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Why do I always think about him or her?

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Last Updated: 06/05/2020 at 2:44am
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Lianne Kirby, MA in Counselling Psychology


I believe everyone should have the opportunity for their voice to be heard. I use a trauma informed, person centred approach in counselling.

Top Rated Answers
March 30th, 2016 5:30pm
Sometimes we need be recognized by others to feel good. Its important to be fair with everyone and all.
March 31st, 2016 11:21pm
Because you care. They did something that made you think about them all the time. That's normal. These things happen.
April 3rd, 2016 9:53am
When someone has made an impact on your life, you tend to remember them when you do certain tasks. If this person is a significant other in your life, it is possible that you will think of them almost all of the time
April 10th, 2016 3:25am
This question could be a interpreted a few ways. Is he/she a loved one who's sick, or are you just in love with them and haven't realized it? Either way that person's special.
April 15th, 2016 3:35am
You think about someone because you are attracted to them. They also must have left a big impression on you. Be Careful that you dont build them up too high in your mind. They might not be all that in reality
April 22nd, 2016 4:48am
Because your brain is stuck on the fact of missing them, just try and think of things that make you happy
April 22nd, 2016 5:56pm
When you're in love sometimes that all you can do is think about someone. That isnt always a bad thing to have someone in your thoughts. Always just make sure that it is healthy. Tell them how you feel.
April 30th, 2016 12:24am
It could be because you really care about him/her and they left an impression on you that you can't shake. It could also mean you think highly of them
May 1st, 2016 12:16pm
because of our memories together that regardless of how our relationship did end , it still happened and it was beautiful enough to never forget and always be missed
May 6th, 2016 6:05pm
try to engage yourself in study or job or in activities whatever you love to do ,then you dont have time to think about him/her.. keep your mind full of activities ...
May 7th, 2016 6:17am
It could depend on many things, if you have like her/him for over 5 months it could mean you are in love.
May 8th, 2016 10:13pm
If you're always thinking about him or her It can mean you have special feelings toward that person.
May 12th, 2016 9:40pm
It could be because you could be in possible love or its an infatuation, either way you will move on or be with them
May 17th, 2016 5:06pm
“Isn't it funny how the memories you cherish before a breakup can become your worst enemies afterwards? The thoughts you loved to think about, the memories you wanted to hold up to the light and view from every angle--it suddenly seems a lot safer to lock them in a box, far from the light of day and throw away the key. It's not an act of bitterness. It's an act if self-preservation. It's not always a bad idea to stay behind the window and look out at life instead, is it?”
May 18th, 2016 8:47pm
Enjoying life ....its all cool...dont worry if one plans fail ..where there ia will there is a WAY..
May 20th, 2016 8:12am
Because she/he was awesome. But now they're gone. Like a beautiful wave crashing on the shore and disappearing into the many tiny grains of sand.
May 22nd, 2016 1:58pm
Because he is special. No one can be like him. The way he talks and moves. It's magical. No one can be compared to him
May 24th, 2016 8:07pm
Really?? I always think about him? I also didn't know this uptil now but yeah i miss my crush and he don't even know me.
May 25th, 2016 9:45pm
Because you picture yourself with that person and you feel happy around them. Your mind wants to be happy and therefore keeps them in your mind.
May 26th, 2016 12:11pm
Because you must still have feelings, try keeping your mind busy with tasks to stop thinking of them
May 26th, 2016 12:33pm
see thinking of some body is not wrong overthinking of some body is wrong its same like smoking once a day will not affect you much but getting addicted of smoking will harm you much what i suggest you is go for a long walk or sit beside river or do anything what you like but dont get addicted in short term u may be happy but in long run u will be unhappy
May 28th, 2016 9:11pm
I always think about him because he makes me feel so happy. It's natural to want to think about the things that make you happy and that you enjoy!
June 1st, 2016 4:15pm
Perhaps they are on your mind constantly because your feelings for them, no matter what they may be, are very strong.
June 2nd, 2016 6:10am
are you in an relationship? then that makes sence. if you like that person, that makes seance to. but if its a guy/girl you'e just met, start with spending time with him/her and see if its a nice guy/girl
June 2nd, 2016 6:21pm
Does it refer to your partner? Because you love them! And it's a beautiful thing. As long as you're both happy and fulfilled with your relationship, you should feel happy.
June 2nd, 2016 11:01pm
You think about him/ her because you used to have some sort of connection with that person. I'm sure this person means a lot to you hence why they're always on your mind.
June 3rd, 2016 6:13pm
It can be very difficult to stop thinking about someone you love/ed it can make people feel stuck or confused
June 7th, 2016 5:07am
Because they are a big part of your life and obviously mean a lot to you. If you had never met them maybe your life would be completely different! :)
June 10th, 2016 1:19am
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June 10th, 2016 3:48pm
Because he or she is a part of your life..he or she effected your life in such a way that they are always in your thoughts