My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me after dating a month because he wanted a sexual relationship. I feel so used what should I do in revenge?
Last Updated: 11/10/2020 at 12:36pm
Stacey Kiger, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor
My belief is that therapy is not about giving advice, but joining you on your journey
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Doing things in revenge is never a good option. The best way to move forward is to get on with your life, make yourself happy and show him and everyone that you don't need him in your life.
What makes you think revenge is the best answer here? It’s normal to be upset and feel hurt after a relationship ends but that doesn’t mean that you should get back at him. Sometimes you need to take the higher road and be the bigger person. Remember that not all relationships are going to work out and that okay, it’s a part of life. You’ll love and you’ll lose but the most important thing is that every time you get hurt you get back up and you try again. You will find the right person for you eventually but getting revenge on your ex isn’t what’s going to help you get there.
Hi its very sad to listen about it. But its good when seen with positive side a person who is looking for sexual relation within a month is very bad. And I know its equally hard for you to go through it and forgetting but you should be happy that happened too early its a teaching of super power that what kind of people you should not have in your life. Just forget it as you have to lead to a better life keeping it hold will make things hard for you. Forgive him for yourself. And move on focus on people you want in life.
Forget him. Guys that are only interested in sexual relationships are not worth your time. You deserve so much love, and if what you get in return isn't what you deserve, that person honestly isn't worth to stop your path for. You can just ignore the people who are not worth it, it's probably the best revenge. Take care of yourself, work hard for yourself, wear confidence and he'll see the type of girl he missed and couldn't see. Hearing this makes me very upset honestly speaking. Guys who want sex and doesn't love? Girl, let that person be the person you never knew.
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