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What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?

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Last Updated: 08/15/2021 at 7:48pm
What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
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Pr0Pancakes
September 18th, 2015 8:29am
Anything you and have are comfortable with. If you feel the conversation is becoming a bit uncomfortable for either you, or your partner, never hesitate to let that person know that the way the conversation is heading is a way you are not comfortable with.
neverendingWhisper36
June 28th, 2016 6:15pm
You can talk to him about anything, but only if you're comfortable with him and you trust him. There are no rules
Anonymous
September 27th, 2015 6:40pm
I often talk about random stuff... common interests are a good one. Me and my boyfriend have a common interest in gaming and we get into debates about current news things. I find it easier to just open up a conversation with something you may have seen and go from there.. It's all personal so its about finding things you are both passionate about.
Anonymous
November 1st, 2015 3:25pm
Talk about the things that interest you and how it affects your partner. Share about your daily activity and be open minded.
manishedwartcullen
September 16th, 2015 7:03am
You should first try to know in which mood he is , thn talk accordingly. If he is angry then try to change his mood and make him feel special.
Anonymous
September 11th, 2016 7:07pm
Hey my dear how are you how is going your life ? You can talk your Hobbies or your abilities. You can talk what curious about his
jess3456s
October 29th, 2015 6:20pm
You can ask him about his day. Talk about movies or the current book you or him are reading. Talk about your most favorite song at the current moment. Talk about your plans for the weekend or ask him about his. Talk about video games, etc. You can talk about anything that comes to mind. If you're comfortable with that person, you shouldn't have to think too much with what topics to talk about.
Peacefulmeditation
August 19th, 2015 10:01pm
Anything you want as long as both you and your boyfriend are comfortable talking about the subject. It helps to talk about things that he is into.
Amourelle
September 5th, 2015 3:14pm
You can talk about anything thats bothering you your boyfriend is your best friend your ears to listen and you own therpaist to give you advice.
Anonymous
August 24th, 2015 7:13am
Everything you want to achieve in life. This in an opportunity to discover if he shares the same values as you and if he is compatible.
Anonymous
December 4th, 2015 6:08pm
You can talk about whatever you feel comfortable talking about with him. You can ask how is day is going, what are his plan for the coming days, you can talk about a things you have done recently, or a movie you would like to see! All kinds of things! Just remember to be yourself!
Anonymous
February 9th, 2016 6:25am
Talk about things you enjoy and find common ground. Ask him about what he's interested in and listen to what he has to say.
Anonymous
November 16th, 2016 12:25am
Ask him about his day, and you could tell him about your day. Even mundane tasks can be fun to talk about and can bring up other topics in the process.
Anonymous
November 18th, 2016 9:55am
Talk about art, tell him about your favourite colour. Tell him what you're craving, are you thirsty? Tell him. Tell him about that cute dog you saw on your walk home today. Tell him you like it when he does hat thing that makes you smile. Tell him about the book you've just finished reading or what you want to read next. Ask him about his day, did he see a cute dog on his walk home? Make small talk, be silly, be interested and be yourself!
Newperspective18
June 9th, 2016 8:08am
Anything ! Tv shows, food, favourite shops, music, tell jokes. Plan a date. Your family , school or work things.
richVision21
February 3rd, 2018 3:21am
you can both share what you have done during the day , make plans for tomorrow , just don't overthink it a simple conversation will start a long phone call the words will rain at you
Anonymous
August 20th, 2015 11:55pm
Hi friend welcome to "7 cups of tee" what does he normally like talking about in a face to face conversation
Beautylistener
August 30th, 2015 11:28pm
you can talk about many things. everyone is bound to have something in common. talk about how your day has went, what you guys plan on doing the next time you see each other. talk about things you like as well as things you dislike. get to know them better when you aren't around them.
SilverArtemis
August 21st, 2015 8:14am
You can talk about your day,what you'd like to do together next, or a movie/book you both enjoyed.:)
BeautifulOutlaw
December 16th, 2016 2:26am
You can talk about your day, what your goals in life are by yourself and you two as a whole, talk about your future. Depending on how long you guys have been together, babies and marriage is always an option.
Josho93
June 9th, 2016 3:28pm
All conversations should be to get to know the other person better. You can talk about the day and events that happened but when it comes down to it. How well do you really know someone? Can it be better? Can you answer any question asked about the person. No. You never will be. But you can strive to care and know about your spouse.
Honeypuffs99
October 1st, 2016 1:32pm
You can talk about your day, or about a mvie you have seen, or about a common interest you have, or you can ask him about his day and what is on his mind lately.
brightPond55
June 12th, 2017 12:48pm
Your day , how much you love him? Anything really both decide together makes the relationship work better
Firstlady525
March 30th, 2017 6:49pm
Ask him how his day was/is going and tell him about yours. Tell him how much you miss him every day and how much you love him. Ask about his family ad friends. Talk about the sport he loves. And you can gossip about a few things too. Talk about seeing each other soon and the fun things you want to do together.
TheTripleS719
September 15th, 2016 8:00am
Anything. From the weather, to how your days went. Ask each other random questions, no matter how weird it may seem. It's a great way to get to know each other better and to open conversations you didn't know were there.
Brokenflowersstillgrow
November 11th, 2016 2:11pm
Everything. Talk about your day, your feelings, things you like, things you did, funny moments, music, everything you know he likes too.
Shailaa21
June 9th, 2016 11:04pm
how his day was, what he did, how his family is, how he is feeling, what you did today, talk about how you are feeling
wonderfulSong69
September 12th, 2015 1:04am
There are many things that you two may discuss future plans, school, taking a trip or simply discuss a common interest
allnaturalUnicorns70
October 27th, 2016 8:00pm
Bored for topics? What about searching wikipedia for something random, reading up about it in advance, and telling him what you learned. Then have him do the same!
ppigeokppigeok
April 15th, 2018 3:14pm
About anything! From how your day was to how you feel at the moment, or even about what your expectations are for the future of your relationship. Communication is essential, and sharing your feelings and thoughts with your significant other is a good way of knowing yourselves in depth, as well 😊