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Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
October 25th, 2015 2:06am
Talk about them and you. Don't identify your crush as an object this is an easy mistake to make look at them like a person. So talk to them about things they like and get to know them if possible.
You can talk about anything with your crush, but honestly, I wouldn't go to into depth unless you really really trust them
Anonymous
October 25th, 2015 3:54pm
Its very simple whatever she likes or follows know well about that, if required read some regarding that area, and enjoy happy talking.
Anonymous
October 26th, 2015 3:58pm
Start by talking about something you both like. the best way to connect to people is by talking about what you like. you can make connections with people based on interests
Anything! Just start a conversation and try to find something you have in common, and the conversation will run itself.
Shared interests, small token gifts, what makes you attracted to them in a broad general way. For example, you have nice eyes, you have nice hands, you make me laugh, etc.
see if you have any comment interests! ask the person questions about what they like or don't like. It is a great way to get to know them!
Just talk to him casually, or whatever you want to talk about! If you have to talk about specific things to make him like you then he isn't the person for you hunnie:-)
Anonymous
October 29th, 2015 2:29pm
Talk to him about his life family friends and relatives talk to him about what he likes were he likes to go
Some/ most of the things you can talk about with your crush should be rather open. To avoid future heartaches it's best to be open with the person you "feel" for.
Resentment can come along in the future by changing who you are for someone else; It's better to be disliked for who you are than to be liked for who you are not.
Slowly open conversations and figure out each others boundaries to decide what topics are appropriate for the both of you. Discover each others openness and respect one another's choices to postpone a topic until you are more comfortable with each other.
Anonymous
October 30th, 2015 1:11pm
Anything and everything!!! Let lose and go for it. Talk about things you know they like or things you have in common. Music, tv, YouTube, movies, friends you know
Everything you feel like sharing would be good to be expressed to your crush.
It is not about what you are able or not able to talk about, but it is more about the way someone expresses feelings, thoughts and ideas. When this happens in a pleasant and polite way there is nothing that should be unsaid in my opinion!
In my experience, talking about the weather wasn't a great subject. If you're not that close to your crush, get to know them! Ask about their family, their life, their hope for their future. Once you get really close to them, you can start asking them questions which will really engage them in conversation. These questions may seem very weird to you but they will strengthen your relationship. For example, would you rather questions. This is because it will set you aside from the other people your crush talks to. When your crush thinks about you, he/she will think about the unique questions you asked which will keep you in his/her mind for longer and make you stand out from the others.
IT depends how old you are, on gender and your own personality. What do you like about him/her? Perhaps it is just nice being together.
Anything that comes to mind! You do not want to over plan when connecting with people. Just be yourself and see if things progress! If not, don't worry it just isnt a match! Your match is out there you just have to find them!
A lot of things, get to know them better. For example, favourite food, favourite colour, favourite shopping store, favourite outfit, favourite storybook, author. ANYTHING.
Ask him/her what makes them smile. You'll get to know what they like and care about. It will start a conversation. It will also make them smile when you ask this question.
1. How your day went
2. what makes you happy
3. your hobbies
4. your future plans
5. your dreams and ambitions
You should not have to limit who you are around them and be able to talk about anything. If you have to limit yourself then they are not the person for you.
Anonymous
November 5th, 2015 10:24am
Whatever you want. You shouldn't feel restricted. Talk about what you wish to share with him/her, but let him/her also do some talking.
You can talk to your crush like how you talk to a friend. But don't move in to fast you might scare you crush away. Be open but not entirely open until you are sure that the cost is clear :D
Talk about things you probably have in common! Music, books, TV shows, etc. If they don't engage in any of these, try recommending some! Maybe you can bond over funny jokes or puns. Ask what they're doing in their life, and sound interested in it, even if it isn't really ;)
try find her interest and talk about that... give the feeling of trust... care... and let know her/him worth too 50% it worked
Anonymous
November 8th, 2015 4:13pm
You should be able to talk about anything with your crush, there shouldnt be a certain topic to talk about, if you like him you should be able to tell him anything knowing he wont judge you or he isnt worth your time if he does
JOKES.....LOTS OF IT MAYBE!
Start with an obvious interest of his/hers. Give him/ her a complement. invite them to hang out without seeming desperate, thereafter you'll have something to talk about, and possible chances to hangout again and build up on more things to talk about. meanwhile talk about your interests, your opinions on similar interests, what you are currently doing for example studying, working e.t.c
Crush will always remain crush... si dont waste your time on them.. love them who loves you instead of loving someone who doesnt even know aabout your feelings
Anonymous
November 14th, 2015 9:46pm
Try to discuss feelings or find out if they like you through a friend discuss interests etc try to be yourself
Anonymous
November 15th, 2015 2:41am
Be yourself. Here's a tip: You're cute when you're confident, not so much when you aren't.
Uh, this is hard. Listen, you should ask her/him what he/she likes. Like a normal person, nothing too personal. Just chill
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