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Why does no one care about me?

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Last Updated: 01/21/2019 at 5:51am
Why does no one care about me?
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Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
January 31st, 2016 10:11pm
Someone does care about you, you may not know it, but it's true. There is always someone that cares about you, even if they don't express it.
GracefulWonder
February 3rd, 2016 12:09am
Sometimes I feel like no one cares about me because I don't feel I receive enough support from family or friends. But in reality people do care... And I do matter.
Craftsman
February 4th, 2016 6:28pm
At some point of life, when we are feeling low, we tend to think that no one cares about me, but in life, there is always someone or the other who cares about you.
Anonymous
February 6th, 2016 10:21am
Ga oa ra jud kaayo ka naa may ga care nimo oa rajud kaayo aysig reklamo dha kay wa kay maangay. Okay? Mypag mag luto kag sud.an.
fancifulPiano97
February 10th, 2016 2:03am
It is hard to see the ones who care about you but everything will come to the light soon, you'll see
elliejade
February 10th, 2016 5:48pm
I am sure people do care about you, maybe you are just feeling down and feel like no one does care about you. Us listeners care about you very much, although we do not know you. You may feel like no one cares about you, but deep down they do but they just don't show it.
RachelRae777
February 11th, 2016 6:50am
It can often feel that way huh? sometimes i think or often or always think people have forgotten and stopped caring about me. But that doesn't mean it is true i know for fact people care for me and i know for a fact people care for you too! i care for you even thought i do not know you i care for every single person in this universe that is why i come here to help people with their problems. I can assure you people DO care about you people will come & go all throughout your life its like a tree stem compared to leafs, some people fall but some people stay planted with you. That's just how life works.
WoundedHelper
March 16th, 2016 3:28am
You seem to be in a dark place at this moment. Explain a little about why you feel this and where you got the idea.
bubblegumLight68
March 16th, 2016 1:46pm
There are people who care about you. You may not think it but you are most definitely loved by friends and family.
Abbeyy
March 16th, 2016 10:16pm
Oh love if only you knew so many people care about you . I'm sorry you don't feel like they do
Zohaash
March 17th, 2016 3:57am
Well im sure there is somebody out there who cares about you. and to be honest you dont need someone to care for you when you have yourself.
JK8287
March 18th, 2016 8:35am
It's not true. I think sometimes the mind has a tendency to eternalize or generalize when something has gone south "it always was this way" or "everyone is like this". Just becoming aware of that tendency should help you get out of it. You have met people who have cared about you -- and if you forget, find some old people or babies! :-)
Anonymous
March 18th, 2016 4:39pm
You have a whole community of people who do care for you. Your family gave birth to you because they wanted a child, you have people at church and teachers at school who all care for your wellbeing. You choose to tell yourself that no one cares for you, but in reality, we're all here to help.
timaeusTestified1203
March 20th, 2016 12:08am
I think that you are cared about tremendously- it's hard to see, but sometimes people are showing us they care without saying a word. Often the littlest actions (such as someone telling you to be careful because the roads are slick, or someone telling you "I got your favorite food!") are signs that someone cares. And we at 7 Cups care. I love you, and it will be okay.
XoXoKatya
March 23rd, 2016 12:38am
I know it's cliche, but no one die's completely alone. If you just be patient, your person will come
Anonymous
March 23rd, 2016 11:17am
whether you feel like they do or not, someone does. someone out there cares so much about you and you don't even realize how much you mean to them. and we care about you here.
Anonymous
March 24th, 2016 5:11pm
Listen, someone out there does care. Even if it doesn't seem like they care, they care. If you believe that no one cares about you, you'll just end up getting sadder and sadder. Believe that people care!
KateK8Kate
March 25th, 2016 8:41pm
We tend to interpret the world through our own lens, but that lens can be really distorted. When we don't care about ourselves, it's hard to see how anyone else does. Taking off the lens and looking for evidence that shows that people care can help.
StayStrongNeverLoseHope
March 27th, 2016 2:29pm
Depression can be really hard to deal with, not everyone knows how to deal with or how to help. Sometimes it's the depression itself making us think that people don't care about us, just because of how low we are feeling. You start to feel really upset and like no one understands you, but there are people that will support you, understand you and there are people that care about you! :)
Anonymous
March 30th, 2016 12:18am
People do care, however small it is. Maybe it's not obvious to you, and maybe the people closest to you are neglectful, abusive or cold, but there is always someone out there who'll care about you.
UniqueLife
March 31st, 2016 7:00am
I'm sure someone out there does, sweetie. Maybe you just don't realize it because they don't show it well, or they don't want you to know.
dancingPillow85
March 31st, 2016 11:33pm
Because they do! They're too shy to tell you. Or they have their own unsolved issues that keeps them back from showing you their love and attention.
Ahmed
April 6th, 2016 4:07am
sometimes the people around us are busy and so focused on their life and their problems that they don't notice us . Othertimes people we stop caring about anyone that they do the same Sometimes we are so drift away and overwhelmed by our problems and our lives that we forget our loved ones and people we care about so they just stop caring
compassionateSunshine76
April 8th, 2016 6:44am
if someone do then will also be for sometime only as everybody has to do care about him/herself first. so why not to hold the true caring hand, which will be the only one to be with us everywhere, anyhow, yours faithful, your own one.
Anonymous
April 13th, 2016 8:16am
It's not that nobody cares about you. Sure, there might be some who don't, but many do. I do. People whom you haven't met yet do. There is someone or the other in this planet who cares for you. You just need to find them and meet them.
nod26
April 16th, 2016 7:07am
The simple answer to this question is because you actually don't care about you. Start doing that after a little introspection - and soon you'll realize you don't need other caring about you. You'll be happy and at peace. And the important thing to remember is the right ones will always do care for you anyways, like your parents. :)
nlpinspiration
April 16th, 2016 7:38pm
In general this feeling is caused because of feeling anxious. The main point is that you are not aware of the poeple who take care for you
beautifulheart100
April 17th, 2016 1:04am
Iam so emotional so most people sometimes feel that they have thier own problem so.. they run away..
NormaBates666
April 17th, 2016 8:03pm
Even if no on cares about you. In the end you caring for you is all that is going to matter. You are the writer of your own destiny.
peacefulIris56
April 23rd, 2016 2:49pm
You need to look at this objectively. What is it that is making you feel that way? Can you give some examples? And is this the case all of the time? It could just be your perception that people don't care about you, perhaps.