Am I going to meet someone else who likes me?

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Last Updated: 07/02/2019 at 1:33am
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Top Rated Answers
guyinasuit
December 16th, 2014 9:34pm
Yes - it can take a while, but there are people out there who will like you. It's just holding out for that person!
Erynn
December 19th, 2014 4:30am
Nothing in life is certain, but it is likely that you will, at some time in your future, find someone who likes you - if not loves you - and there are many ways you can improve these odds. Doing things you love with other people (clubs, groups, classes), going to social places and chatting with others, or even using online dating sites can also help you find people who may like you or wish to form a relationship with you.
Anonymous
December 30th, 2014 8:38pm
Yes, You will.You just need to wait because if you want the person who likes you and accept you for who you are then the least you can do for him/her is wait
Anonymous
December 16th, 2014 7:00am
You never know what who you're going to meet or when you're going to meet them. It's always good to keep an eye out for that special someone though
indiesky
January 6th, 2015 12:56am
The world is big; huge, actually. Believe me when I say this: with so many people on this planet, at least some of them will like you.
Anonymous
April 10th, 2015 7:14am
If you have this question, then it means that either you have a breakup with your so called soul mate or you are not being able to find one really. In either case, I would say its better not to go out in search of your perfect partner. Just focus on the work in hand. Sometimes, its better to do that as fate has everything concealed in it. At right time, it will present you with the opportunity. Then you have to decide..
Alden94
May 1st, 2015 12:37am
Yes of course. Everyone will meet that special someone. It could be a really good friend or it could be the special one. Everyone has a taste and you will be someones taste :)
Anonymous
August 3rd, 2015 1:24am
Statistically speaking, probably? Unless you're literally about to die. We can't predict the future though.
Anonymous
August 17th, 2015 4:30am
Yes everyone is lovable and can find someone. If sociopaths in prison can find someone to love, so can you!
DistancePerson
August 24th, 2015 8:20am
This was literally me when I was young. But to be honest, your time will come, where you meet someone just like you. Someone that likes the same things as you, that enjoys your company! Don't force friendship/relationship, they won't work! Good luck and Best of Luck Love Amanda x
Anonymous
September 8th, 2015 8:29pm
Yes! Everyone goes through a time where they feel like no one likes them, but you will find multiple people that think you are the best thing since sliced bread;)
Anonymous
September 21st, 2015 1:31am
Yes, definitely. What's more, you're going to meet someone else that you like.
auditrice
September 22nd, 2015 6:58pm
Yes this is what everybody ask themselves going through a break up. Yes each one of us find the people who will like us and that will happen eventually so you dont have to worry about it. Right person will come along.
Greatlistener87
November 16th, 2015 6:31am
Life is full of surprises anything is possible. So never give up and move forward meet people and put yourself out there. In time you will meet a person that likes you for you :)
Dinah
December 3rd, 2015 12:52am
I'm sure you will. Make sure you reach out to people and you open up even tho you might not always get the response you'd like. Don't give up. Maybe try doing social activites linked to your interests ? :) Good luck!
Emphathetic
December 7th, 2015 7:35am
Of course you are...everyone is beautiful on the inside,..and you will find someone who realises that
Anonymous
January 18th, 2016 6:34pm
Of course everyone does just dont take it for granted , its good to have friends and people to talk to when you feel lonely
someoneoutthereblr
February 1st, 2016 5:14am
Yes. The world has over 7 billion people. Some of whom will not be attracted to you, some of whom will... YOu'll find someone
Lights9
February 8th, 2016 3:24pm
and why not! everyone has his soul in another body, you'll meet your soulmate eventually one day, don't let your past run after you as always and just believe in yourself to let others believe in you.
Hope114
March 8th, 2016 2:53pm
I used to think like that and I usually pray that I will find some one likes me in other words love me in details taking care of me. Now, I found my happiness is when I take care of others not in waiting someone to take care of me. The second important part of this wish is when someone likes me means some one accept me but actually I discovered all people will accept me once I accept myself.
unicou22
May 3rd, 2016 3:51pm
Without a doubt. There are so many people in the world, and it might take time but undoubtedly there will be somebody else who likes you. whether it be through friendship, relationships, adoption, or foster care. there are so many opportunities in the world for you to discover the right people/person.
Millichidulinas
July 12th, 2016 12:02pm
Of couse you will. The world is full of people who's gonna like you and love you. You just have to wait for the best and I really hope this is gonna happen. You'll find someone who loves you, of couse.
Hearken
August 22nd, 2016 10:12am
Yes! The world is full of interesting, unique individuals that you can connect with on multiple levels. Whether you are looking for friendship, companionship or anything else, there is someone else out there that you will meet and share experiences with.
jhope
September 13th, 2016 11:37am
It all depends on you. I am pretty sure, if you meet the right people and open up with them, you might meet people who likes you.
Mocha3800
October 10th, 2016 5:03pm
Not everyone you meet will like you. It takes different personalities to make up and fit in with your personality. So don't be offended if 2 out 5 people don't like you.
Anonymous
April 17th, 2017 4:12am
I am wondering the same thing. But there are so many people in the world and life is so long. The chance you will meet someone who likes you for you is there. Think of it this way- we are swimming in other people. There's so many of us in the world and we have out whole lives to run into not even a quarter of them. And you don't have to leave it up to chance! Put yourself out there. There are probably a dozen people around you right now wondering the exact same question. Half of them will turn to dating websites or something similar. Just make sure you love yourself before you try and love someone else!
Anonymous
May 15th, 2017 12:45am
Yes! It may take a while before you connect with someone who matches your personality, but you will find someone new. I know it can be discouraging sometimes, I'm no stranger to feeling this way at times, but if you have faith and just keep being who you truly are you will find the new person you desire.
VangStar
October 10th, 2017 12:36am
There is someone out in the world for everyone. It is harder than you think. This person can be a doctor who takes care of his parents and pays bills. It could be a person playing videogames who would actually take care of you and love you for yourself. This person can be your best friend as well. It just depends because not everyone puts themselves out there. You will never find out until you put yourself out there.
15Kenzi
July 2nd, 2019 1:33am
Yes, you could meet someone who could love you. However, the details in your question shows me that you have a deeper issue. You said it. You said you felt lonely. That's your problem. And now you want to medicate that with a relationship, but you don't know if you're able to get one. That's your secondary problem, but it wouldn't even exist if you didn't have your primary problem of loneliness. I'll deal with both problems. To tackle the loneliness, you need to love yourself. You think love will make you feel better about yourself. And you're 100% correct. But if you think external love will solve your problem forever, you're incorrect. It'll be temporary and you may end up chasing the feeling of love when you or the significant other end up sabotaging the rship. All insecure people do it. What I want you to do is generate a feeling of love and direct it within. That's loving yourself. You don't need to love your shell. You can if you want but it isn't as empowering. As you love yourself feel the aliveness within. You are finally paying attention to yourself. No wonder you felt lonely before. You never paid any attention to yourself! With the first problem solved you could still desire a relationship but it isn't such a burden anymore. You're more relaxed about it. You'd take it, but you don't need it. This is great foundation for a rship because you'll only find other self-sufficient people that don't need love, but are willing to love. See the difference? Having someone love you is, meh. Okay cool. Having someone to love, that's better, and when it's reciprocated, that's excellent. So for the secondary problem, just be loving. You have self-love now. Just let that shine through. Be yourself.