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How do I know if I'm sad or depressed?

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How do I know if I'm sad or depressed?
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meboysen
December 31st, 2015 10:00pm
The best way to find out is check the symptoms of depression using the Depression Self Help Guide or visiting your doctor. From there you can determine whether or not you are depressed.
Anonymous
January 1st, 2016 10:06am
It would depend on how long it lasts. If the sadness lasts a couple of weeks, it may be more than sadness.
Anonymous
January 2nd, 2016 1:24am
There is a big difference between sad and depressed, but the main one is that when you're sad, you actually feel like crying, or giving up, but with depression, you actually don't feel anything, you feel like you have a hole in your heart, and you just don't like doing anything, and there isn't a single thing that gives you any satisfaction.
JakeTS
January 2nd, 2016 12:00pm
Sadness is a temporary emotion and passes quickly, however it can be caused by any other emotion. We can feel sad due to loneliness, loss or grief. However depression is a long lasting on/off emotion, that consumes ones life. There are many different forms of depression and the main symptom is Withdrawal. However the best advice possible is to seek professional advice. Doctors surgeries are anonymous and always a great source of knowledge. Whether it turns out your depressed or not, the doctor will always be able to help.
Anonymous
January 3rd, 2016 1:36pm
If you are depressed, you will feel tired a lot, and sad all the time maybe you just want to cry all the time. You might have suicidal feelings and feel extremely lonely
Anonymous
January 3rd, 2016 3:29pm
When negative, sad emotions have lasted for longer than it feels they should do, and they are getting in the way of every day life, that's depression. Sadness is actually a small part of depression. Depression often entails little pleasure and interest in doing things, hopelessness, and the feeling that you can't escape. There also tends to be physical symptoms, for example over or under appetite. A good indicator of your emotional wellbeing is the 7 Cups Emotional Wellness test, which you can find at https://www.7cups.com/free-emotional-wellness-test/ Note that none of this is substitute to a licensed practicioner.
Anonymous
January 6th, 2016 4:47am
I won't eat or do anything. I'll just sit in my room lost in my thoughts crying my eyes out. It's and empty feeling I can't get rid of
Anonymous
June 10th, 2016 2:16am
Tell someone how you feel, tell someone who can help. Maybe go to therapy to make you feel better so you won't be neither sad nor depressed and be happyyy
Anonymous
February 5th, 2016 11:47pm
Depression can sometimes feel the same as sadness, but it will last much longer. If you have felt sad for two weeks or more you might have depression. Some other symptoms of depression are: loss of motivation, change in eating or sleeping habits and feeling empty. If you have one or more of those you may be depressed.
HelpingFriend649
February 11th, 2016 2:21pm
Depression is extreme sadness and cannot be fixed with simple things. It is a disease and needs to be taken care of by medication.
booksoul21
March 9th, 2016 4:56am
Do you go through short periods of sadness/loneliness? Or is it always there, constantly reminding you that you feel sad?
LucyCat20
March 12th, 2016 6:34am
depression is more of a long term feeling. talk to your doctor about how you feel or try 7cups
charmingSnowflake73
March 13th, 2016 7:25pm
Sadness will feel like any other emotion - no stronger. Sadness doesn't stop you from participating in, or enjoying your usual activities, but depression can. Sadness may come and go, but depression can be a little harder to get rid of.
Niv998
March 16th, 2016 10:47pm
You could go to your doctor and talk to he/she about it and get a second opinion or see what they think :)
starryFlamingo27
March 17th, 2016 3:23am
When I start shutting everyone else out and all you can think about is how nobody loves you or that they never care
peacefulwaves24
March 18th, 2016 5:04pm
Feelings of sadness and depression are both normal human emotions. When your feelings of sadness or depression become clinical is when these feelings persist for 2 weeks or more and interfere with your daily life functioning
Anonymous
March 19th, 2016 8:11pm
When im sad or depressed i lose interest in things i once enjoyed. I normally stay in and not reach out
rflvncntrys
March 23rd, 2016 1:05am
Know what you are capable of and know what really saddens you and find out what is your attitude at all when problems come into your life.
Anonymous
March 31st, 2016 7:49pm
Nothing feels important, you feel useless, life feels empty. It's like the emotional equivalent of watching paint dry
incarnadinepetals
April 1st, 2016 11:48pm
No one on the internet can really give you a real diagnosis, so you should definitely go to the psychologist if you have a serious concern.
RebeccaCupCake
April 21st, 2016 5:30pm
Being sad is usually only once, it can be sad over something, for a few minutes, hours, days. Being depressed is when you are upset a lot, even with no reason and you get tired of trying to make yourself happy. You lose hope a lot and can't be bothered doing fun activities you enjoyed in the past. There is a big difference between being sad and depressed
Paulina2043
June 5th, 2016 4:35am
If you feel unmotivated or can't get out of bed. There is a distinction between sadness and depression. Life seems hopeless and you can't find a way out. That is when you know you must reach out to someone.
rycricket
June 5th, 2016 4:47am
Sadness is a temporary feeling, depression is longer term (not forever). I have to often separate the two for myself. Just stop and think to yourself "Okay self, how long have I been sad for? Is this an ongoing feeling?"
friend101
June 8th, 2016 10:04pm
Person may feel sad at times when things don't work out as expected but that should finish with time but if this sadness continues it becomes depression which is not normal.
JodieNMann
May 4th, 2020 4:37pm
I believe that you will have a better understanding of your mood when you are stable. Probably you will not be so forfilled and will show less of a response to the relationships around you if you are depressed. You may also feel empty, confused, and detached from the circle of acquaintances you usually are close with. It would be helpful to ask yourself, what is one thing I can look at in my life that makes me unhappy? If you get an idea, try writing down three main emotions that you feel when this topic comes up. This should give you a better understanding of your situation at the time.
Anonymous
September 11th, 2017 1:37pm
If you feel withdrawn from close friends and family and if you do not enjoy your favorite activities you may be depressed. Also a lack of I retest in eating or caring for yourself may also be a sign of depression.
adoredSummer85
September 3rd, 2018 7:30pm
You feel worthless and hopeless like evrything around you is awful. You may feel sometimes lost like a dark cloud or fog is with you. Sometimes confused . You may have lack of energy and interest. you may even experience low motivation. Sleeping to much or less sleeping. Crying alot and wanting to be alone. You may feel alone and scared and feels noone understands. You are not even sure why you are feeling this way and sometimes may even get angry and frustrated with yourself and others. usually it goes on and on and it won't go away. you have a hard time enjoying things you use to do and may even loose interest in things that mean the most to you.
YourLittleFriend
October 4th, 2019 7:20am
You've probably searched up the symptoms of depression and checked yourself against them, thinking is this really depression. Honestly, it's hard to tell which is why you should see a doctor or therapist. Sadness is a normal emotion that people feel because of a situation. Depression, on the other hand, can occur without a reason and include many different emotions. Not only do you lose your worth, hope, energy, appetite, happiness, but you also lose yourself. You don't like anything anymore, including your old hobbies, life and even yourself. You don't recognise yourself anymore and your reactions aren't based on your emotions, they're based on your situations and how others would normally act in them. Nothing is constant anymore and everything is questionable. Questioning whether the smiles and laughs were fake or not. Questioning all these feelings that don't make sense. Questing the point of life. Amongst this confusion, sometimes you feel constant sadness and sometimes you can't feel anything at all. Depression is terrible, so if you suspect you have depression please tell someone and seek help.
Anonymous
November 19th, 2020 9:56pm
Being sad is just for a short period of time, but depression is for a long time and feeling like everything around you is not how it used to be. However, if you are facing a depression, then feel free to contact me, I can help you, I'd been thru it, and I know how tough it can be. My depression was a real burden for me at the time, because it was the period of my life which is one of the important in a student's life, going to uni on first course in another country, but I got thru it
Cs2719682
February 19th, 2022 3:19am
Based on my experience, depression can make you feel like there's a hole in your heart and you're empty inside. You have no motivation, maybe even to do something as simple as getting out of bed in the morning. You might hate yourself and feel that you are worthless, a burden to the people who surround you, and like there's no meaning to life anymore. Sometimes I had suicidal thoughts when I was at my lowest point and truly felt that I didn't have anything left for me. Feeling said will usually just come and go, but depression can persist for long periods of time.