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Why do I feel so alone?

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Last Updated: 04/21/2020 at 1:47am
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Anonymous
August 30th, 2015 4:02pm
Sometimes people can fell alone even if they are actually not. This is because of condition which cause us to fell lonely. We just must look around us more carefully and notice people there for us
Anonymous
September 17th, 2015 8:59pm
You haven't talked to anybody about your problems and/or issues yet. You still have them on your chest.
XxCourageAndLovexX
October 30th, 2015 1:42pm
The feeling of being alone can come and go or seem to stick with you for a long period of time, but everyone feels it at some point in their life over the years. Even while being surrounded by friends or family you can feel alone. It's not just psychological, but also on a physiological level. If your body isn't producing the right amount of serotonin then you can being to feel less like yourself and more isolated. If you feel alone because you don't think you have anyone, then talk to someone on here. There are plenty of people who would love to befriend you and show you love and compassion.
Anonymous
November 15th, 2015 6:30pm
you may feel alone because you have forgotten how many people truly care about you. At 7 cups we are here how can we help you ?
greenJOHN1971
November 25th, 2015 3:17am
Because when you are alone for most of the day that is just how you feel. You are alone, not talking to anyone for 10 hours a day? ALONE.
Kellie
November 27th, 2015 3:59pm
You may feel alone because you aren't around the right type of people. To be around the right type of people you will never feel alone and will be filled with positive vibes
Anonymous
December 5th, 2015 11:44am
Sometimes you may feel alone because you have recently been in a fight with a friend, or joined/started something new like changed schools and your body hasn't been able to adapt tot he new change!
HealingMoon31
January 24th, 2017 4:58pm
I've felt alone because I've stopped myself from reaching out to those who love me. I've assumed that they don't care about me or that listening to me will simply burden them. I've felt alone in a crowd before because I've felt like the group don't really like me and I'm forcing my company upon them. None of my assumptions and beliefs were true, but I felt like they were. I made myself alone. I would distance myself from others because i thought they didn't like me and as a result, I came across to people as unapproachable. This discouraged people from starting conversations with me, and because of that, i became even more conscience that no one liked me. It was a downward spiral.
Anonymous
November 7th, 2017 6:37am
i feel alone when someone who is very close to me break my trust and faith on them. It is very difficult to understand, why always me? definitely something is wrong in me that's why always wrong happening with me.
Thegirlwhowrites101
June 12th, 2018 6:13am
The feeling of "loneliness" is a normal human emotion. Sometimes it's from not much interaction with people, depression or sometimes even if you're missing someone. there are always people out there to help with loneliness.
Anonymous
September 18th, 2018 6:49pm
I feel so alone because I feel that everyone is moving forward with their lives while I am moving backward. New relationships, marriage, kids, career success are happening to those you love all around but you are falling apart. You do not want to plague people with your problems but just wish sometimes someone would ask me how I am doing. So I can say I am not doing good. Just to listen to me without judgement and tell me I am okay and that I am still a good person. That even though a big part of your life has changed you are still okay.
Anonymous
August 20th, 2015 10:03am
The feeling of loneliness can be caused by lack of good friends you can talk to or just being introverted and keeping yourself distant from your friends for a long period of time, so if you feel like that, talk to parent, go out with friends your friends so you don't lose contact or talk to your therapist.
Anonymous
August 31st, 2015 10:31am
Sometimes we can be in a crowded room and feel alone other times it maybe because we isolate ourselves from friends or family. Sometimes it is ok to want to be alone but always remeber to do things you love so you do not feel alone.
Freedom4UrSouL
September 3rd, 2015 6:10am
We feel alone because we are human. It's normal to feel this way. So when we do feel alone the first thing to remember is that, we are not alone feeling this way and, like everything, it will pass. We need this solitude to reflect on our real self sometimes (not society's self) and make the appropriate changes to better "I" first. Glad to read you're human. B-Blessed
PoliteOcean
September 4th, 2015 8:12pm
Its hard to know exactly why one feels alone. It could be due to many reasons in your life. If you are experiencing difficulty you can always come to 7cups of tea to talk with one of the many listeners. Or you could perhaps look into you local community for volunteer opportunities to help extend your time to others. Including Nursing homes, hospitals, churches, or animal shelters.
Kaysha
September 5th, 2015 7:02pm
Feeling alone can be brought on by mental illness, or just lack of friends and compassion from others.
Nemanjica
September 9th, 2015 11:15pm
Do you go to school/ work? Do you talk to people? How many friends do you have? Any relationship partner? Do you have family?
Anonymous
September 10th, 2015 2:01pm
Because I haven't come to accept who I am and my idiosyncrasies so I look for company with other people
Anonymous
September 11th, 2015 5:59pm
Sometimes when we feel alone, it doesn't always mean we ARE alone. Human beings have a tendency to let one thing bring them down even if there is a million other things going right for them, and lots of people out there supporting them. Look around you and see how many people are there for you.
William0
September 12th, 2015 8:55pm
Feeling alone is more a desire for a need to be alone. Sometimes we must go within ourselves in order to see who we are currently. Being alone is never wrong or right, sometimes being alone might be the answer to a problem. Remember to always ask yourself, "Who can I call?" and if calling someone isn't something one might do, ask yourself "Why?". It's always best to act on our words rather than constantly questioning ourselves. While questions do lead to answers, sometimes answers lead to more questions, and those questions lead to real answers.
Anonymous
September 13th, 2015 9:32am
At times I understand that you may feel that the world is against you. That there is no one who supports you but believe me that it isn't that way. You are to alone, you have me.
MiraculousShiny62
September 13th, 2015 4:46pm
When we start feeling isolated, we may have thoughts of not belonging or of feeling rejected by others. What we overlook, however, is that when we are alone, we are often in the company of our worst enemy- the onewithin ourselves. An isolated space is the perfect breeding ground for negative, self-critical thoughts. These thought patterns make up the “critical inner voice (CIV),” an internalized enemy that leads to self-destructive thought processes and behaviors. This inner critic feeds into our feelings of isolation, encouraging us to avoid others and remain in a lonely state.
silverLove42
September 16th, 2015 3:01pm
U'r not alone. I am available for u. Whenever u need someone to talk to, contact me. I'll do my best to help u
Anonymous
September 16th, 2015 9:48pm
You are never alone on here. You can always connect to someone, and if you ever feel alone in real life, just remember that someone will always love you.
FlowerChild101
September 17th, 2015 7:59am
Sometimes I feel alone because I think nobody will ever understand me or what I'm going through. But putting yourselves in other people's shoes help understand them better :)
Pr0Pancakes
September 18th, 2015 7:52am
Feeling alone is a natural thing to do in certain points in life. Sometimes experiences make us feel this way or nothing at all. If you feel this way I encourage you to perhaps join a club, talk to friends, invite friends to events or make plans with them. Even making plans with family can be a great way to reconnect and start feeling better. There are many people that do not want you to feel alone and are here for you no matter what. For example us here at 7 Cups of Tea, our listeners are definitely here to help, listen, and talk.
honeykah
September 19th, 2015 4:26am
I feel so alone for unknown reason. Even though I have many friends but still I felt like alone. And maybe because I felt like the world just turned its back at me.
Anonymous
September 19th, 2015 3:38pm
You probably have depression. Try going to a doctor or someone for help. That's why you feel sad and alone.
Anonymous
September 20th, 2015 11:08pm
Sometimes even when you are surrounded by others you might feel alone. Maybe it's because they just don't understand, or maybe it's because you are afraid to trust someone enough to let them in.
Anonymous
September 21st, 2015 3:38am
You feel so alone because you feel that you do not belong. You do belong.