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my bf cheated on me. I stress a lot, plus i am dealing with depression as well so i can't handle this. I want him back, should i?...

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Last Updated: 10/27/2020 at 5:49pm
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BeennThroughThatX
December 3rd, 2019 6:53pm
You should remember that the condition you're in right now and all the hard time you went through that has brought you to this position is also their fault. No matter how much you need him you do know they someone who can cheat you, can never give you the love that you really deserve. So why do that to yourself? You should not go back to the person you caused you pain and put you through hard times. If he truly loves you he would never cheat on you. Dont be with a person who doesn't love you, you deserve so much more.
Anonymous
September 21st, 2020 7:39am
It’s normal to feel in that situation and we understand you. It will be really hard for you in the next few days or even weeks but we all have been there and know that it is okay to grief and be sad about it. However, I think that you should first learn to value your soltitude and embrace your worth before you can decide whether you really want him back or not. I believe that you are worthy without him but if being happy for you means being with him then it’s okay also because we won’t judge you.
gentleSnowflake4215
October 27th, 2020 5:49pm
I know that this may seem like a lot to handle right now but I know that you will be able to work through it. How did that make you feel when he did that to you and how did that affect you as a person? Where or when do you feel the most stressed? All of these questions may help you understand your feeling and why you are having these thoughts or feelings. Depression is a very difficult thing ti deal with but it is nothing that you cannot overcome. Regarding to the boyfriend issue, make sure you think to yourself and ask if this will hurt you more or make you stronger. He will be an asset to your life, he is not your life.