Will I ever find someone else to love me?

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June 22nd, 2018 3:03am
Of course, I believe everyone has someone. It could be a relative, a lover in the future or even friendship that contains friend love
June 23rd, 2018 9:07am
yes even if you feel hopeless and alone you will find someone who truly loves you and cares for you and someone who you feel happy with
June 24th, 2018 1:57am
I understand that you may feel that way now. Once you begin your progress path this feeling will pass.
June 24th, 2018 9:08pm
It might be important to explore these feelings more. What does this look like to you? How do you feel about being alone with yourself? Do you love yourself? Are you content alone? Partners aren't an automatic amount of love, they add to a person who already loves themselves and can share with them, they can't make you help themselves...your cup has to be already full. Hopefully, you will take this time to love yourself so much that you allow room for love to come into your life.
June 27th, 2018 12:29pm
Yes. There always someone in this world who will love you with all their life and heart. It's just a matter of time. Improve yourself in the meantime ^_^
June 28th, 2018 10:04pm
The question is really, do you love yourself? There are many people out there who would love us, but until we learn to love ourselves, things don't always go as well as we would like. When we don't love or care about ourselves we tend to make bad decisions and let the wrong people in. So focus on loving and caring for yourself, take yourself out on a date, enjoy being on your own for a while and when you least expect it, love will appear.
June 29th, 2018 4:33am
Yes, you will. You just have to wait, the right person will find you. Don't try to find the right person. Let them find you.
July 7th, 2018 9:00am
Yes dont ever let yourself down just because a stupid boy left you. He doesnt know what he lost and when he remmenberers what he had you ate gonna be with someone elss who loves you and i bet u are gonna be happier.
July 8th, 2018 5:34am
Yes of course! Everyone in this world deserve love, no matter from who and what, you will find your love ones ❤️
July 14th, 2018 2:05am
yes, everyone has someone, whether you believe it or not, your someone is out there also wondering when they'll find you
July 14th, 2018 3:57am
There's someone for everyone in this world but the most important thing to do, before someone else loves you is love yourself. Self love is so important, another ones love can be good but the love for yourself is so much stronger.
July 14th, 2018 8:09am
Anything is possible with time and patience with a little bit of positivity anything can happen. Its as good possibility.
July 18th, 2018 10:19am
It is all up to you, your activity, and your expectations. There will be many, who might love you, however love itself is not everything. It is highly suggested to find someone you love the soul and personality of, and fight for it, instead of accepting the first person loving you, yet not having any similar interests with you.
July 19th, 2018 2:42am
You will always have someone who loves you. That includes people who are friends and family. They love you for you.
July 19th, 2018 5:25am
As long as you're open to that person and giving them an opportunity to be affectionate towards you, then you have the potential to be loved by anyone you want. :)
July 20th, 2018 3:07pm
The truth about finding someone to love you is that you have to have self love first and foremost. As humans we need to go on a journey of self discovery and be about to recognise who we are and be the best shiney versions of ourselves before we can connect in a healthy way with anyone else. You have to fill you own cup and let the love overflow and let others drink from the saucer. You need to be able to love, survive and grow yourself and then chose to be with someone who will want you to grow to be the best you can and you for them. This is a healthy relationship. If not loving someone enough for them to be happy elsewhere 💔😢✨⭐️✨
July 21st, 2018 5:58am
Someone else will love you, you just need to love yourself first and find what you like in a person
July 21st, 2018 4:39pm
yes of course you will,, life is long just let it come to you because it will. And always remember you dont need to depend on everybody becasue people come and go.
July 25th, 2018 9:39am
Everyone will find someone else one day, you just have to be patient and never give up. I'm pretty sure you will find someone!
July 26th, 2018 6:54am
FOR SURE! you may not think that now but sooner or later you will find someone who loves you for you!
July 27th, 2018 4:53pm
Of course you will! It may not be today or next week or even next year but there’s always someone out there who will love you for you!
July 29th, 2018 3:51pm
Of course you will! It takes time to find somebody who's right for you and as my mother always tells me the right person will eventually find you!
August 9th, 2018 1:36pm
Of course. There are so many people on this planet that I can guarantee that you will find someone :)
August 12th, 2018 12:16pm
Of course you will. There’s so many people out there that will love you for you. Believe that you’re amazing and that you will find someone and that someone will find you.
August 16th, 2018 8:07pm
Absolutely you will. In fact there are other people that need love, just like you, and I. Fact is human beings need love, and closeness and connectivity. We have to have interaction with one another, we are sociable creatures, and we need one another. I need love, we all do. It's important to achieve goals, so set yourself achievable targets and begin achieving them. You'll see that other people will notice the difference in you, and be attracted by you and your success. Happiness comes from achieving goals, and giving ourself the recognition that we deserve. If I can help you further, let me know. All the best, for your future.
August 19th, 2018 11:55pm
Yes you will. At present it may seem impossible to find someone to love you like a previous partner but it is going to happen. The same qualities you have that attracted the same person can also attract others to you. Love itself can't be calculated so there is no way you can find out how long it will take but eventually it will happen. You just have to give it time and think positively. There is a new chance in every new day and a new opportunity to discover new things. It just happens that love is one of those good things you will discover again.
September 26th, 2018 8:07am
Yes you will, but first you need to find love in yourself. You need to love yourself before you allow someone else to share love with 😊 Self love always comes above any other love ❤️ The moment you will find love for yourself, is the time people will find love in you. A positive person always attract positive love which is life long. You will eventually fall in love with someone who won't ever hurt you by any means. You are worth the love you need and you will be loved forever. Now go and fall in love with yourself 😊
September 29th, 2018 5:23am
yes. you will find someone else to love you. it will take time, and it will be difficult. you cannot or should not be the one looking for love. you may have trouble finding somebody if you are the one chasing it. it is best to take your mind off of it and look for something to distract yourself with. love is a beautiful thing you will get to experience various times throughout your lifetime. love will come to you when you least expect it, and it will be better then the last time. someone will learn to love you through the good and the bad.
October 4th, 2018 10:00am
Yes. With all my heart I say this to you... If you WANT someone else to love you, it will definitely happen. Just put your best smile on your face, enjoy your life the way it is, or change it to whatever you love most, spend the best time with yourself first, and learn to have fun with YOU. Then, you will be irresistible to so many people! We generally tend to be attracted to people we don't like. Why? We are never nervous around them. They see our confidence and they are attracted to confidence. From personal experience, as soon as I stopped worrying over whether I would ever be loveable, and focused on loving myself a little bit more, secret admirers started surfacing everywhere! I took this as a proof that once you find something to love in your life, something that makes you happy, it is obvious on your face that you live a happy life. Then love comes and finds you.
October 11th, 2018 7:49am
Theres's a will, there's a way. When you want to find someone else to love you, there's a way you can find them. When you're ready to move on and you are ready to falling in love again, you can make your own way to find someone new to love you. There's nothing imposible in this world if you already have a will. It's not about them, it's about you. Are you ready or not to find someone new, when you say that you are ready, of course you will find someone else to love you. Keep smile lovely one