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Everyone thinks I am weird. I do not feel normal cause of this. What can I do?

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Last Updated: 12/13/2021 at 7:30am
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Anonymous
December 7th, 2019 9:24am
You can't please everyone, we all have a side that people might find weird but that doesn't make u abnormal, their opinion does not matter, don't change yourself or overthink it. just find a group of people who actually find your personality interesting. and drop everyone else who makes you feel abnormal. As I said everyone has a weird side to them so don't ever think it's not normal, I'm sure there are a lot who find you normal so don't let those who think you're weird bother you, it'll only make you sad and insecure.
Anonymous
December 8th, 2019 5:18am
Weird is good, there's no wrong in being weird never strive to be normal, normals boring. Be you, strive to be as unique and different as you can be and the rest will follow. I too sometimes have the belief you do, but you gotta push it to the side and punch the notion of trying to achieve being "normal" right in the face. Afterall why the hell is normal anyway. Exactly there's no definition, it is limitless like the stars in the sky. Do me a favor look at your palm, now compare it to your mom, dad, neighbor, hobo joe down the block whoever. All of your palms are different in their own unique and sometimes bizarre way. Be your palm. :)
KevinListener
December 10th, 2019 3:32pm
Hey! When people keep repeating something like that to you over and over again, you often start to believe it, right? So because people keep saying that they think that you're weird, you now feel not normal. However, we are all different and people might be saying that you are weird simply because you are doing things your way and it doesn't match with the way they are doing it. That doesn't say anything about you, nor about them, other than that it's of course quite mean to tell you that you are weird because of that. There are multiple things you could do, but everything I could type in this Q&A answer would seem way too simplistic - especially since I don't know any details about it. But in general, something that might help is surrounding yourself with less judgmental people, just a few people who accept you for who you are. Hopefully, it will mean that you get to accept yourself as well.
Anonymous
December 13th, 2021 7:30am
Well, you can adapt and go with the crowd or you can keep being your awesome weird self...most of the greats if not all of them were weird to a certain degree so don't worry about that too much but if you want to be not weird and just weird in your own time, then that's fine, you can study their normal and start acting like that. I know it sounds fake and it is to a certain degree but you will not stand out as much and move with the crowd more...doesn't mean it's a good thing it just means you will probably have more friends!