Will I ever find someone else to love me?

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RheanaHazel
March 1st, 2018 1:46pm
Of course you will. The loss of one loved on in your life does not mean you will never find another. You will have many people in your life who love you very much, and sometimes they are right there, you just haven't seen it yet. Just be patient, and the right person will come along :)
ArtSpoon
March 7th, 2018 2:08pm
Of course you will. Sometimes events or experiences in our life can occur to make us feel this way, but it's not true. There is someone for everyone.
MuddatherAbozaid
March 8th, 2018 12:44am
Yes, you will.. Yet the question should actually be, will i find someone else to fall in love with.. !?
6ieke
March 25th, 2018 7:27pm
Yes, you will. I know that sometimes life will get in the way but there is someone out there who will love you unconditionally. There are so many different people with different mindsets and values out there. What might not appeal to you, for instance, may appeal to someone else. Have you ever caught yourself thinking about someone's quirks or parts of speech that you truly adore? One day someone will cherish these little parts in you and love you for who you are. Do not settle for less. You are worth everything and more.
Anonymous
March 28th, 2018 5:37am
Yes, of course, everybody is gonna find someone to love them. In the world are a lot of people that are kind and nice, so yes, we will always find someone new to love us and treat us right.
ChantelleMarie2712
March 29th, 2018 5:39am
Of course! I know it can sometimes feel as though there is no one else out there but there is! there is so many people and when you least expect it that person will come along! All of us have worried at some point in our lives "will anyone else ever love me" and the answer I always give is yes! There is someone out there for everyone you just have to be patient in finding them :)
Anonymous
April 5th, 2018 2:59am
Most definitely, love can find you if you are open to it. Falling in love is a special feeling everyone deserves to have.
Anonymous
April 5th, 2018 3:50am
Yes you will. It will just take time and patience to find somebody who is worth it and that you can rely on.
SpiritAlchemistAlexandra
April 6th, 2018 4:08pm
To find someone to love you externally, you must find self love first. This is a reflective universe, in that what you put out from within comes back to you from without. If you want love out there, find love inside first.
Briyonalove
April 7th, 2018 4:55am
Yes you will, I promise you will and I hope it be with some one who loves you a whole lot, just believe in yourself more.
OneMomentInHerPresence
April 27th, 2018 12:55am
Yes, of course! There are many people out there and just because one person wasn’t right does not mean they are the only one who will give you a chance. The right person for you is out there waiting.
Anonymous
April 27th, 2018 1:26pm
From a personal experience I think things fall out of line so that better things can fall together. Once you learn to love yourself you will realize alot about yourself. You will come across someone who will love you the way you love yourself.
eternalPanda00
April 27th, 2018 2:43pm
Yes, there is someone out there for everyone, you just have to be brave enough to go out and find them
Anonymous
May 6th, 2018 2:54pm
yes, they may come later in life, but good things take time. be patient my love. only time will tell
Anonymous
May 11th, 2018 10:30pm
Yes you will love, eventually. But, first thing’s first, start off with self love
Anonymous
May 16th, 2018 9:45am
Yes and that person is you. We cannot control others and no love can replace self love and self care. If you depend on others to love you, you will always be fearful because you allow others' to have the power over your heart.
Anonymous
May 17th, 2018 7:13am
Considering the population of the world, I'd say there have got to be plenty of people with similar interests as yours. Don't give up hope. Do the things you love and maybe you'll end up meeting someone in the process.
Skylarstorm
May 18th, 2018 5:37pm
Yes, love can be found anywhere in all forms. I think it's more important to love yourself first. Once you love yourself and become comfortable in your own skin, then you'll find someone who loves you.
Anonymous
May 18th, 2018 7:07pm
Your not to go out looking for someone to love you... your true love will find you... We often look at love as something we need. meaning we will settle for anything to have it.. its not right.. but looking for love sometimes leaves you in messed up situations.... if your the type that just jumps at the first sign of "love" then your really afraid of being alone... and will have anything there to feel that emptiness that's inside of you.... before you can find love you have to have self love first.
CharlieSharkie
May 25th, 2018 9:41pm
It depends-love yourself first, and see how that works out for you. Then? Well, it's all smooth rolling from there. It's easier to love someone who loves themselves, trust me. The short answer is Yes.
enlightenedHeart75
May 30th, 2018 6:49am
No matter what has happened in your life, you will always find someone that will love you. Just give it time and be patient your day will come soon.
nikkigiveslove
May 30th, 2018 5:50pm
Of course!!! Do not stress about finding someone though. Time will always tell. Just keep on working on yourself, be yourself, be confident:)
littlelistenerr
June 5th, 2018 4:47am
before you ask this question, ask yourself will you ever love yourself? everyone is so concerned if they will end up alone or stay single forever, but you have to understand that self-love is the best love. self-love comes first! once you love yourself, and you genuinely know what you want in love ... then you pose the question will i ever find someone else to love me. and you will. even if 99% of people on earth didn't want to love you there are still 75 million that will and out of the 75 million there will be one that falls for your every move. the way you do the tiniest things, but you must be patient. don't rush what must come easily to flow in a peaceful manner. love itself is not a complicated thing. people just make it appear that way when all reality, it's not as complex as they make it. and only those that understand that will find true love.
emilyyy22
June 6th, 2018 12:30am
It sounds like right now you might be confused or frustrated with occurring events in your life. There are billions of people on Earth and maybe you have not met them yet, but someone loves you. They might not know it yet and you might not know it yet.
Anonymous
June 6th, 2018 4:57am
Yes. We find love when we least expect it. Sometimes we feel unlovable but there's always someone somewhere that loves us. But you have to remember to love yourself first
dtanushree
June 6th, 2018 1:01pm
If we keep finding someone to love us we Will probably end up being sad, angry, jealous, etc. Due to our own expectations. There's no need to chase love. No need to find someone to love you. You are enough to love yourself. Be kind and show compassion to yourself as much you will show to that someone. Just enjoy this journey of life and love will find you at right time at the right place.
Here4UAlwaysAndEver
June 15th, 2018 5:04am
Of course! Everyone has someone out there for them. Patience and confidence are your tools here. Use them carefully and find that love!
WhisperingWhale101
June 15th, 2018 7:03am
Of course! You'll always have at least one person that loves you, heck by hearing this question I already love you!
Arthur22
June 20th, 2018 6:48am
Of course you will! Everybody needs to be loved and everybody deserve to be loved. When the time is right, someone will love you with all they got
elishevacares
June 21st, 2018 9:57am
Yes, you will. You will find someone who loves you and you deserve to be loved, respected, and to feel loved. :)