think about them?
How to get over someone you have to see everyday?My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. This really hurts me. What should I do?Can or should I ask my significant other to stop talking and to not associate with his ex? If so, how? How do I know if I'm in a toxic relationship?Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?What to do when you feel you are not good enough for someone?He said I was perfect for him, but he chose someone else?I regret breaking up with my ex. What should I do?How to get closure from my ex? I feel I need it.I love two different people. What should I do?