What have I done wrong?

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Last Updated: 05/01/2018 at 12:17am
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Mental Health is a journey of learning to understand yourself, thoughts, and emotions. I feel that this is a journey that is best taken with support.

Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
November 26th, 2014 8:04pm
It's clear that you're going through a hard time right now and you are blaming yourself for whatever has happened. I don't know what has happened but I can only imagine that it wasn't your fault yet you still feel you are responsible. I'd just like to say that it isn't your fault and that you haven't done anything wrong , if you need someone to talk to about this I would be more than happy to talk to you about it and help you get through this challenging situation.
Greatlistener87
April 25th, 2016 1:51am
Everybody makes mistakes, the idea is to forgive yourself and move forward. Don't be too hard on yourself just because you made a mistake or something when wrong, This things happens the only time you have truly lost is when u give up not when u fight to get it right again.
wonderfulPurple52
December 9th, 2014 2:00pm
Nothing. Never blame yourself. There not always one side is faulty. there are two stories of every situation. Just remember that. Take care and good luck
Anonymous
December 23rd, 2014 4:53am
What have you done right? Quite a bit, I think. You're still here. You get out of bed. You're breathing. Some days you feel like you accomplish more than others. Some days, all you can do is just maintain. It's all good.
Philhere4you
April 24th, 2017 9:36pm
Nothing! I have always been on the right path. I took the time to analyse my mistakes and realize what I have to do to do it right. And I will always do mistakes because it is the best but the hard way to learn things in life. I am sure of how strong I am and all the possibilities I have whithin me. And I will never stop doubting from time to time, so I could realize by myself when you did a mistake.
datperuviandude
November 28th, 2014 1:40am
I have treated the best people in the worst of the conditions which leaded to almost never giving a chance to any new opportunity life brought me with someone new. I wish I could fix all those bad behaviors and treat those people like they deserve, like the piece of gold they truly are.
Anonymous
November 25th, 2014 1:45pm
It's not just about what have you done wrong, but it's about what have both of you done wrong. You cannot take all the burdens on your shoulder.
Anonymous
December 3rd, 2014 9:45pm
Having the "what have I done wrong" thing in your mind is probably a sure sign that you have un-true feelings and or thoughts about yourself. Did you actually do something "wrong" or are you assuming that you have? Sometimes when you think you've done something wrong, you should ask a close family member or friends for advice. If they say you didn't do anything wrong, listen to them!
Backroad
December 24th, 2014 6:28pm
You haven't done anything wrong some times it may feel like you have failed but if you keep your head up you will succeed.
PaintsGrayscaleHearts
January 7th, 2015 1:51pm
You've done nothing wrong with the principle of life. Because as human we do the right things and the wrong things. Remember we aren't perfect and we tend to make mistakes.
helpfulMoment81
July 25th, 2016 12:33am
I think the only thing that you could have possibly done wrong in life is to regret not doing something. Not taking the chance. Besides that, everything that has happened, whether good or bad, has been a lesson that has allowed you to grow as an individual.
Alinium
August 9th, 2016 2:05pm
Nothing. Everything. It is not up to me to judge you. And to be honest, it is not up to anyone, even you. Things happen. We react. Consequences follow. Don't beat yourself up. Just see how you can accept it, and or change it.
Sanctuary
November 30th, 2014 3:41am
For letting my dad take control of my life and having all my life decisions made by him. I've suffered from unnecessary consequences thanks to him.
Anonymous
December 16th, 2014 10:28pm
You have done absolutely nothing wrong! Our mind likes to play tricks on us sometimes and we think we've messed up, but really, we haven't. Keep your head up!
Anonymous
April 23rd, 2015 12:33am
It sounds like you're experiencing some guilt about something. You may find that talking about it to someone may help. Another possibility is there could be something else making you feel that way. Something you can't help and if that's the case, it's best to talk with a professional. They can find out exactly what is going on and will know how to handle it.
Anonymous
July 7th, 2015 1:19am
If you've done something wrong dont feel guilt unless your at fault and if your at fault of the problem
Anonymous
September 5th, 2016 1:23am
Nothing you can't change people's thoughts or action when treating others but you can learn to not treat others the way they treat you
gloriousPudding18
May 1st, 2018 12:17am
Absolutely nothing. Everyone is worthy of love and respect. You do not have to be perfect all the time. It's okay to make mistakes.