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My ex said I'll never find anyone as amazing as him and the more I look around I can only remember those words and wonder if that's really true. it's been 3 yes & I'm not over him. Does it get better?

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Last Updated: 03/31/2020 at 3:55pm
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July 23rd, 2018 12:34am
hello! i’m gonna start by saying yes, it gets better. i have been right where you are sitting and felt just as you feel. trust me when i say this, his words will disappear with time, as long as you let them.
August 13th, 2018 9:18am
It can take a long time to get better but I believe it does, someone amazing to him will be different to someone who you find amazing
November 13th, 2018 8:51pm
If this fellow was a snickers bar covered in a million dollars he wouldn't be all that great, because he's getting himself up by putting you down. Everyone deserves better than that, even mothers-in-law, even lawyers and even people who don't put back their shopping carts in the mall parking lot. You deserve to be treated with respect and valued, and there is ALWAYS someone out there who will respect and value you. All you need to do is decide that you deserve to be treated better and get out there and find Prince Charming. Best of luck to you!
March 31st, 2020 3:55pm
Yes. You'll find someone when the time is right. Until then don't overthink it. If you go searching too hard it might pass you by. Focus on falling back in love with yourself first. If you are content with yourself your beautiful glow will radiate all around and that is how you will come to meet a wonder and caring partner who will support you instead of breaking you down. Trust in yourself, give it time, and forget those negative words that were said to you three years ago. Don't allow those words to keep seeding doubts in your mind! Good luck!