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Why do people hate me for no reason?

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Last Updated: 12/03/2018 at 8:20pm
Why do people hate me for no reason?
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MrEthical5241
January 27th, 2016 1:23pm
Everything has a reason. ( ^ _ ^ ) Maybe, you did something really successful or said something that has offended them. In my personal experience, We all will have people who will disagree with us in every steps we take. Example, Pizzas are part of balanced diet, No it's not or maybe it is. All we can do is ask why they hate us/you. ( ^ _ ^ )/
eternalHeart88
January 29th, 2016 5:42pm
they may be jealous of something you have that they do not have. is that a possibility? what do you think the reason you feel that way may be?
Anonymous
December 3rd, 2018 8:20pm
Why do you feel that people hate you?, people can hate others because there is something missing in there own life, don't rise to it as they are looking to see if your affected by this, carry on be true to yourself and don't give these thoughts legs or they will run around in your head, be strong my friend there is a lot of people who don't hate you these are the people you should surround yourself with, good luck with your future because your the one who matters, concentrate on all the good feelings and ignore the haters, please don't let anyone take anything away.
DipityEnigma
June 6th, 2015 3:18am
As the saying goes "hater's gotta hate". Some people just feel hatred towards certain people. They maybe hate a person because they remind them of someone that they dislike and it could be a subconscious thing. Some people may hate someone because the person doesn't realise how annoying they're being or might be doing something that they don't realise people don't like. Sometimes, people simply hate because they feel like.
FT
June 10th, 2015 12:51am
Most of the time, how you perceive people feeling about you does not reflect on how things actually are. We are usually much more critical of ourselves than others. Remember, everyone has their own lives - usually hating other people, especially for no reason, is not something people have time for!
cellardoor1985
June 19th, 2015 1:36am
perhaps by possessing the mindset that everyone hates you, you have created a self-fulfilling prophecy and the negative energy you project makes people hesitant to be open around you
MadilynRose
June 19th, 2015 5:02am
There are lots of people in the world! There might be some that you don't get along with, but as long as you didn't do anything to them to hurt them or make them not like you, it's not your fault, and you shouldn't worry about it! There are plenty of people out there that will love you for who you are! You just have to find them, which takes time.
BrokenDefinition
June 19th, 2015 8:08am
In my experience we're much harder on ourselves than others. Many people we believe don't like us are just dealing with their own problems and may not know they're being hurtful.
laurence89
June 19th, 2015 1:51pm
Perhaps something about you reminds them of a bad experience or of a bad person that has done something cruel or bad to them in their life.
Hyachin
June 20th, 2015 11:53am
People hate you for a reason that you're not aware of. They may hate the way you talk, you walk etc. But, you can't let them invade you. If you think that you're doing nothing wrong to hurt them then just be yourself.
Anonymous
June 20th, 2015 5:16pm
It must be frustrated to feel that way. Hate is a pretty strong word though. What makes you feel like people around you hate you?
Anonymous
June 20th, 2015 6:30pm
I hear that you are experiencing the feeling of hate from others around you and you can't think of a reason for it, that you aren't to blame for their hatred towards you?
Bluenail
June 21st, 2015 1:07am
Could be anything. Money , greed, goodness, badness, sex...Its not why they hate you but how you respond/react.
Anonymous
June 24th, 2015 4:25am
In life, everyone is unique, everyone is different and wants different things. Not everyone can like a person just for being themselves, regardless of their behaviour. People do not want to same things, that is what makes every human being a unique indvidual.
Anonymous
June 24th, 2015 4:50am
People hate what they dont have. You have something that they really want and it upsets them that you have it and they dont and they take their anger out on you. They're probably just jealous.
Anonymous
June 24th, 2015 7:32pm
Sometimes people transfer their negative feelings towards someone who may have hurt them onto a person who has nothing to do with the event. They will normally negatively act out to a person and it can seem to be hate to that person.
MrHector
June 25th, 2015 3:34am
Hate is a very powerful word. Just because people don't talk to you or don't treat you like you want, it doesn't mean that they hate you.
Anonymous
June 25th, 2015 8:32am
Maybe they don't even hate you. It could possibly be that they just want to be like you - or you're something that they really wish they were and that isn't your fault, it's there's. Just be kind, content and humble and let other people do what they want.
blissfullyaddicted
June 25th, 2015 5:06pm
People will judge you no matter what happen, but it is not okay to feel affected by them. They do not have control over your life, you do, so what someone thinks of you and says of you should not affect you and nor can it be changed, but what you think about yourself can be changed and only that should affect you.
writingloveaddy
June 26th, 2015 12:26am
People usual transfer their negative emotions onto other people but hate is very strong and many people don't hate someone rather dislike.
Ewaanmuurphyy
June 26th, 2015 4:25am
When people ask this question it makes me wonder how can someone hate you?? The majority of the time it's just paranoia speaking. But if by chance that someone does hate you for no reason talk to someone and they'll listen.
ray99
June 26th, 2015 9:39am
people dont hate you! you may think that..but its not true. some times, you might get the wrong impression or maybe they were having a bad day.
niceMermaid44
June 26th, 2015 2:21pm
Because you have something that they don’t, because they think you don’t deserve it, because they don’t want to lose to you. Because they can’t get over the past. Because they have nothing better to do in life. Because their life just ain’t as great and exciting as yours.
TransMan1115
June 26th, 2015 5:58pm
I don't hate you, if you are actually nice and not being mean to anyone, then I don't get why anyone would be mean, they are probably just jealous of your fabulousness
truely
June 26th, 2015 6:22pm
They probably don't hate you. They might just feel deatatched, do you feel like theres anything you can do to get closer?
Anonymous
June 27th, 2015 7:24am
Maybe they are jealous of you and that's why they ignore you , if they do that. but i do not think that they all hate you
Anonymous
June 27th, 2015 10:10am
They most likely don't hate you. Have you tried talking to anyone about it because if not then maybe thats what needs to be done.
peacefulAngel63
June 27th, 2015 3:51pm
You may feel like they hate you for no visable reason, but you don't know what's going on inside their head. They could be jealous, or afraid you might become more popular than them. You may have also affended them by accident without knowing you did so.
Anonymous
June 27th, 2015 8:11pm
Because your farts smell and you stink like ass. Learn to wipe it and maybe we will talk then. :)))))
Sweetlolly11
June 28th, 2015 2:14am
No one hates you for no reason. People who don't know you can't hate you, and I'm sure even if they knew you, they wouldn't hate you. People naturally judge - it's part of our protective system. If you show them your true self, they will realize what kind of a person you really are, and they'll start loving you!