I feel like it will never go away. Will it really?
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Some of our issues/emotions will never go away. It will come back from time to time. All I can do is make peace with it. If I don't react to it, it will lose its strength
It will go away. It always feels like it won't, but eventually it will. The pain of whatever it is will remain with you for a long time, possibly the rest of your life, but it does go away. It might not be until next week, next month, next year, 5 years from now, or even longer, but it does go away and it does get better. It sounds cliche, but it's true.
Tough punts in 'Will it really' stay with you. Saying it will never go away is just complicated with the heart. Sometimes by toughing up, tough love, can change you with growth.
Yes, it will. I was with depression during about 8 months. It wasn't a long period of time, I know, but those were the harder months of my life and they seemed really long to me. I thought that depression would never leave me because my cause of suffer would never go away. Fortunately I feel pretty good now. I have my times of sadness like everyone but I'm not depressed anymore. What caused my depression is still in my life but it doesn't affect me anymore.
Anonymous
December 17th, 2015 2:53pm
If you.re asking this, it means you still have hope. And if you have hope, it means you can make it go away.
Eventually yes, Its hard and it takes every fibre of your body to get it to go away, but it does, the mist clears and it becomes clear how to lead your life and how to express yourself.
Anonymous
May 7th, 2015 10:14am
Dont feel hopeless.First of all you need to love yourself and know that everything happens for a good reason.
I think it depends on how much you want it to go away. It hurts and it's difficult but if you believe that it will go away then it will.
It probably will. Or, maybe not so much go away as you learn to deal with it so well that it seems like it has gone away. Either way, you will not face challenges you are not equipped to handle. Use the resources available to you - friends, family, healthcare, support networks etc. You will get through this
Anonymous
September 20th, 2016 9:40am
Most things in life are temporary. They just come and go. And talking to others really helps you to get through it.
Anonymous
June 30th, 2015 1:22am
Problems can and will go away. It's hard to realize it, but what you're going through won't last forever. Stay strong.
Anonymous
June 22nd, 2015 11:45pm
It can seem like it's always present, like it will never go away. This isn't very specific, but I find that for me, things tend to fade after time, become more manageable.
i know it can feel like things will never get better or stop but i promise you it will step back a little and think when people know something bothers you they will keep doing it just to aggravate you but dont let it get to you stay stong chin up beautiful
Time heals, it carries us away from the pain we feel today and helps us separate from those feelings
There are ways to keep your anxiety down but, for anxiety to be truly treated I recommend seeing a therapist.
Things may never go away completely but it will get better. Everything will heal with time and because easier to deal with everyday
You need to identify what it is as often it is a whole load of stuff all jumbled in together. When things are unto glad it is easy to see them and tackle them one at a time.
Anonymous
January 24th, 2016 8:04am
It will.. It has too.. Nothing is permanent in this world.. everything is perishable.. be with the time as the hands of the clock moves it will ease everything
It may just take time, while other ordeals a person comes across may take time, as well as counseling. There is no easy answer to this question since everyone deals with situations in life differently than others.
Anonymous
January 23rd, 2016 9:32pm
it will with time and the effort that you put into it going away. don't give up, keep trying. i believe in you
Yes it will go away. Everyone that is going through something is a temporary feeling. Have hope and fight through this and trust me you will see how strong you are.
Humans are very habitual beings. As such, we easily "get used" to states of being or circumstances. Therefore, it might seem, as though a feeling or situation might never change at all, or at least we cannot imagine otherwise. While that might have sounded rather detached, what I was trying to say is: Don*t let dark times convince you that there is no light. Turn to friends and family for affection and let them remind you that whatever is hurting you now might seem insignificant or acceptable in the future.
If you let it stay, it's not gonna move. And it's not gonna break either, only physical objects age and disintegrate. You're the agent of change in your life.
It will go away. Don't worry. :) It gets better. Things change, usually for the better with age, so just hold on.
Anonymous
January 13th, 2016 7:52pm
It depends. It may not but it will get better and bearable to live with. Stay stong and just believe.
With hard work and effort and help from a professional, yes. These terrible things can go away and things will start looking up.
These things take time to go away, they will eventually, don't worry about it. Time is infinite and anything can happen
Of course, with effort and time, anything can be healed. You might feel very down or upset right now, but personally, when I'm sad, I reflect on when I was happy. Just as what goes up must come down, what goes down must go back up again :)
Anonymous
January 7th, 2016 7:45am
It DOES get better. everyone needs to know that. time heals all wounds. some slower than others. just hang in there! everything will work out i promise!
It will, if it is serious you should look for a professional help. I had same problem, but now I can tell you that it can pass.
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