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What can I talk about with my crush?

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Anonymous
August 22nd, 2015 7:56pm
Firstly..make your crush comfortable while talking to you See if there is any topic,she is not willing to talk..simply avoid it. Aprt from that know her interest and try to find common interest and talk about them for starters.. Alsi give few compliments.. Not soo obvious..neither too cliché. Simple yet impactful.. Like about her eyes..voice smile or may b fragrance too.
Lea046
August 21st, 2015 1:21pm
You can talk about anything and everything. You can keep things simple like what happened to you today. Maybe something funny. Eventually this will stand as an icebreaker and conversation will flow smoothly.
Anonymous
August 23rd, 2015 5:56pm
If its a guy talk about sports and thing he likes but if its a girl talk about shows and gossip with her.
Rebecca
October 24th, 2015 1:50am
Oooh, talking to crushes can be so nerve-wracking, I applaud you for being brave! I like to try and find something/a few things in common with a person, and talk about that! Anything like that would be interesting for both of you, and can help to build a stronger connection with them.
DipityEnigma
November 29th, 2015 3:43pm
I would suggest not talking about past partners as some people dislike this. You can talk to them about whatever you two have in common such as gaming, reading, the news etc. If you talk about what your crush has an interest in, it will help them feel like they have a connection with you. Try not to talk too much and make sure they're not bored either. We can all get carried away. Let them talk the most, once they start talking, they'll be thankful you were there to listen and let them rant away. Hope this helps.
JanNichole
August 21st, 2015 4:07pm
Common Experiences ● How has the semester been going for you? ● Do you understand the assignment that Professor Riley gave us in class? ● What do you plan on doing your project/paper on? ● What did you do over break? ● What sort of plans do you have for break? ● What did you do over the weekend? ● Anything interesting happen this week? ● How has work been? ● What did you think about the school team's last game? ● Do you know who’s going to Jenn’s party on Friday? Interests (Shared or Interests Your Crush Has) ● What sort of movies have you seen lately? ● Have any good book recommendations? ● What shows have you been following? ● What are your favorite bands/performers/songs? ● Have you been to any great concerts lately? ● Have you seen any good plays? ● What did you think about the football game on Sunday? Non-Question Topics ● Your surroundings: the weather, an interesting painting or decoration, a peculiar scenic detail ● Interesting or humorous websites ● Current events or news ● Local topics: new restaurants, favorite restaurants, local zoos, nearby museums, city officials, shared neighbors, new attractions that have recently opened ● Compliments on appearance changes: hairstyle, clothing, shoes, accessories ● Recent experiences with friends or family ● Humorous story about something that happened earlier in the day or week
Anonymous
September 16th, 2015 6:49pm
How about whether or not the Seahawks are going to win the Superbowl this year? I'm kidding, sort of ;) But seriously, levity is the answer. Talk about light topics - things you know he or she enjoys doing or is interested in. Talk about your own likes and interests, but keep it light. Smile, laugh, make eye contact, breathe. We are more attractive to others when we are not trying to be attractive (in all forms). Often the anxiety we feel when we are overly concerned with how we are "being" in the presence of another can be detrimental to establishing and maintaining a successful relationship. Again, breathe.
Kiu98
November 29th, 2015 7:35pm
I don´t know, maybe about the fact that you like her (or him), we have to express what we feel, because, we don´t know when that person will leave our live, so, the best thing we can do is, open up and being sincere with that person, and, with yourself.
Anonymous
August 19th, 2015 12:59pm
In my opinion, you can talk about various of things with your crush if you are friend with him/her. You can try showing how much you care for him by asking him questions about his day, how is his condition and stuffs like that - this can be a conversation topic with him. You can also tell him about how you feel and what you have been through. It is important to not only focus on yourself, give him time to talk and share his experiences too.
Anonymous
August 26th, 2015 2:05am
about what he or she likes, but still keep it simple, you can talk about his or hers future career that also helps but its always a good idea to have normal friend talks
Kbell18
September 26th, 2015 5:56pm
You can speak to your crush about what there hobbies are, what they are interesting in, about there family, just speak to them like anyone else
Anonymous
November 22nd, 2015 2:16pm
Be as casual as possible while dropping small hints that you may want to go out with the male or female in question.
Anonymous
August 19th, 2015 12:33am
Talk about your mutual interests. Music or hobbies! I usually find that talking about future ambitions (what they wish to work as etc) almost always works for me!
Sarah166
August 19th, 2015 3:38am
Find a common interest with him/her! it may seem difficult but movies, music, and books are always good go to's!
Peacefulmeditation
August 19th, 2015 10:00pm
Talk about you would normally talk about with your friends... trying to struggle to find things in common or to overthink communication can cause awkwardness.
Anonymous
August 20th, 2015 3:35am
similar interests . tak to him about things ike music, hobbys, and movies, to find out simiar intersts
Anonymous
August 20th, 2015 8:32am
You can ask him/her about there day. he things they like. Fav food ,movie,place,sports,brand,hobby etc.
Anonymous
August 20th, 2015 5:25pm
Start with talking about something you know you have in common. (EX: Isn't Ms.Briggs so annoying?!)Then start asking about their favorite things (books, movies, tv shows, etc) and once you hit a common interest keep talking! If that topic fades away, keep asking and answering more questions.
Anonymous
August 21st, 2015 12:06am
Hi friend welcome to 7cups of tee...what are your intrests or hobbies what do you both have in common?
Sophieandacupofcofee
August 21st, 2015 3:04am
Well, at first just start with random things like "What time is it?" "It's raining, lol", whatever fits you, and then once you've stablished an everyday conversation, try finding things you have in common. Casually mention a band or something you like, maybe he likes it too! Just imagine you're talking with one of your friends: That will do the thing :) Hope this helped!
Anonymous
August 21st, 2015 9:16am
Basically why I feel attracted with my crush because he seems have a good quality of your soulmate. He looks don't care for you but he always share his everyday life stories!
SilverArtemis
August 21st, 2015 7:53pm
About your day, hen your likes,dislikes& interests. It's a great way to know them&let them know you.
Anonymous
August 22nd, 2015 5:10am
Talk about yourself, but also ask about him/her. Ask some questions you haven't asked. ( No creepiness.)
Pozio
August 22nd, 2015 10:23am
About everything :D And nothing. remember to take some steps and show her/him that you have clear intentions, instead of acting like a friend, to not end up in a friendzone.
OliviaWI
August 22nd, 2015 4:47pm
The possibilities are endless. Find a common ground between one another. Same age, same school? From there, you can build off the conversations by learning more about each other.
Montse
August 26th, 2015 9:36pm
I usually try to find similar hobbies, like watching same series or movies, or any instrument, music, anything! If I don't find anything then first, be funny, second, create new hobbies for both of you! :)
kashu510
August 27th, 2015 7:17pm
Talking to a crush is the same as talking to a random person who you are trying to make small talk with. Talk about the little things, how they are today, interesting things that happened in the news, the weather, etc.
Beautylistener
August 28th, 2015 12:53am
try and find things you have in common. possibly, movies, music, hobbies? everyone has at least a few things in common.
PvtCaboose23
August 28th, 2015 8:29pm
Whatever you feel comfortable talking about. Your crush is just the same as a friend or co worker or classmate.
MrMeNr1
August 29th, 2015 10:55pm
Just let the conversation go where it goes. If you both happen to be silent, hiiiiii could talk about school, music, books, series or basically anything else