I need someone to talk to about my problems.

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Last Updated: 03/12/2018 at 2:22pm
I need someone to talk to about my problems.
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Top Rated Answers
kalistaheartXx - Expert in Depression
March 18th, 2016 4:26am
You can always talk to me, and there are many people on this site who I am sure would love to talk to you about anything! If you'd prefer someone in real life, you can try reaching out to a friend that you trust. I know its hard bottling up all your feelings, feel free to talk to me anytime. You can even try writing out your feelings onto a piece of paperif you need to.
ella3421
January 28th, 2016 3:59pm
Sometimes people just need someone to talk to, vent to, or rant to. That's okay. There are many people here including me who are willing to listen to you and help with as much as we can. Feel free to chat with any of the listeners on this site whenever you need it(:
MoonOfMyStars
January 21st, 2016 1:15am
Talking to someone about your problems can be absolutely terrifying at times. I know when I use to get bombarded with depression and anxiety, I would be so afraid to go and talk to someone, because I thought they were going to rip me to pieces and throw me deeper into the hole that I was already in. For me that was the hardest step in talking to someone. The fear. Surpassing that was the biggest and most essential step for me to be able to open up to someone, because once I did everything came pouring out and it was SO easy to talk to that person. It can still be scary to talk to new people since I've never talked to them about it before, but after pushing and reassuring myself that it would be okay, that person becomes someone that you can not only talk to, but that person becomes someone that has a good chance at becoming my friend :)
Anonymous
January 24th, 2016 10:37am
You couod always talk to the listenrs here. I am always here to listen to you and many other listeners would be glad to listen to you.:)
Anonymous
March 24th, 2016 2:48pm
Okay, we can do that for you. :) How can I help? I'm here to support you and listen for as long as you need, so don't worry.
Truckerwife08
January 20th, 2016 8:23pm
Were here for you here. If theres alot of issues we cant help you with some of us will gladly help you find a councelor in your area.
Sam177
February 26th, 2016 2:54pm
7cups listeners are always here to help! Its the reason we come on here so we can listen to others and help them with their struggles!
LifeGoessOnn
January 24th, 2016 7:51pm
well first thing you should do is finding someone who you can trust find a person who knows how to make u laugh and how to keep secret someone who truly loves you and doesn't need anything back
Ky23
March 12th, 2018 2:22pm
7cups is the perfect place for you! Almost everyone on here is dedicated to a personal cause and wants to help you out. Don't get discouraged if a listener you talk to doesn't help or doesn't seem like they have the right words. Either they aren't a good match (and there is plenty of other listeners who can help if not) or they need more time to get to know you and your situation. Don't give up hope and continue to try to find your niche/listener in a community that's really geared towards helping you out!
ReniK
January 23rd, 2016 11:27pm
You could always talk to some of the listeners of 7 cups of tea. I am sure you'll feel better in no time
goldenRainbow11
August 16th, 2016 7:57pm
7 cups is a brilliant place to talk to people about your problems. There are listeners here trained to listen and talk to people about their problems wether they are in anxiety and depression or help in the LGBT community. Our help ranges so much that there should be something for everyone so don't be shy and talk about it! :)
Anonymous
January 14th, 2016 7:59am
Suppressing your emotions might cause you more pain than the bad feelings you already have. Some people choose to keep their problems private to themselves and the result is usually an increase in the intensity of the bad feelings. Talking to someone about your problems might not only help you solve your problems but it will also help you vent the bad feelings you have and so you will experience a great relief. Suppressed emotions on the other hand can result in mood swings, bad dreams, waking up feeling depressed and prolonged sadness.
WindMelody
January 22nd, 2016 4:19pm
If you feel like it, you can try to talk to someone close to you, like you best friend, your parents or maybe one of your siblings. If you'd feel more at ease talking with a supporter, you can contact me, I'm here for you.
TheGreyFixer
January 22nd, 2016 9:49pm
Talk to friends, or send a request to a Listener. it's what we're here for after all. You can send a request to a specific Listener or post in the General Requests.
believerofhope98
March 24th, 2016 5:31pm
Of course, having someone close to you would be the best, given all the pros. But hey, this website is all about listening. In fact, there are hundreds of listeners ready to take care of you and your situation, at anytime. We're trained and we care about you, because you are important. Feel free to contact whoever you feel like anytime, you're not alone
tjb28
January 28th, 2016 6:02pm
well done for coming on to 7cups of tea .There are lots of listners here that a re happy to talk to,support you and most importantly listen with judging you.
Chris91
February 19th, 2016 4:23pm
That is quite an act of strength to ask for help or even someone to talk to. On here, you will find lots of people who'll talk to you with the best intentions.
Rose
March 20th, 2016 12:32am
You can talk to us here at 7 cups. We are very happy to listen to an problems you may have and to help you work through these problems and overcome them. Try connecting 1-on-1 with a listener.
anotherfrenchtoastmafiaa
February 15th, 2016 3:09pm
You've come to the right place, I believe. The community is ready for you. Trust us, believe in us and we will try our best to give you and make you feel the same. x
Sassy001
April 17th, 2016 9:17pm
I am here to help listen and offer support.You can message me if I am not here.There are alot of great listeners here to talk to 24/7.Glad you are here.
bubblyLight31
February 3rd, 2016 11:47pm
i am here! just message me anytime. I'm can really talk about anything :) if you need me i will be there for you
Viana
April 10th, 2016 12:15pm
Sharing your problems is always a good idea. It is unburdening if anything. You can either talk to someone you trust or talk to a listener here on 7 cups. Follow up chats may result in a better bond and can help you feel comfortable with them and allow yourself to open up more.
Crest
January 14th, 2016 3:30am
Have you even taken a look a few degrees up or down on this very page? (Seriously, 7 Cups, 100 characters?)
Anonymous
January 21st, 2016 11:44pm
Well, that's what listeners on 7cups are for! Talk to one of us, we'll do our best. After all, we pledged to help!
darlingyouregorgeous
February 13th, 2016 7:11pm
I and the rest of the listeners here at 7 Cups will always be here for you. If you want to talk soon, send me a message while I'm online. :)
JordanPeraltaa
February 19th, 2016 3:02am
There are countless people you can talk to about your problems. Sometimes, when you keep things to yourself it can make your problems seem more difficult than they really are in reality. Not just that, but not talking to others can also make you feel like you're the only one struggling, but the good news is you are not, and people have experienced what you are and they are here to help. A good first choice for somebody to talk to is an adult you trust. These can be your parents, or other family relatives, Teachers, Doctors and other adults in similar positions. You can also talk to your friends about your problems. If you are worried about the consequences of mentioning how you are feeling, then don't, because adults in positions like teachers or doctors are totally professional and will not judge you or label you. If you feel depressed or suicidal from your problems, you should always contact your GP. In these cases, a therapist and treatment is most likely needed. There are many sites set up to help people with any problem big or small. A favourite of mine is www.samaritans.org, they helped me in my time of need. They will give you a place to talk in complete confidentiality. Ultimately, 7cups is a great way to get started. The listeners here will always support you, they will never judge you. They provide a friendly environment to talk about your problems and they can help you see more clearly. Don't be afraid to contact a listener now! They will be willing to help
Anonymous
February 21st, 2016 1:10am
Then Connect to one our Awesome Listener!
Anonymous
April 16th, 2016 5:48am
Here at 7 cups we are always able to help and support you. Listeners are glad to listen to your situations and assist.
Anonymous
January 23rd, 2016 10:07pm
You can talk to the person you trust the most and tell them everything you are having a trouble with .
heavenPainting21
February 12th, 2016 12:04pm
then please go to the 7 cups of tea where there are good listeners to help you and listen to you on any problems you have