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Why does it feel so bad when I’m on someone else bed with him on my mind but we haven’t been together for a while?

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Last Updated: 03/10/2020 at 7:27am
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Stacey Kiger, LPC

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February 11th, 2020 9:41am
Getting over something that you are used to is not an easy step. Best to deal with what you have to go through 1st before seeing anyone else. This is so you avoid feeling guilty or causing heart ache. Always make it a priority to take care of yourself 1st before getting into anything as this can effect a relationship and yourself greatly.
March 10th, 2020 7:27am
Hi! Sometimes when we are with someone for a long time or just had a deep relationship with them, it feels like we are doing something wrong by moving on. This is totally natural and you aren't alone. Many times, thinking about it and the reasons why it didn't work can be helpful tools for putting the relationship into perspective and moving forward, little by little. These feelings, like everything will ease with time and will become less frequent and bold when you gain a connection with someone else. It's not an easy thing, and like many, easier said than done, you got this and I hope it becomes easier when trying to put it in perspective.