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Why did I have to be born this way?

16 Answers
Last Updated: 07/31/2018 at 3:29pm
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Paola Giordani, Psychoanalyst

Licensed Psychoanalyst

I have helped and am helping people cope with loss, divorce, anguish and parenting. Depression is also a major issue that comes up.

Top Rated Answers
June 16th, 2015 3:00pm
You were born the way you were intended to be born. It sounds cliche, but this is your body. The one, the only one you've been given. You can take care of it, cherish it, and focus on the positive aspects of it, or you make it worse by hurting it. One thing is true, and that's you can wish all you want that you weren't you, but you'll still be, well, you. And that's a beautiful thing. Be you. Take care of yourself, love yourself, and work towards your goals. Best of wishes.
July 31st, 2018 3:29pm
I know it’s hard right now, but I promise it won’t always be like this. I don’t even know you and I care for you so much. You are so strong for going through this and you don’t deserve it. You were born this way because you’re strong enough to get through it.
January 4th, 2016 1:33pm
“To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.”
February 24th, 2015 9:45pm
Everyone is born different than the rest. It's what makes us special and unique. Facing difficulties is part of it and everyone faces different problems in different levels of intensity, but all of us have to struggle somewhat during our lives.
March 3rd, 2015 11:27pm
We dont get to choose how we look like or our families or our gender. However we get to choose who we are! Be wise when you choose. :)
May 8th, 2017 11:20pm
Perhaps it was a series of unfortunate events, but perhaps it was a series of fortunate events. You were born the way you are due to reasons out of your control. However, the reasons for you being you are now in your control. You have the capability to choose who you want to be tomorrow and the next day, and the day after that. It's all in your hands.
July 11th, 2017 8:05am
You were born this way so you could benefit this world in a beautiful way in the future. I know what it feels like to feel like you shouldn't have been born, but if I hadn't gone through what I did, I would never have found my passion - helping others find healing.
September 20th, 2015 7:24am
There is no right answer to this question. Just know that you were born unique in your own way and thats what makes you special!
December 1st, 2015 5:01pm
Why does everybody have born this way. Because all of us must be different and never let others make fun of yourself.
February 2nd, 2016 6:46pm
I ask myself that question as well. We all have a purpose in life, and maybe yours is to show others asking the same question as you how it's fine.
August 29th, 2016 9:13pm
Everything happens for a reason, you just have to find that reason, and that potential. .
September 5th, 2016 4:44pm
Because we are all born unique and beautiful. Society and other individuals tell us different because they don't understand. We are all born the way we are for a reason.
May 8th, 2017 3:57pm
You shouldn't question the way that you were born. Everyone is different and thats beautiful. Differences are what unite us and seperate us. They are nothing to be ashamed of. Embrace them.
June 18th, 2017 1:56pm
Because you are special. (: Everyone of us is different and thats what gives us identity.
February 20th, 2018 10:52pm
You were born the way you are meant to be. You are unique and awesome just the way you are! I promise you will find your path soon.
April 23rd, 2018 3:29am
You have to be more the way you do so when you see the real world none of the experience someone else had will be apart of yours and instead you end up seeing and building your own challenges knowledges and you're talents you have.