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Lianne Kirby, MA in Counselling Psychology
Counselor
I believe everyone should have the opportunity for their voice to be heard. I use a trauma informed, person centred approach in counselling.
Top Rated Answers
It's okay. All of us are going to need help one way or another. I'm glad that you are admitting it because many people won't do that. I can help and so can the rest of us :)
Know this: even the mistakes you make in life were made for a purpose. The Universe is always working for your highest good and benefit. The Universe is a merciful place and you are loved.
Anonymous
November 14th, 2015 5:38pm
Life can be rough at times, but difficult roads lead to beautiful destination. the struggle you're in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow! But feel free to talk to any of us, or call a hotline if you feel like you need some serious professional help!
If you need help, then come talk to a listener at 7Cups of Tea. They can help you solve your problem, anything, anytime!
I do need help with my life. And a few ways I have been actively trying to seek help is by starting counseling and registering on 7cupsoftea.
Anonymous - Expert in Depression
November 17th, 2015 3:58am
I highly recommend you talk to someone about it. A professional, a friend, a family member or even one of our trained listeners are here to help. Don't let yourself suffer in silence, it's okay to not be okay.
Seeing a counsellor helps with that, a lot. They ask you about your current life situation, your hobbies and your interests and they help you create a plan.
Anonymous
November 18th, 2015 7:57pm
First of all, ask someone who you trust and you know that really cares about you. It's completely ok to ask for help. That's the first step. Take a day to think about what you don't like about your life, what you would like to change and then, take it slow. One step at a time and you will get there.
Anonymous
November 19th, 2015 5:53am
For a major mileage in my life, I believed sharing my feelings was a taboo. We are all patients; field experienced doctors are also patients. A "doctor" is not a title earned when the coat is worn ragged. If there is someone you can confide in with your current situation, please speak up. Come here to talk to someone with a tad bit of experience.
Ok. Im here for you. So what are you interested. How can I help you achieve your goals? Life is a beautiful thing.
you can get help here or on any corner because everyone have something to teach that can mabe help now or after (:
The great thing is that you can acknowledge that you need/want the help! Feel free to message me, or even just connect with another listener to talk about what steps you think you need to take to start being happy with your life!
Anonymous
November 21st, 2015 4:39pm
Thank you for expressing how you feel. It takes a lot for a person to realize they need help, which is the first step. You are welcome to chat with anyone hear at Seven Cups of Tea.
I suggest talking to people you are close to or call experts depending on how severe the situation is. The other option is that you could always talk to any of the listeners here, We're all here to help and that's what we love doing.
Anonymous
November 25th, 2015 1:38am
I need help connecting to others and using my brain to stay active. I need to feel like I am contributing to the world around me.
We all do, and we all don't. Life is to interesting to "get right".
Can i ask In what way do you need help in your life ?Do you have difficulties in your worklife,homelife?I am here to listen and support you
The best place to start is to understand where this feeling comes from. Is it that you are not happy or that you would like a change or that you're unsure of what to do. Start here and find someone you can confide in and work with to get you moving along that path.
You can get support by talking to a Listener, Professional or Support Group. These are all non-judgmental and supportive ways to get help and figure out what's going on with your life.
You've come to the right place! Recognizing that you need help is such an important first step on your journey to getting better. Talk to an active listener, reach out a friend or family member, or talk to your doctor. You can do it!
Firstly I think it's great that you are looking for help. That means that you are moving ahead. Talk to your GP, friends and family and try to move physically as well.
Everyone needs help in their lives. In many parts of the world we have moved towards the idea of independence to such a point where, though we live in a community, we feel we are all alone. This is unreasonable. We all need help. No one should think "I have to do it do it all by myself". It is incredibly lonely and isolating. And believe it or not, but most people feel this way multiple times in a month, let alone their whole lives.
We are social. And part of being social is giving help and asking for help. Don't be afraid to ask.
Anonymous
February 4th, 2016 5:52am
If you need anything at all, come to 7cups! We have experienced listeners around 24/7 to help, all you have to do is send a message.
Anonymous
February 4th, 2016 10:30pm
If you need help with your life, I recommend Youtube, Wikipedia, and searching questions on Google.
Anonymous
February 6th, 2016 5:18pm
A lot of us need help with life. Seek out a trusted a listener on here, friend, healthcare professional or pastor/priest to look at and work on some of the life issues you're having. You don't have to work it all out on your own :) .
You are the creator of your life. Picture the universe as a catalog that you get to shop out of. Whatever help you need ask for it. Think of how you wish your life to be and look. Hold onto that feeling and see it as if it is happening right now!
Anonymous
July 16th, 2018 6:16am
We sometimes all do, life can throw the worst things at you and as cheesy as it sounds it will get better
Anonymous
July 10th, 2018 3:35pm
What in your life would you like to change? A trained counselor really helped me find my own way through the maze of my rough patches and bad decisions.
Be more open to people. Know the trustworthy ones and include them in your life. Ask help if you need to.
Please please please come talk with me. I hope i can help and if we do not talk, good luck my friend.
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