Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Why does no one care about me?

113 Answers
Last Updated: 01/21/2019 at 5:51am
Why does no one care about me?
1 Tip to Feel Better
United States
Moderated by

Amy Justice, BS, MA, LCMHC

Licensed Professional Counselor

My passion is to help people overcome feeling "stuck" in unhealthy patterns by facilitating real, healthy changes through self-discovery and practical applications.

Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
April 7th, 2016 6:29pm
There is always someone that does care about you! Even if you feel like no one does. Most of the time there are even a lot of people that care about you. Family, friends even strangers like listeners on this site.
Anonymous
April 9th, 2016 6:22pm
everyone cares! look around and see a whole world caring! your body cares for you. it is working to support you! your body is living for you! you are amazing!! keep up the good work!!
Devil76friend
August 11th, 2015 8:31pm
While it may seem that way for a lot of people, sometimes it can be a pereceived mindset and not a reality. Other times we humans tend to be around a lot of bad individuals or rather not around a lot of them. While it may be hard to deal with, and to some degree...to understand. Know that by accepting who you are first and fore most can often lead to increased self esteem, and an overall different field of energy. Sometimes people don't approach others who have a moody energy, without knowing who you are, it can be many things to choose from! But in any case, I think your awesome : - :
PhoenixB
December 15th, 2015 6:41pm
How do you know no one cares about you? You may have a secret admirer out there or something. :) If you feel like no one cares about you, I recommend searching out for some new friends, people who will care and comfort you.
Anonymous
January 14th, 2016 4:30am
Cuz I'm awkward and funny can get really crazy silly understandable to reasonable discoveries hahah
Lotus48
January 14th, 2016 8:32pm
Because you may feel lost or unappreciated. Again sometimes low self esteem. Allowing others to take advantage.
Anonymous
January 20th, 2016 10:24pm
There is no such thing as nobody caring about you. You are CARED about and are LOVED and are THOUGHT about on a daily basis. You may not see it but it's the truth. Do you really think nobody cares about you? I'm caring about you at this very moment! You have people who would die for you, family who would get anything for you to be loved by you, friends who adore you! You are CARED AND LOVED. Don't ever think otherwise :)
FarahFaith66
April 8th, 2016 6:25am
It's your own mind that says that no one care. First if all, you have to learn caring about yourself.
Anonymous
December 5th, 2014 5:19am
It may be useful to take a step back and really think about all of the people in your life; do you really think that not even a single one of them cares about you? This kind of extreme language is dangerous because it can lead us down a harmful path towards negative emotions. When you say that no one cares about you, you might really be trying to express a different concern, perhaps concerning a particular person's feelings towards you, or that of multiple people. It's much more productive to address these feelings head on than it is to resort to extremist language that will only make you feel worse. Furthermore, I care about you, so your question is invalid in the first place. (:
ElfFey
December 5th, 2014 5:22am
Everyone looks out for themselves first. Do you? Remember that you are the most important person in your life.
Anonymous
December 6th, 2014 5:36am
Yes I care! I'm sure a lot of people around you care too. Try making a list of people you know care about you. :) that helps me!
Erynn
December 15th, 2014 1:52am
I guess it's possibly, theoretically, that there is someone in the world who no one actually cares about at all... it is far, far more likely that you are struggling with negative thoughts and beliefs that are making it really hard for you to feel there is anything good about you and/or that anyone cares about you. If this is an on going trouble for you, you might benefit from talking to a counselor. They might be able to help you find a more reasonable view of yourself and your relationships with others - finding out what parts they dislike about you, and what parts they like. Because, for every human I've ever known, there has been somethings about them that other people like and there have been a few people that care about them.
DavidLee
December 31st, 2014 12:35am
I can't put into words how I feel about this. It's simply not true. There are many people who care about you. I guarantee at least 50% of the human population cares about you. "Human beings are like that. We want to live by each other's happiness, not by each other's misery."
Anonymous
May 30th, 2015 4:39pm
You may feel like no one cares about you because you are depressed and depression often warps our perception of things, but more likely than not, you are cared about. And if nothing else, we care about you here at 7 cups, so please come talk to us if you ever need us.
TheWeepingWillow
July 13th, 2015 7:53pm
I'm sure there are many people that care about you, and you aren't even aware of it! When it doubt, simply ask people if they care about you.
EmmyRose
July 14th, 2015 7:34pm
They do care about you, but they might not be good showing that they do! There will always be people who care
tranquilPillow93
January 14th, 2016 2:05am
That is not true everyone does care about you, there are love ones who care about you, there are random people who care about you!
Crest
January 14th, 2016 3:16am
Because you're only perceiving that. Try seeing the world from someone else's eyes for a bit of context.
Anonymous
January 15th, 2016 2:07am
There's always someone who cares about you, even when you think there's no one there always is. Stay strong.
Anonymous
January 20th, 2016 1:06am
The day when we say that we no more care about ourselves is the day when everybody stops caring about us. Others caring about you or not hardly matters at times, we were born and die alone so why to wait for others to care about us and then be happy? And again it's never true that there is no one who cares for us. There is always someone. Most of the time it's parents, if not parents then your special person, if not that special person then a close friend , if not a friend then a well wisher and the list goes on. Get a better view and enjoy life. ^_^
Anonymous
January 22nd, 2016 6:50pm
People do care. I care. Look around and try to notice small things people do for you. Please don't feel like no one is there. I am there and I'd be happy to stay and talk for as long as needed.
Truckerwife08
January 22nd, 2016 7:40pm
Peoplendo care about you. Sometimes it just doesnt always feel like it. Just make sure youre happy and who cares what others think
WindMelody
January 23rd, 2016 12:27am
There's always someone who cares. Maybe you don't notice, or you're sure they don't, but if you take your time, I bet you'll recognize them.
ScorpioRose
January 23rd, 2016 3:28am
That's what you think. The truth is nowhere near. People do care. Your family cares, your friends care, YOU care.
enigma22
January 26th, 2016 3:17pm
Not true. People do care about you and this entire community was made to help everyone and anyone. If you feel this way you should speak to a listener :)
lyricalJoy42
January 27th, 2016 7:31am
Probably more people care about you than you have a clue about. Maybe you just don't care enough about yourself?
Anonymous
January 28th, 2016 6:16pm
Whether they show it or not I promise you someone cares about you. Sometimes people are just afraid to show their own emotions. Even a complete stranger could care about you.
Anonymous
January 29th, 2016 12:27am
Everyone cares you :) just you can't see them open your eyes and you'll suddenly see how world has changed love
LadyUnderGrace
January 29th, 2016 9:49pm
In the moment you may not feel that no one cares about you, however there are many people that care about you. Reach out to a family member, friend or even a caring trained listener here on 7 Cups of Tea, because we "do" care about you.
Mike8448
January 31st, 2016 3:04pm
I hope that you care about yourself already, that means that there is already one person who cares about you.