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I need someone to talk to about my problems.

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Last Updated: 09/24/2019 at 12:04am
I need someone to talk to about my problems.
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Danielle Gonzales, PsyD


Hello! My name is Dani, I am a Psychologist and registered Psych Assistant. I have a passion for helping a different types of clients from all diverse backgrounds!

Top Rated Answers
March 10th, 2016 4:18am
The good news is there are many outlets for you. If you have a trusted friend and would like to talk to them, you've got a ready-made set-up. But sometimes it's hard to talk to someone close right away. Places like 7 Cups offer the chance to speak freely and anonymously about whatever is on your mind. If you have severe, pressing problems that you feel need immediate help, there are services for that too. If you are feeling suicidal, don't ever feel badly about calling a suicide hotline service. That's what they're there for. They are ready for you, and want to help, no matter how badly you're feeling. Choose the type of support that feels right to you.
March 13th, 2016 8:20pm
Have you reached out to listeners here to talk about whatever has been bothering you? Listeners here can offer safe space without any room for judgment. To find listeners, you can either browse and filter them based on criterion you want them to meet like topics of interest, cheers or language etc. you also have option to simply get in queue of general requests or engage in group chat rooms. Please know that you are not alone here and many wonderful listeners are happy to listen to you and offer you support that you absolutely deserve.
March 13th, 2016 11:34pm
Then you may talk to one of us but if you are too much into the problem it is better to seek a professionals help at that point.
March 16th, 2016 1:21am
This is the perfect place for you then! 7Cups is a great way to talk to someone about anything that is on your mind. Just request to talk to a listener and they will be sure to help you.
March 16th, 2016 2:25am
The world is full of people to talk to. Family, friends, school counsellors, teachers, people on 7 Cups... all you have to do is look for them and then spill your problems!
March 17th, 2016 7:32am
It is a very very normal nature we as gregarious creatures need to speak and vent to others from time to time..Specifically after a hard..unpleasant..unwanted event..At these moments , having a caring supportive one to vent would highly assist , If not , internet comprises many helplines ,phone emotional supports as well as chat websites , one as clearly as 7 cups ..
March 19th, 2016 9:51pm
Theres lots of different people you can talk to, for example you can talk to people on 7 Cups, theres also many links to professionals and all you have to do is google counsellors, if you don't want to do that then maybe have a chat with people closest t oyou.
March 20th, 2016 3:25am
Talk to a therapist! Talk to a school counselor. Talk to a listener! Talk to your friends. Talk to your partner! Talk to your parents. :)
March 20th, 2016 8:54am
I am free whenever needed, just not any later than 8 at night. There are many listeners on this site, don't feel afraid to contact any one of us.
March 23rd, 2016 11:27am
It should be someone who you totally trust. And someone who can understand you ! and well, that's what this site is for you. You can trust us, we are anonymous, no harm done 7cups here to help you ... I'd suggest you find someone who understands and can relate to your problems....
March 23rd, 2016 11:40am
Hello.. If you are feeling distressed about your problems, and ventilating your mind would help you , I will gladly set aside my time to make you feel better ..!!
March 24th, 2016 1:08am
you've taken an important step! now you do know you have to talk about your problems with someone, the question is who. You can always chat/message here! Another option is to talk to a professional or your family or friends. Is there anyone you feel comfortable to talk about your problems? If you don't know who to talk to, please message someone here, we will try to help you with your problems or think with you about who to tell
March 27th, 2016 12:31pm
This is 7cups, we are a community and a family even. We help each other. On here you should never be afraid to talk about your problems because we all would love to help. You can enter a group room or use a one on one chat with a listener who will gladly listen.
March 27th, 2016 2:26pm
Hey, if things get hard and you feel you need to talk to someone about your problems, then feel free to send me a message! I'm here to support you and there are many other listeners on here that will be willing to support you! Take care :)
March 31st, 2016 6:53am
connect to a listener here :) You can chat with me, I'm willing to listen to your problems. All our listeners are.
March 31st, 2016 6:28pm
You u can be a member in 7cups and then you can follow the lisners you want to talk to !! We have many good listeners here and you can find them anytime
March 31st, 2016 7:08pm
You can talk to one of us listeners ( I'm always around if you need a chat. ) or you can talk to a counseller, therapist, parent, teacher, friend etc. There are many options :).
April 1st, 2016 5:32am
Your parents are the perfect people to share your problems with. They will look upon you with love and compassion unparalleled to anyone else.
April 2nd, 2016 1:33am
I had a difficult time finding people to talk to, I found talking to random strangers on the bus was great, I wouldn't see them again, I also found 7 cups of tea. Eventually I found a therapist and groups to go to.
April 3rd, 2016 5:52am
You can talk to someone here at 7cups or you can talk to a close friend of yours who you know would listen to you.
April 6th, 2016 11:26am
We at 7 cups are all here for you. You can message any listerner. You can find a lot of listeners here.
April 10th, 2016 7:58pm
There are many listeners here on 7cups to listen to you. We are here to help/listen. We would love to help you out.
April 13th, 2016 12:44am
Having a friend you can talk to, is always recommended. However, if you're not comfortable about sharing your problems to your friends or family, you are and will always be, welcome here at 7 cups of tea. The listeners here, will always be here for you, to talk to you. We're all very caring, and you can bet on our confidentiality and professionalism. We want the best for you!
April 16th, 2016 5:33pm
I can help you I love helping people
April 22nd, 2016 11:11pm
It's great that you recognize the need to talk to someone! Each and every listener on 7cups is willing to listen to and help you along your journey!
April 24th, 2016 6:22am
There are always people to talk about your issues. However the person you should confide your issues with should be trustworthy, loyal and above all non-judgemental. Apart from parents, friends and close relatives. There's always these wonderful listeners in 7 cups who can listen to you, no matter what your problems are, and can pave a pathway for you.
May 30th, 2016 1:43pm
Find a close friend, someone took know will be there to support you in a non judgmental way. And don't forget, there is always 7 cups
October 17th, 2016 9:59pm
Finding that one person that you trust, that one person that you can tell everything that is on your mind is very helpful. You trust this person because you know he truly cares. On the other hand, talking to someone you don't know that has no affect on your life, is easier, because its anonymous and no matter what that person thinks.. he can not judge/affect/harm you in any way!
November 23rd, 2017 5:37pm
September 24th, 2019 12:04am
Im having issues with my marriage. I have severe depression and anxiety. I struggle everyday. The harder i try i just dont seem to get any better. I see a theripist and psych but still cant seem to get anywhere. I want to be a good husband and father but i feel like im not good enough. I have noone to talk to other then my theripist but its a hour drive 1 way and is more stressful. I lost my house and everything in it. I dont know where to turn. I live with my parents now but it dont make it any better.