My boyfriend broke up with me. Then immediately hooked up with a girl. It almost seems like the break up was to go be with this girl. No he realizes how much he actually wants to be with me. Take him?
2 Answers
Last Updated: 11/03/2020 at 10:58pm
Moderated by
Paola Giordani, Psychoanalyst
Licensed Psychoanalyst
I have helped and am helping people cope with loss, divorce, anguish and parenting. Depression is also a major issue that comes up.
Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
May 15th, 2018 9:53pm
If he changed for real forgive him,if he didn't then you have to choose what's always best for your emotions and life,maybe he learned the lesson
Anonymous
November 3rd, 2020 10:58pm
I’m sorry to hear that. However it shouldn’t take him hooking up with someone else to realise what he had. You will find someone who knows what they have and will appreciate you. What’s to say he won’t do the same thing if you take him back? It will only become a cycle. If he didn’t respect you from the beginning, he doesn’t deserve you ever. I relate to this situation, it is not worth the mental strain. You are far better than that and worthy of respect, love and appreciation. I hope I helped and I hope you make the decision that is best for you.
Related Questions: My boyfriend broke up with me. Then immediately hooked up with a girl. It almost seems like the break up was to go be with this girl. No he realizes how much he actually wants to be with me. Take him?
How to get over someone you have to see everyday?My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. This really hurts me. What should I do?Can or should I ask my significant other to stop talking and to not associate with his ex? If so, how? How do I know if I'm in a toxic relationship?Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?What to do when you feel you are not good enough for someone?He said I was perfect for him, but he chose someone else?I regret breaking up with my ex. What should I do?How to get closure from my ex? I feel I need it.I love two different people. What should I do?