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Is it ok to always depend on this site when you feel down?

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Last Updated: 09/28/2020 at 9:25pm
Is it ok to always depend on this site when you feel down?
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Top Rated Answers
July 14th, 2016 11:04pm
It is always ok to come and talk to us, but to always depend on it is not recommended. We are here to help you on your success journey.
July 16th, 2016 12:22pm
Everybody is different. We all have different ways of coping. If you've found your own way, good on you. If you prefer to depend on others via 7 Cups then that's alright too! Whatever works to keep you smiling.
July 16th, 2016 6:54pm
The people on this site want to help, and will always be here to help! Please feel free to come here whenever your feeling down or want somebody to talk to :)
July 17th, 2016 6:26pm
I believe so. Not a lot of people understand you, or want to "deal" with your problems and don't want to listen. Here no one will judge you, and everyone will try to help you. So it's okay to depend on this site, not everyone wants to understand people. :)
July 17th, 2016 8:40pm
You shouldn't completely depend on this site, but it's not the worst thing to depend on. Try to open up to a family member, close friend or significant other. If you don't feel like you can, this site is an amazing resource that you can use as much as you may need.
July 19th, 2016 9:14pm
Isn't this the purpose of the website? To provide that immediate emotional support when down. I personally think it is perfectly okay to depend on this website when feeling down, however, it is always better to depend on yourself in the long run.
July 20th, 2016 2:59pm
While not allowed to give advice this site can be trustful and depended on by many. Though many come seeking for answers, listeners are only allowed to provide suggestions. Advices can be give with a faithful mind, but can often get wrong intentions. This site is dependable on this when you ever feel down. While we might not be able to contribute an answer,-we are more than willing to listen and to make you feel better.
July 20th, 2016 8:23pm
If you broke your leg, would you only wear your cast sometimes? If you had to use crutches to walk, would you only use them for a couple steps then throw them away? Why shouldn't you rely on this site, this community, this family, when you need it?
July 21st, 2016 12:48am
Absolutely, 7 cups is a place where you can vent about your feelings without fear of being judged. 7 cups can help you out with anything you might be dealing with. The entire community is here to cheer you up and help you out.
July 21st, 2016 6:29pm
Well, 7cups is a site meant for people like you, that have problems; so you'll have a safe place to vent. However, I don't think it's healthy for you to be completely dependent. I personally think it is fine to talk to someone when you feel down, but some things you need to try and work out by yourself. It's okay if you're not ready to do this right now, it might take time :) Contact me whenever you want sweetie
July 21st, 2016 9:01pm
You should not always depend of 7 Cups every single time you feel down, having a "go-to" person to talk with whenever something happens is also good.
July 24th, 2016 10:46pm
No- you shouldn't be dependent on a site to make you happy. You need to be more self dependent or find a way of managing your emotions. There is a book called Dummies: How to manage your emotions. It has helped some people.
July 28th, 2016 4:55am
Yes, sometimes it helps to know someone else is listening. And there are many people on this site that are willing to listen to any problems you have. So yes it is okay.
July 28th, 2016 11:22am
Yes of course. On 7 cups of tea we have listeners that are always here to help you with anything whenever you are feeling down or just need someone to talk too.
July 28th, 2016 12:48pm
No. What you feel might need a professional help. What we provide here is caring friendly support and it has mild range of problems.
July 28th, 2016 10:08pm
I believe that it is always okay to reach out for support when you need it, either from this site or another means of support. Some people may think that relying so much on a website for support isn't good but it is whatever helps you. Maybe talk to your listeners about how you can cope during difficult periods if you can't get onto 7 cups.
July 28th, 2016 11:31pm
Not always. This site is great, of course. But you should also include other people in your life who you feel understand you . You can't live in a screen all the time.
July 29th, 2016 7:13pm
Of course! Seven Cups and other sites with support chats are here to help you. It is a coping mechanism, you know what is also a coping mechanism, cutting. As cutting gives relief so does Seven Cups. But Seven Cups isn't self-destructive. It's okay to feel down, depressed and coming forth is a huge step. :)
July 30th, 2016 1:15am
Absolutely, we have some wonderful listeners and there is always someone available to chat to. Whilst we can't give advice, we can offer you an understanding ear and hopefully make your options a little clearer :)
July 30th, 2016 1:49pm
No its not okay sometimes you just need to relax your mind and the automatically you feel good......
July 31st, 2016 3:24pm
Yes, it doesn't make you weak or pathetic if that's what you're thinking. Wanting someone to listen to you is a very normal thing and this website is just here to make that easier for you. It's a totally okay way to feel.
July 31st, 2016 4:47pm
Yes! Whatever you need to do to feel better, do it! (As long as it's legal of course.) We're all here to help, so contact one of us whenever you need it :)
July 31st, 2016 8:47pm
If it is every day I do not think that this is the site. I think they would need to seek professional help.
August 3rd, 2016 1:37am
Of course! If you need someone to talk to, and we're here what better option is there! :) :) :) :) :)
August 3rd, 2016 10:22pm
Yes, It Is perfectly okay! I tend to do the same thing. every listener is here to help you and to try their best to make you feel better
August 4th, 2016 8:11pm
it is always good to have a wide arrange of go to's such has a friend a family member or a therapist when feeling down but this site is definite a good place to start and always available
August 6th, 2016 11:05am
As much as 7cups is a really good site for mental support, relying on this site all the time can be a little unhealthy. 7cups set the base for finding a support system, (listeners, other members on the forums) but in the long run it will be best that you find your own in your real life.
August 7th, 2016 7:36am
It's ok to have a slight dependence on the site when in need of it, but the most important thing is to practice your sword on a true battlefield, not a training arena.
August 12th, 2016 1:36pm
It's ok to some limit if you can't talk to anyone about your worries there will always be a listener to hear but I don't want to say be defendant 100% on it because you can't always live on social media you better make a real life for yourself where you communicate,love,live, and share things with people & it would be great if you manage between both of the website & your real life
August 12th, 2016 3:32pm
It's perfectly fine to ask for help, and it's perfectly fine to feel down and sad, and so yes, you can depend on this site, but eventually you need to depend on yourself too to feel better. Until you feel better come to this site as much as you want. It'll get better I promise 🌸🌟