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Why does no one care about me?

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Last Updated: 01/21/2019 at 5:51am
Why does no one care about me?
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Top Rated Answers
kittyspy
June 4th, 2016 3:43am
I care about you, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who care about you and love you. There is someone out there who needs you.
Anonymous
June 4th, 2016 6:15am
That is not true because there is definitely someone that cares about you. For instance, you're family will never stop caring for you. Even if they do not make it seem incredibly obvious, you're definitely on their minds. You're loved ones will always love you.
StormyAngles18
June 5th, 2016 2:48am
There is always someone who cares about you. It may feel as if anyone does but believe me they do. you have your family you have friends and you have god (if you are religious) and you have yourself. You mean something you are important. All life is precious. You were made for a reason you are ment to do something in the world. But its up to you to believe that.
bunnyg
June 5th, 2016 1:08pm
You often feel this way when you don't love yourself enough. When you are not contented with yourself, you will start feeling that people around you don't love and do not care about you. First things first, be your own best friend. be your own lover. love yourself and care for yourself the most and everything else will fall into place. People do care, you might not always see it sweetheart. x
LizardPerson
June 8th, 2016 8:18pm
People care about you. I know sometimes it's hard to see, but there are people who would be upset if something happened to you. Maybe a teacher, a parent, sister, brother, friend, even your pet. At least one of them care about you, they just might not be the best at showing it.
Anonymous
June 9th, 2016 5:40pm
I think you may be unaware that people do care for you. Just because it seems like people do not care about you does not mean they do not actually care. I am sure many people care for you; even if you do not have someone directly in your life someone does care.
Anonymous
June 10th, 2016 4:49am
Oh but someone does care about you! Always remember you are never alone. There are billions of other people! People who care and empathize with you and there are a lot right here on 7 cups!
CuteWoolyWool
June 11th, 2016 1:50am
It's probably not true that no one cares about you! There are some people who may care about you but just aren't very expressive of how they feel. There are lot's of people in our lives who we may not actually care about us when they do.
bhetherson4
June 11th, 2016 3:27am
Everyone feels alone sometimes, but there are always people around you who care, though it doesn't seem like it at the time. You are important and your feelings are valid, so it is understandable you feel like no one cares about you. But you are never alone.
Anonymous
June 12th, 2016 5:53pm
Please don't think that, I care about you! we all do, your family and friends, we care. Please if you ever feel down contact a listener, we're here for you!
Anonymous
June 12th, 2016 11:40pm
I've been where you are, and then a stranger online told me they cared about me. And my mom did. And my best friend did. And I realized we weren't talking about it, they didn't realize I felt this way and by opening up I found out just how much I'm loved. So today, I'm telling you- I care about you. And I'm so sure someone else does too.
BassistBriar
June 15th, 2016 11:42am
I care about you! No one should ever feel like nobody cares for them. Family cares about you, friends care about you, God cares about you, and I care about you! :)
Anonymous
June 16th, 2016 1:14pm
it feels as if no one cares about me, I think the reason being is because of what I look like and how I act, maybe the way I dress, or my personality, when I'm upset no ones there for me, and these are the reasons j think no one cares about me.
orangerosess
June 17th, 2016 5:40pm
Someone cares about you. That's why you are here. I care for you and I barely even know you. Someone cares about you I promise you just need someone to prove that to you. A person will come into your life and make you feel so loved and special. You will find that person some day.
Anonymous
June 17th, 2016 6:57pm
Everybody cares about you. If no one did I wouldn't be talking and helping you. Everybody cares about somebody, and everybody is cared for.
Anonymous
June 18th, 2016 12:41pm
That's what you think but the truth is that there are in fact, many who care about you! An example would be here, the 7Cups community. Remember that whatever problems you are facing right now, you are never alone and that there are always people to hear you out. :)
Anonymous
July 4th, 2016 11:34am
some people find it hard to show others they care, but people do care about you! you might just not see it, everyone has different ways of showing care and feeling it... maybe the way people are showing care, You don't receive it that way.
Anonymous
July 25th, 2016 8:12am
There's always someone that cares about you, a relative, a friend, even a neighbor. Sometimes we're not able to see it but there is always someone whose life would be lacking of something if you weren't there.
Anonymous
September 6th, 2016 11:52pm
Nobody cares about me as far as I heard is because I am poor and from a poor family. People don't tend to care for the poor.
ThePsalmist
December 4th, 2017 4:44am
People care about you. =) They may not be expressive enough to show it. The fact the people you don't know are answering this question tells you that people care. =)
Anonymous
September 4th, 2018 2:17pm
It's not that no one cares about you but maybe who you want to care about you just doesn't seem to so you feel that way. Maybe that person does care but not as much as you'd want them to. Also, who needs people? You should care about yourself and that is all that you need in life. Caring and loving yourself would make you free from all other people who make you the way you feel. You should be able to talk to yourself and be your own friend to be happy. That way you aren't dependant on other people to make you feel good or bad.
cucumberjones
November 7th, 2018 2:02am
I struggle with this myself. You just wish somebody would ask how your day was, like genuinely wanted to know and not a pleasantry. I cannot pretend to know your circumstances but I do believe somebody does care about you. It may not be in the way that you want but you have to know that somebody does care even if you cannot see it. Sure, it would be easy if they told you directly or better yet, showed it. I spend most of my day wishing that somebody would care for me the way I do others and it leaves me depleted and exhausted. I know people do care about me, but at the end of the day it feels so lonely. It is not easy but also know that those you care about will care back. Continue to love those around you and it will come back to you, if only in time.
KaoriShimizu
January 21st, 2019 5:51am
Perhaps this is rather cliche, but there is ALWAYS going to be someone, many in fact, who do and will care about you. I for one, care about you. I show this by responding to your question. Some people may give the impression that they don't care, but maybe they just don't understand how to express it. Or perhaps they have no clue that you feel distressed. The best one to care for you, is yourself. When you care for yourself and are secure, you tend to feel less alone. Reaching out more may help you see just how important others think you are. You are welcome to reach out to a trained active listener on here, or perhaps a therapist or counselor.