Why do women cheat instead of breaking up?

Sometimes people cheat. Men and women. It's best to try and understand 'why' people cheat. There are many reasons and some are easier to understand than others. Talking through 'cheating' can help you both to see 'why' and sometimes help resolve the issues.

Cheating is neither a female nor male issue, they both do it. People cheat for many reasons but most of them fall in one or both of two categories: something lacking in their relationship or something lacking in themselves. No matter the reason cheating is never okay. If it has already happened there is still hope but only if each party is willing to be very honest and do a lot of work.

A lot of reasons, probably similar to the ones that men cheat too. :) Someone close to me cheated on their man that they were technically married to because they felt like they couldn't survive independently (finance-wise), they 'had to' cheat in order to retain a part of their sanity and because the stakes were too high if the other relationship didn't work out and breaking up would mean that there would have been no fallback.

They cheat for someone sort of shield to help the pain they are emotionally going through..they dont want to loose thier significant other but st the same time if that someone us not giving them what they need to go looking for it in another individual

They don’t wanna feel alone even if the relationship is not happy and they wish for something else they don’t feel worthy or good enough to risk the relationship

Unfortunately, this is entirely situational. Did this happen to you recently? or do you have experience with this? Are you concerned that you will be cheated on?

This question isn't limited to just women. People are selfish. it is good to have the cake and eat it.

Probably for a variety of reasons. In my experience, one reason is because they're dissatisfied with the relationship and they aren't getting what they need from their partner even though they love them. And they're afraid to have that difficult conversation to end things and hurt someone they love, and maybe some part of them is afraid to lose that partner as well. And cheating perhaps seems like an easier way to do that and be the "bad guy" so you don't have to have those tough conversations.

It is hard to pinpoint why women cheat. Sometimes, a person think they can find more passion, companionship, and fun from someone else. They love the person they are with or do not want to give up what they have, i.e., money, status, associations, family. Affairs can be like taking a holiday. I would say most people do not want to give up their main relationship but feel they are missing something. Because of this, they try to find it in another person.

Is not only women that could cheat, men do it too unfortunately. And the main reason someone cheats and don't break up is because they want to have a backup plan

Usually they cheat because they might not want to end the relationship. They might not want to hurt the man feelings, so they cheat to avoid breakups.

Some Women cheat most of the times expecting their own interests and so mean try to cheat instead of Break up. The person on the other side gets hurt badly not knowing the things properly and in the end lead himself into Depression. Some Women expect some gain and when this gain is not achieved they cheat instead of Break up.

Many women cheat (instead of breaking up) when their husbands don't treat them right. For example: if the husband is too busy with his job and is ignorant to his wife, she might find a friend or someone who's actually there for her and listens to her and so women would want to be with them. But they would also not want to leave their husband because they still love them and want to be with them. And so they cheat on them, but only because they want to be loved and cared for. This doesn't justify why they'd do such a thing, I'm just saying that this could be ONE of the many reasons

I think this a very general statement that simply isn't true for all cases. Yes, some women cheat - and some men cheat. And some women break up, and some men break up. It's really a case by case situation, each person has their own reasons for doing whatever it is they do. When it comes to cheating, I think there's two general reasons why people do it - one is that they're fearful of ending a relationship in case they lose something without having something else to replace it. The other reason is that some people like to have their cake and eat it too - essentially, they want a partner, but also the freedom to do whatever they want. But even those two reasons are broad generalisations that give a very simplistic explanation for these situations, and again, probably don't cover the specifics of each individual case. The only way you'll ever understand why a particular person cheated is to ask that person their reasons, and maybe they might tell you.

When we speak of cheating instead of breaking up in the terms of women I believe it is through a few different reasons. For one I must say this isn’t every women, not every lady you date will cheat instead of break up if they feel things are not right. When a woman cheats I believe a major factor to be is fear. If communication is an issue in the relationship or they have suffered abuse in the past they may be scared to tell you that they have found someone else they care about or love. This could be because a previous lover was abusive if they talked to other people or they just don’t know how to communicate the issue. Communication is a big part of every relationship

Love between two people is very strong, and so are connections. If a woman doesn’t feel loved, she might seek it elsewhere, even if she may still be attached to whomever she is currently with. Going through a breakup is extremely hard and a lot of ordeal, so it’s easier to cheat and deal with the consequences rather than leave. Sexual compatibility also plays a big factor, it’s very possible to love and be in love with someone, but not be compatible sexually which can be incredibly frustrating. Even though a woman is in love with that person doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have needs. It can be very hard to not be compatible with someone you love and seek validation elsewhere.

First things first: it is not just women that cheat; gender is of irrelevance when it comes to cheating. If you ask me, regardless of gender, the only reason why people cheat is the thought that they have settled for less. A man who thinks that he has settled for a loving but not quite photogenic wife might cheat. A woman who finds that she can hang around men who are willing to spend on her for the pleasures of the flesh might cheat. I am using the word might here because these are not the minimum requirements to cheat on one's partner. Ones who wish to stay loyal will, even in the worst of days. And why anyone would cheat without breaking up is a simple question with a rather simple answer: wanting to eat their cake and have another too.

Cheating regardless of gender happens for many reasons. Often times it can be a problem in the relationship, but it can also have to do with problems with the individual. People get stuck sometimes and the novelty of new experience can give people an invigorating rush. Especially during challenging life moments that cause a person to question their identity. If there are relationship problems; it can be a lack of communication, compassion, attraction, or any other number of problems. While it's difficult you have to ask yourself; is this person worth it. Is it worth trying to work through it? If you can, engage them in an honest conversation. Try to remain calm and understanding. Only you can decide if you can bridge the gap that has formed between you two.

Breaking up with a partner can be scary. Especially if we haven’t been so open about what we want in that relationship. We often hide our emotions and avoid expressing them to our partner. And by doing that, we lose a bond that we could potentially have with that person, and our connection is no longer that strong. Also, there could be other negative things and issues that can weaken relationships, such as trust issues or abusive behavior. Women often cannot leave their partners because they’re afraid of the unpredictability of their actions. They’re simply stuck. And although cheating is a very bad act, sometimes women do it because they simply do not see another option. That’s why we shouldn’t be so quick to judge them, but should rather listen to their stories first.

First of all, I personally think its not about being a woman or man but rather the way that person is, as in their personality and attitude. :) There can be a couple of reasons why people cheat on their partners and not break up. Firstly, it could be the fact that they don't want to hurt their partner by dumping them, but they assume it's fine to cheat on their partners which obviously is more painful than getting dumped. Secondly, some would need more and more attention, as they might find getting attention from just a single person inadequate. Additionally, some even does it for fame, as they might want to be known as the "player", as this gives more attention as well.

Because they feel bad for their partner, they feel as though they cannot voice their own opinion on the relationship and because they don’t want to hurt their partners feelings. They feel like they need a break or a separation of the reality that they have with their partner so they seek that in other people and other partners. It is also because they might feel trapped in a relationship and/or they want more control and a break from the mundane routine of everyday life. It might be to encounter lust and sensuality again or because they are truly confused with the current relationship. Whatever it is, it happens for a reason.

We have to think in both ways.Maybe they like you but dont want to lose you. There are cases where men cheat too.They all like you for some reason but,they think we are lacking somewhere.So,they try to compensate it by going to others to fill the void.This doesnt actually mean that we are lacking.It means that,they are not the one,if you find such person,then keep your distance.You will know when the right person comes. It saves time,energy,resources and heart break .Your partner should be someone who you can satisfy and you are more than satisfied with.Dont settle for less!!

Perhaps they are no longer happy in the relationship they are in but the person they are with is going through a rough time so breaking up could lead to their mental health worsening or they are in a toxic relationship but it's comfortable. They don't have to go through what is thought of as a hassle: breaking up so cheating is just how they cope.

I think women cheat instead of breaking up because they may feel like their partner has forgotten about them. Instead of talking to their partner about how they feel, they cheat so they can get some attention. They might think that "maybe if i do this, then 'so and so' will realize that they need to put in some more work, and maybe they will get jealous". I also think that sometimes people just don't think about what they're doing. Maybe they miss that feeling of the first kiss. Or maybe they are just unhappy in their relationship and need a reason to end things.

I don't think we truly know what's happening completely in someone's mind. It could be a number of factors. I would think it could be due to being unhappy, or something about the relationship is not fulfilling their needs or expectations. Sometimes I think people bury their problems instead of facing them because it's easier than having to deal with the stress, confrontation or discussion. I don't think it's a gender issue, I think both men and women cheat because they have an issue in their lives they can't, or won't, deal with. Either way, communication with your spouse/partner should come first but, unfortunately, that's not always the case.

It can be difficult to accept that your relationship has come to an end, and instead, many individuals seek to find comfort and that missing "spark", or a distraction, with someone else to take their mind of the issue at hand, or to make themselves feel better by causing anger instead of dealing with the issue at hand. From here, many will choose to move forward with cheating, lying, or hiding with someone else in order to make their life seem more full. In short, there is no one reason for this behaviour, and no one type of person that can engage in it, but unfortunately, it is a coping mechanism.

They do not wish to hurt someone that they feel that they have had a commitment to, but they seek more attention or something else in another person. They don't want to hurt the person, but wind up hurting them by cheating. They feel that if they can do it without getting caught then it doesn't hurt anyone. Cheating is the solution that they see and the one they choose. They may not want to hurt the person they are with, but at the same time they are not satisfied with their current relationship. They feel stuck and cheating is their only way out.

Well, it has been forced onto women that if they break up with someone and break their heart for no obvious reason, they are a horrible person, and don't deserve to have someone. But, if they cheat it gives the guy a reason to break up with her, making it the man's choice. Or, they simply find that they love both men, or, she feels the one she's having the affair with can give her something the other can not. She may not see a way out of the first relationship, and makes her see cheating as her only choice.

Women cheat because of lack of communication. Sometimes we all need space and men are more possessive to provide them with that. I am a guy myself so i know it better. Communication is the key for a good relationship. You must be able to talk about anything and everything. And in no way it will a woman's fault if she is not able to share her heart. Its your responsibility to make her feel secure and respect her opinion no matter how it is. Women are never afraid of being corrected but they dont like rejection. When you laugh out at their opinions, stands or decisions, you make them feel bad or may be disrespected even if that wasn't your intention. She cheated because she couldn't say it that she has lost an interest in you. But along with this know a thing that even you are not at fault. You are the way you are. Few improvements can take place but you cant change your personality. So worry not. She isnt with you because you two werent the perfect people for each other. So keep seeking till you meet your best person of life.

Not all women cheat. Not all men cheat either. But there is no one answer to why one does cheat. It can be many different reasons. If you have been cheated on, it is not your fault. Just that person has different morals and ideas to why they decided to cheat. Asking them will always end with either you being blamed for their own made up reason or because they lack empathy. But even if there is some blaming to why you were cheated on. Do not take it fully to heart but take it as there is some ounce of truth. Use it to improve yourself and not become cynical. Lastly, talk to someone and give yourself time to heal because your trust will be broken. You will find yourself with future partners lacking trust because of the damage you received from being cheated on. Once you feel you can trust again. Try again.